The power of a big dick

I think it becomes less relevant as you get out of high school (maybe college) and into the real world. In high school and in college both girls and guys are more or less just socializing and experimenting sexually. If you have a big dick it will probably benefit you more in this period than in any other period of your life.

After high school (and for some perhaps college) women’s priorities change. They start to look for different qualities in guys then they did back when they were more immature and sexually experimental. After school stops they are looking for a partner who can support them and provide financially for their future children.

At least that’s my impression.

Girls who have no problem having an orgasm, do not care much about sizes. Those who have trouble getting off, are more likely to look for the big ones: it ends up we work out for fucking the bad ones.. :-)

Not really in what I have seen girls that can orgasm a lot also like big ones in fact girls that really like sex seem to be really turned on by the visual of the big dick but it is true that a girl who has trouble may be able to orgasm with a big one and not with a smaller one.

I don’t believe such low numbers as 4 partners in a lifetime - for men or women. Maybe way back in the day; even then, maybe not. When I was a nightclub bouncer for 2 years, I had dozens of pieces of ass (3 shifts per week x 2 yrs = 300 shifts, and dozens of tangs). Some bouncers there were far more prolific than me (they basically had no standards.

Even after my divorce, I’ve had Dr Jenn, Kelli, Porky the Caterer, & Amanda - that’s 4 right there. I’m currently working on a Mexican gal of 24; not yet, but I’ll be hitting it soon. I also could’ve had (about 98%) that ex-babysitter. I’m not bragging at all, simply saying that 4 in a lifetime is rather low for an average - especially when anonymous surveys indicate how many married people get laid on the side today.

I also agree that men exaggerate up, and women exaggerate down. Many women I’ve known over the years (some intimately, most casually) would usually give some very low number of partners. But as you conversed with them over time, more & more names kept coming up. Strange math, that.

After all, what woman would like to say, “Yeah, I’m 40 and I’ve usually picked up about 2 guys per month for 20 years - so, I’ve had roughly 500 cocks in me.”

Really makes you want to go down on her, huh?

I’m not sure if this has anything to do with the power of my above average dick, might just be the girl.

Anyway, I banged this chick last week, and I bottomed out pretty easily on her, especially in doggy position. It did take some pushing to get my dick inside of her aswell, but it went on quite easily after a while (I know I could use some more girth :) ). However, when we did the missionary, and some variations of it, and I pushed in REALLY deep, she got this weird expression on her face as if I touched something very strange inside of her. She seemed to VERY much enjoy my dick, and tried to push me even deeper, giving the occational weird facial expressions :) . This has certainly given me some more motivation for getting that extra 0.25” length (and girth) that I want.

So… That’s that!

Right, for you who don’t know, my size is currently 7.75x5.5 bp or about 7.25nbp.

I would also like to mildly contest the assertion that having a big dick does not get you word-of-mouth pussy. I believe it does. Not to the extent that half your neighborhood will be pounding on your door, but word certainly gets around.

And para, though you’ve admitted that you’ve later fucked friends of a former girlfriend, I’m surprised that you think your size had nothing to do with that. You couldn’t hardly expect a woman to admit, “Yeah, I fucked you because I heard you had a big dick.”

Most of us agree that a BIG dick is rather rare. And most women have heard about them, probably fantasized about them, etc. I think that if you’re reasonably decent-looking, have decent hygiene and aren’t a raving weirdo, many women would like to try out the novelty of a big dick - if they heard about it. Especially if your sexual performance wasn’t described in horrid terms.

I know that the old buddy of mine with the Clydesdale cock (c. 10 x 6++) used to say that the hardest thing for him was that first lay, in a circle of friends. But once he pounded one, many of her friends soon followed. I also attended many a party with him, back in the day, when he would get drunk and whip it out (his hammer was truly shocking). I can’t count the times that some new chick at a party, who wasn’t paying him any attention, suddenly became like his shadow after she saw it. (to be honest, some gals were also horrified - but 10 x 6++ is somewhat overkill)

Why is it hard to believe that you’ve had more sexual partners than most men and women have? Here ’s a representative survey from 2004. The median number of sex partners reported by women was 3, the median for men 8. So the real median figure for men and for women is probably between those numbers. All the good surveys I’ve seen indicate a number less than 10.

You’re right, I probably overstated my case. I just think that a larger-than-average penis makes only a very small difference (if any) in acquiring sex partners. It makes a more important difference in satisfying those partners, though we all agree that it’s only one factor among many even in that department.

Krowax, nice story!! :thumbs: Sounds like a chick who really loves the sexing :) Are you going to see her again?

I will definately see her again, the thing is that we’ve been seeing each other for a while, and well, none of us wants a serious relationship. We waited too long with the sex, and it was all right, but it kind of made me realize that it WILL get too serious for either her or me, so it’s better to call it off before someone gets hurt. :) . She is damn sexy though.

Furthermore, I like being a free bird! :) .

Maybe I only had slut girlfriends (which I did not dislike at all BTW) but I don’t think I know any girl who only had four lovers. C’mon.

According to this poll, 43.5% of Thunder’s Place members have had 5 or fewer sex partners, and 63.5% have had 10 or fewer sex partners.

The median (50th percentile) reported by Thunder’s members, therefore, is somewhere between 5 and 10 sex partners — which is in agreement with the ABC poll I linked to above, indicating 8 partners reported by the average man (and 3 by the average woman). I find it highly unlikely that men are under-reporting their number of sex partners (that’s about as plausible as their under-reporting dick size!), so unless women are having a lot more sex than men, there are tons of women out there with few lifetime sex partners.

Study shows women will lie about sex.

According to this women can’t be trusted about that. Still though, it does appear women’s’ overall average number of partners is fewer than I would have thought. I wish they would have shown the numbers in detail. The most truthful answer for women looks to be between 4 and 5 partners averaged.

Then our mission is clear!

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Me too. But this is important, I think. Birds of a feather flock together, we are told. And this is very true when it comes to sexual behavior. Sexually active men and sexually active women do tend to flock together. It’s just socialization—the kind of person you are and the kind of people you hang out with.

I would guess that more girls are having more sexual experiences now than in the old days. Everything I see on tv (Oprah, talk shows, etc..) suggests that very young girls are starting their sexual experiences very young. They have “rainbow parties” (blow job parties), etc.. and many young girls now a days consider giving BJs more equivalent to kissing than to having sex. Apparently it’s very common amongst young girls to have “friends with benefits” moreso than ever before.

I read that women used to reach puberty at age 17 about 50-60 years ago and they’d marry much earlier back then (like around 18-20). Now puberty for women begins at age 12 and they’re marrying so much later (like in late 20s to early 30s), so there’s a lot more years that women have to date and experiment sexually before they finally settle down.

If I had to guess what women’s sexual experiences were 15 years ago, I’d probably guess between 2 and 7, but these days from what I’ve read I’d probably guess much higher than that. But that’s just my perception.

Let’s get this thread back on track! This thread is about the power of a Big Dick not about how many sexual partners women have on average.

My girlfriend and I were fooling around on her couch the other day and she said to me as she pulled it out “OMG it’s like 8 inches! It’s huge!” I proceeded with “I have an average penis, it isn’t very big at all.” She then assured me it was and gave me head. It was fun.

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