WARNING!!! before you get a bigger dick.

Please check out the links below.

One of L born’s posts reminded me of something very important that I used to post about occasionally:

No exercises exist to take your dick from 9X7 inches back down to 7X5.5 inches. Make sure you know what you are doing before you grow a monster cock. Make sure you know how to use what you have before you make it even bigger. Yea, I know, some sites claim that 8X6 or even 9X7 is what most women want…this is utter bull sh*t. Women want guys that are empathic, emotionally available, confident, alpha males, that know how to rock their world in bed. A huge cock on top off all of that is pretty damn amazing. Just getting a huge cock will NOT magically make you any of those things. Lots of guys post about how happy all the worlds women would be if the average dick was 8 inches long, once again, utter bull sh*t. Average 8 inch dick AND guys that know hot to use it and understand women? Hell yes!

I have been with one hell of a lot of women, and most felt that, at 5.75"s girth, I was chubby. I have been with lots of women that a girth of "only" 5.75 inches would have been a problem if I had not been very experienced, both in the mechanics of sex and in psychology and communication. Think you want 7 inches girth? Find a can of whatever that is 7 inches around. Look at the damn thing, it’s BIG. Now try and fit it in you mouth… didn’t fit, did it.

Am I saying don’t get a bigger dick? NO! But an 8X6 dick will make you sex life worse….IF you don’t know how to use it. It scares the hell out of me when single, inexperienced guys talk about wanting to get a dick like DLD. Even worse, guys posting about swearing off sex until they hit 8.5X6.5 or some such.

I am truly sorry that some of us here have been traumatized by women. By all means work on getting a bigger dick. But getting a bigger dick in and of its self will NOT automatically make you a good lover or a better person.

PLEASE!!! Check out the links below, especially if you disagree with some of what I wave written.

Self Esteem

Self Improvement in ALL areas….not just your penis….

Shyness and low penis-esteem

Tantric sex

I posted in main members to try and catch as many guys as possible, lurkers as well as members.

iamaru wrote: “But an 8X6 dick will make you sex life worse….IF you don’t know how to use it. “

Real good advice.

You gotta know how to get in, but as they say in poker, you gotta know when to fold - among other very important learned sexual techniques.

Thanks for that, iamaru.

I don’t disagree with anything you said iamaru. In fact I think it is important for guys to know the other side of the story.

But I have a slightly different angle to add;
Although the typical attitude to get bigger because one feels that one is requred to is well, typical, there are other cases where the situation is different.

Take for example the guy who is below average, and has felt lacking in confidence etc his whole life just simply because of this fact. Say he has had an inconsiderate bitch girlfriend once who told him that he’s tiny. As we know this is not an uncommon thing and has happened to innumerable guys both here and out in the real world.

You can imagine how much an increase in size would boost this hypothetical guy’s self esteem levels. It would be a tremendous help in all aspects of his life…

For sombody like this, getting ‘up to scratch’ or even ‘big’ (above average) I see nothing but benefits;

It’s probably a rarer thing to find a woman with a vagina so small that it’s unaccomodating to anything above average, than it is to finding a guy who is 2”. In the case where the guy PE’s to get average or so, there is virtually no danger that he will experience any negative effects.

As for myself… well, I personally believe that adding an inch or so to my girth would be a good thing for both myself and my lover. I already have more length than she can take, so gaining in that respect means nothing to me, since I can’t really go any further.

Just because I’m trying to get bigger doesn’t mean that I will just keep on doing it past the point where she tells me it’s getting uncomfortable. That would be pure opposition to the purpose of PE.
And it also doesn’t mean that I don’t try my best to please her, to learn new techniques and be a better lover overall, it’s just that I think a bit more size would help too…

PE is a great thing and it’s here to help, not hurt. Any gain is a good one, but of course, you have to use common sense, especially when approaching gargantuan proportion ;)

Very true Iamaru. I think a girth of about 5.5 inches is enough to completely fill the vast majority of women out there. 6 inches girth is more than most women will ever experience and will cause pain in a high percentage of females without extreme precaution.

I think people come here and see that a good half of the posters claim girths of 6 inches or more. Unfortunately, they fail to realize that there are 1000’s of people on this forum, but less than 1% of them account for over 99% of the posting. Usually the ones with big dicks are going to feel more confident about giving their size. The member pics cause even more anxiety for the small and average size guys. Once again, most guys will only post a pic if they are significantly larger than average. Although, as of late I have seen a few average and even smaller than average size dick pics which to me is great. If everyone posted a starting pic we would see that most guys are born with less than 6 inches length and less than 5 inches girth. I have seen many studies on dick size and the compelling ones (the ones where the guy didnt measure his own penis) all have the average girth in the 4.75-5.0 range. I personally was 4.9 inches around before I started PE and was convinced my whole life that I had a “baby dick” until I started PE and learned some info about penis size.

Many guys will try and disprove the theory that size isn’t important by quoting some female they heard who made a comment about “so and so’s 10 incher” or how horrible her ex was in bed, he just “had the smallest penis she had ever seen.” Guys, I want to get a big dick too, but I am here today to tell you that all this is bullshit. There are so many reasons why girls make these comments about dick size (most girls don’t, but the few who do). When girls talk about how hung their man is, they are only trying to make their friends envious. If 9/10 boyfriends had dicks over 8 inches, the average size wouldn’t be less than 6 inches would it? I could prove this on an abacus.

I probly won’t quit this stuff no matter how big I get, but not because there’s anything less than perfect about my sexual performance or penis size. I am already bigger than the vast majority of guys, I just want more. For me, damn it! Keep PE’ing, just do it for the right reasons. Even if you are 6 inches, even if you are 4 inches, go out, meet new girls, live your life, and with a little luck you can have some more penis size if you stick with it. Reguards.

-Gandolf

Thanks secjay. You have the advantage of being in a relationship; you can tayler make your unit into what works best with your partner. I just changed the order of the links I posted so that “self esteem” is the first one. It addresses what you have written about.
<…If you feel horrible about your self because you are: fat, skinny, uneducated, misanthropic, shy, babydicked, cruel, bad hair, whatever, AND it is something you can do something about, by all means, work on improving.
If you drop those 70 extra pounds you will feel like a new person, and the world will react differently to you, that’s the feedback. Changing ourselves physically, in a way that the world can see, can have a drastic affect on our self image. We then receive constant input that we are in fact a new and different person. Also, the very process of changing and taking responsibility for oneself can have a profound affect on ones self esteem…>

I started at 6.5X5.5 and can only imagine what it must feel like to go from below average to large. Up to a point, I see no down side what so ever with getting a bigger dick. Going from 4.5X4 to 6X5 would change your whole life… to 7.5X6 might make you less desireable to a very small % of women. The vast majority will love it. Going on up to 9X7 will eliminate some women from your potential partners, and will be a nightmare if you don’t know how to use it.

I know we have talked about all this sh*t before, but with a whole new crop of guys talking about how getting huge i thought it should be brought back up.

And yes, I am still aiming for 9”s minimum length.

I have been with a shit load of women in my “career” and at 6.5-7 BP x 5 the vast majority have either said i am large, thick, or made no comment. Never had one complaint about size.

I actually didn’t start worrying about size really until I came here…..if that makes sense, and probably from watching porn and shit like that. PE is purely an ego thing for me…

I dont want much….1 to 2 inches on length and another 1/2-3/4 on girth.

I have always been an extremely confident person with women…sometimes probably too confident. THere might be other areas where im not as confident, but that always seems second nature to me.

Iamaru’s links are dead on though….you have to have confidence from within….you have to know what you are doing….or at least “fake it until you make it.”

iamaru

Another excellent post from you! But I want the nightmare dick a 9x7 monster that will scare some but really please some others.
I know how to use my 8x6.5 and I knew how to use my original sized dick. But I agree with you size don’t matter if you can’t last or you going to jab away at some poor girls pussy until you shoot your load. With a bigger dick comes more responsibility to make sure you don’t hurt your partner. And at 6.5 girth I still get blow jobs, if your girl likes to give head she will find a way if she don’t it will be the perfect excuse not to.

Dino

My girl is admittadly inexperienced in the art of the blowjob. plus the fact that the head barely fits in there and she gets a sore jaw after about 1 minute of attempting…

Not to mention that I don’t really see the allure of the blowjob. Just doesn’t feel like much to me.

So it is no great loss if I get so big that it’s completely out of the question….

In fact, I would much rather use the ultimate hole-stretcher on her other more fun bits. Who wants a floppy mouthed-woman anyways?? :D LoL

A new quote: “With great size comes great responsibilty”
(anyone know spiderman? hehe)

One thing we have to remember, obviously, is that PE’ing is a gradual thing. You’re not going to wake up tomorrow with a 1-2 inch bigger dick. So, if you’re married or with one girl, the vagina will adjust to your size gains.

I’m one of the ‘small’ guys. Started PE with 5.5 EBPL, 4.75 girth. Never had any complaints from women, but then again, never had any wows either.

I’m doing this for my own self-esteem, but I’m not looking to get an 8”-9” dick. My goal is around 7” length and 5, 5 1/2 girth. Of course, if during my growing I start getting complaints of discomfort from my wife, I’ll stop.

I do enjoy getting BJ’s and even now, with 4.75, my wife has trouble going any longer than 10 minutes. The oral cavity is just not that big, and let’s face it, was not designed to have a penis in it.

So, really, this is a wait-and-see process. I don’t know how much I’ll grow or how much will becomce uncomfortable for my wife. But being that it is a very gradual process, there will be time to sit back and assess what’s happening.

Great posts everyone!

iamaru - thanks!

Gandolf - you made some very important points to remember, btw - looking at the members pics and the posts stating measurements I sometimes get discouraged cause it seems the average size here is at least 7.5” - 5.5” and it’s not.

Why do I suddenly feel like a psycho:D

Great post

You already have a woman that can take it and enjoy it, which we all know from the lovely pictures and wonderful squirting stories. And I have to believe that you also already know how to use your weapon. I think that that is all this post is basically saying is, learn how to use what you already have before turning it into a Louisville Slugger or you’ll never be able to truly please a woman or at least not the large (no pun intended) majority of them. Well, you do have a Slugger but it doesn’t seem to be holding you back.

I HAVE IMPROVED THOSE OTHER ASPECTS OF MY LIFE, AND NOW I HAVE TWO MORE GOALS TO ACHIEVE. 1. GET INTO THE 10”+ DICK CLUB, AND 2. BECOME A MULTIMILLIONARE

I think alot of this comes down to pride and ego. Believe it or not i think size means less when you are single. But let’s asume you are completely in love as I am.
1.you spend a month or so screwing with reckless abandon.
2.then comes the guy’s ” (him) so honey how about my size” / ” (her) oh sweetie it’s fine for me” / “(him)fine - what does fine mean” / “i(her)t’s perfect” / “(him)you mean you’ve had bigger” / “(her)well ya but it doesn’t matter to me”

then the anxiety sets in. and all of a sudden you picture in your mind that angelic face that you love so much and those l;ips you kiss goodnight……………………..GETTING CRAMMED WITH A TOOL THAT MAKES YOUR SEEM LIKE A BABY CARROT!

sorry for the gross analogy, but i think if a guy had to pick between the two statements
1.honey your penis is perfect for me - it’s just fine
or
2.sometimes it hurts a little but i still love it

we all know which we want to hear!

it’s like getting beaten in a car race…………..you value the size of your engine, and when some other guy rolls up and makes you look stupid - you wanna work on it right? in fact - i drive a mustang GT and my GF loves it. but then she started telling me about an ex’s vette! irritated me bigtime…………..get my flow?

or am i just obsessing……lol?

:rofl: