WARNING!!! before you get a bigger dick.

I am only 19 and a virgin, so this post probably applies to me, All I did was jerk off 2 times and do 30-80 kegels every day to increase blood flow. That along with eating zinc and working out every day caused it to grow. Now, at 7.1Nbp 6.7bp 6g I am afraid that I may be too big for some women.

Sometimes it’s hard to just “accept” things and “change your mind” about yourself. Sometimes you need something tangible to get you to start believing.

Like, if you’re a fat sack of shit, and feel bad about it, just “changing your outlook” on it ain’t gonna fix it. You’ll just be lying to yourself. So you start working out… and you start to see tangible results… then you start to feel a bit better about things. You can SEE it and FEEL it. That’s when it’s real.

If you’re chained to the floor of a trench filled up to the kneecaps with shit, you can do all the positive thinking you want and you know what? You’re still chained up knee-deep in shit. Crawl out.

you do know i am talking about the girth of my penis, right prickle?

LOL… that was funny. Maybe we should add a new PE exercise at Thunder’s -> wad-cardio, to be done if you develop a wad-belly :D

Prickle,

“Like, if you’re a fat sack of shit, and feel bad about it, just “changing your outlook” on it ain’t gonna fix it. You’ll just be lying to yourself.”

This is a tricky subject. In my experience, people often have problems and decide to change as a solution. This is personal growth and is (IMO) generally good. The problem lies with that person’s individual perception of the solution. The preceived solution can often be unrelated to the actual problem and thus not be effective at solving the problem at all.

A fat man may feel depressed because he is lonely and doesn’t get dates, and perceives weight-loss as a solution to his depression. But being skinny or even muscular does not guarentee dates. While it may make him more physically attractive and thus increase the chances of getting dates, unless he improves his confidence, hygene, knowledge, conversational skills, etc, he may find himself with as many dates as he had when he was overweight.

Similarily, a big dick isn’t going to give you confidence. It *may* make sex more pleasurable, but it isn’t going to help you talk to that latin hottie that you saw during lecture. Positive change, yes. Effective solution, no.

So, I agree that change is good, but I must state that in order for change to be effective, one must know the TRUE problem and then find the TRUE solution to that problem. Until one knows exactly where one is going, one will likely be travelling in the wrong direction.

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iamaru
No exercises exist to take your dick from 9X7 inches back down to 7X5.5 inches. Make sure you know what you are doing before you grow a monster cock. Make sure you know how to use what you have before you make it even bigger. Yea, I know, some sites claim that 8X6 or even 9X7 is what most women want…this is utter bull sh*t.

Very true. Important points to consider.

secjay
Take for example the guy who is below average, and has felt lacking in confidence etc his whole life just simply because of this fact. Say he has had an inconsiderate bitch girlfriend once who told him that he's tiny. As we know this is not an uncommon thing and has happened to innumerable guys both here and out in the real world.

An excellent point. Going from average or slightly above to bigger may not seem so great, but going from tiny to average or slightly above might mean all the difference in the world to a guy.

Gandolf
I think a girth of about 5.5 inches is enough to completely fill the vast majority of women out there. 6 inches girth is more than most women will ever experience and will cause pain in a high percentage of females without extreme precaution.

True. When I went over 6” midshaft girth it was a double-edged sword. At times it gave my wife extreme stimulation (when she was super-wet & very horny), but other times it hurt. On more than a few occasions she has complained to me the morning after.
My story in a nutshell is this: Since I was 15 I was a tall kid. In my late teens, early 20’s I was even taller - and very built. Also had big hands, big feet….no big meat. I’d always been somewhat self-conscious about my penile size - especially in proportion to the rest of me (that’s the key, I believe, to my dissatisfaction). A unit of 6.5 x 5.2 certainly isn’t small - but it looked like a french fry on a muscleman in my case. I’d overheard too many women speculating that I was hung like a horse - and, needless to say, it ate at my insides.
Like 99% of the world, I believed it was never, ever possible to add even 1 mm to my size, so I swallowed the bitterness & moved on, actually enjoyed some pussy along the way also.
But as I reached 36, 37 I noticed that my penis seemed a little shorter & I was having some erectile difficulties. I measured & sure enough, I lost about 3/8” - down to 6.12” length, but girth was the same (5.2”). But I was motivated to do some searching because of the E.D. - and found PE, the rest is history.
I’m now (over) 7.2” x (almost) 6.2” [going to measure in 3 weeks]. But I”m like a kid in a candy store. I just can’t believe that all of this is real. I’ve now got a dick that’s 2/3 bigger than when I was a young buck! It utterly amazes me. I just want to keep going, I guess. I would like to take my cock from 14 cubic inches to 28 cubic inches - then hang it up.

Hmmm, I would be more confident talking to the “hot latino” if I had a bigger penis. I am average length but have pretty good girth. I also suffer from retarded ejaculation. I know, I know any guy who suffers from premature ejaculation would see this as a gift and so would some women. One girl I was seeing years ago told me to stop as she was hurting due to thickness. She told me she was so sore the next day that she had to take the day off work. I felt really good, not that I hurt her but that I was one of the (if not THE) biggest she had been with. I have no doubt she told her friends why as they told each other everything, as young girls do.

From then on I noticed the friends checking me out and flirting a lot more. One in particular seemed intent on getting a glimpse, whenever my girlfriend would masturbate be discretely in a bar/niteclub/house this girl would always be over trying to get a look, or she would burst into the room when she knew we were at it. I am shy but I was far more confident talking to her friends from then on. If I was 10x7 and chatting a girl up I would be more confident imagining the look on her face when she sees my monster.

I would love to have a “hung reputation”. In saying all that, I do believe 10x7 is too much for the majority of women BUT I do think they would like to try it once, I remember reading some magazine and one girl said she went with a guy with a big penis just to experience it, she knew it would hurt but wanted to experience what it would be like.

Guys talked about the girlfriend saying “you’re perfect, but I have had bigger”. I want to be the “bigger guy” that they are talking about and will never forget. I want to bump into women in 20 years and have them try it on for old times sake since they are now stuck with mr average for years. I think having a “hung reputation” would lead to more possible encounters and so a better chance of finding your perfect mate for life.

This may sound odd but I would prefer a woman not to be able to give me a blowjob than to get one, just hearing her say “its too big for my mouth” would be great, she could always just lick it anyway!

I think 8x6.5 is big enough but if I ever reach it I know I will want more even though most women won’t. Most women may think they want a big one just like you always hear women saying they want a man who can go all night. Well I CAN go all night due to retarded ejaculation, but I find most women can’t make it past an hour!

Trigger,

You’re post inspired me to start "The Great Big Penis, Big Confidence Debate" thread. I’d love to hear more of your input in it, as I think you could contribute greatly.

The Great Big Dick, Big Confidence Debate

I still want to get to 7.5 inches girth even if i cant get blow jobs anymore. Its just a big power trip to me.

You dont want to hurt the damn girl. I get my girl off many, many times every time we have sex. I love her. I would never want to hurt her. She calls my 7+ x 5.25+ dick big. I have hit her cervix before. I have caused her pain. I have made her sore after 4 hours of fucking. If you can fuck a girl as long as you want, you WILL make her sore no matter what size you are. Aim for stamina if you want the ego boost that your girl could barely walk the next day.

Funny that we all spent most of our lives believing we were “stuck” with our natural starting size. Now we learn that this isn’t true - we can grow our units! It calls into question every rule we have ever embraced!

So what do we do now? We resign ourselves to the same old way of thinking: If I grow a large penis, I am stuck with with a large penis for life.

My silly PE brothers, have you learned nothing from this eye-opening, life-altering experience? When will this finally sink in:
Nothing is impossible.

8x6 is MORE than sufficient, I think.

I bought my GF a dildo that’s 8x6 and every time we use it, it takes the wind out of her. But for some unexplained reason, she tells me to keep going….what does that prove? ;)

Wow, I just finished reading this whole thread. There are a lot of “ex members” here, and by the way they sound, I’m glad they’re gone. :)

If you want a bigger dick to boost your confidence, then you’re making a big mistake. That physical smallness you feel about your dick now will turn into smallness of your entire soul once you have your monster cock. That’s the risk we all run in boosting our size a few inches…our outward ugliness can so easily turn inward, and once it does, it WILL (not can, WILL) penetrate every aspect of your life…and once it happens, there’s no reversing it. It only gets worse and worse…

Trust me, if you’re PEing, PE for the sake of PE. Do NOT base your entire confidence (or even a good chunk of it) on the fact of you getting a bigger dick, because trust me, it will kill you in the end.