Volume vs surface

We know that there is a huge difference in volumes of 6x5 and 8x6 dick, however how important it really is? 6x5 has volume of 12 cubic inches and 8x6 has volume of 23 cubic inches. Such numbers definitely look depressing to a smaller guy who is thinking, how can I compete with someone who has the dick twice the size.

Well, if you are not going to use your dicks to hold water/wine/beer the volume number has no significance when it comes to intercourse. The number that we should be interested in is surface area. 8x6 dick is approximately 1.5 times the size of 6x5 dick when it comes to square inches. Vagina only feels the surface of the dick, it doesn’t feel the inside parts of your dick therefore square inches is the number we should be looking at when comparing dick sizes.

Also in my opinion flaccid size has more importance than we care to admit here. It makes a huge difference psychologically when you whip out 6x5 softie as opposed to 4x4 even though they may both be 7x5.5 when erect.
When it comes to girls and dick size, first impression is what counts and if the first time she sees you naked she sees 4x4 she will perceive you as having a small dick.

I agree whole-heartedly. Interesting idea. Great post.

Hmm… Interesting indeed… However, many women can only take around 6.5” of length, so a 6.5x6 may have the same effect (in physical sexual stimulation) than a 8x6, although the surface area (and even volume) is much smaller. Mental stimulation is another issue entirely.

Due to the variables: length and girth, and varying prefrences of size, it’s very hard to determine what exactly is considered big or even adequate whether considering volume or surface area. I suspect that there is a generally accepted small and large sized penis, but would imagine that small would be quite small (eg. 3.5x2) and large would be very large (eg. 10x6.5). Everything else probably resides in the grey area in between and can be labeled either small, average or large.

I’ve heard guys that were praised for their 6.5”x5”ers for being ‘hung’. I’ve had a 7”x5.5” the greater part of my mature life and have mostly been told by women that I’m just ‘ok’. I’m hoping that at 8.5”x6” I’m generally accepted as being large (volume and/or surface) to adequatly stimulate my partner phyically and mentally.

I second, that agreement concerning the importance of flaccid size.

Yes, XXX-Man and drive2000, I agree that flaccid is much more important than it seems. If you’re hung before sex, you are perceived as large.

An idiot with a harvard degree will be percieved as a very smart man, while a genious with a high-school education will have to work like a dog for that same perception.

Fortunately with PE, the flaccid seems to come with the erect size, so it’s win-win.

How can you guys whip out a flaccid penis to init sex? Sounds to me a major insult to the woman you’re with. Clothed foreplay is a major turn on. By the time all the clothes are off, she should be dripping wet and you should be ready to launch your torpedo!

Personally, I gained about 1” flaccid and I don’t like it! I have trouble arranging its positions in my pants. I’d rather have zero flaccid gain and 0.5” more ebpl gain.

Hahaha… That is probably why my sexlife sucks so hard. I can count all my really solid sexual experiences on very few fingers. So she should be very excited before taking off the clothes? Very helpful information.

I get hard very easily (a mere touch or hug can set it off like that), so I’m usually hard before I take off my clothes for a sexual encounter. However, I’m not always hard around females (after sex, for instance, or changing in front of a girl) when the extra hang is more than welcome.

I still like the flaccid meat. Makes my bulge extra bulgey and the feeling of the added weight is pretty cool too.

I would disagree that area is more important than volume.

Although only the surface area of one’s dick that is in direct contact with her vagina it is the volume of it that causes the expansion and pressure on the vaginal walls and “fills her up”.

Just my opinion.

I gotta go with this one here, if you are grindin’ and going at it you already have wood. That is the first impression you are going to give a girl, not naked and flaccid in the shower. Having a nice flaccid hang is nice for the bulge in the jeans and when you are hanging out after sex.

Is the difference between volume and surface area worth debating? They are both larger on a larger penis.

I think that having a bulge in your pants can be visually stimulating for the woman. I personally want a flaccid size that’s near impossible to completely conceal. ;)

….. until you go to prison ….. :spin:

Just kidding. I’m with MDC on this topic!