WARNING!!! before you get a bigger dick.

Well, after “lurking” for a few weeks, I must jump in here and start contributing.

I’m brand new to PE and am encouraged by everything I have read. It seems like a great bunch of guys who are willing to share and for that I am grateful……………

I’ll say that I am about to embark on this journey for myself only. I have had a limited number of partners in my life (am 39), but because of shyness have missed out on many more opportunities. It’s all about confidence in this world, and PE is just another goal in my life that I beleive is worth achieving. Like anything else, when you see results, up goes the confidence. And I won’t kid you, part of my lack of confidence in the past has been this percieved lack of size (BTW, 5.25 NBPEL, 6.0 BPEL, 4.5 EG), and how with certain women I would never be able to satisfy them. I do not want to miss out anymore on opportunities that present themselves……………..I agree, a bigger unit in of itself, ain’t going to do anything for you if you have not developed the rest of yourself…………….Here’s to success!!

B&W;

Glad you decided to come out of the Lurk Closet.

You’ll do just fine. Do PE for you and make your own decisions along the way.

Lots of help here if you need it. Keep us posted, now that you’ve opened your door.

blackandwhite

Well you took the first step to stop being shy by posting and you also took your first step to a bigger dick, welcome to thunders the home of warm beer and tasteless conversation.

Dino

blackandwhite wrote:

:I’m brand new to PE and am encouraged by everything I have:
:read. It seems like a great bunch of guys who are willing to:
:share and for that I am grateful……………:

<clap clap clap> Glad to hear of your encouragment! The guys here really *are* a great bunch :D

:I have had a limited number of partners in my life (am 39), but:
:because of shyness have missed out on many more:
: opportunities.:

Same here… I’m 28 and have only had 2 partners (my first being at age 21). Shyness can really be a killer, can’t it <shrug> I hated being shy, but having a bigger dick has helped my self confidence immensely (YMMV). Women notice me more where they didn’t in the past, not because of my dick, but because I accept myself for who I am, not because of who someone else is. Have faith in yourself; it’s the most important thing.

:It’s all about confidence in this world:

Now you’ve hit the nail right on the head there! If you’ve got the confidence/self-love for yourself then if you have a 4” dick, it won’t matter because you love you for you. See what I’m gettin’ at? :) Comparing yourself to others is illogical and can only do yourself harm if you base your existence on it.

:And I won’t kid you, part of my lack of confidence in the past has:
:been this percieved lack of size (BTW, 5.25 NBPEL, 6.0 BPEL, 4.5:
:EG), and how with certain women I would never be able to:
:satisfy them.:

I had the same perception with myself, even though my starting stats are apparently pretty good. I used to always worry if people were bigger but I now realise that it’s really of no consequence in the big scheme of things. Just be happy with yourself and keep PE’ing if you believe it’ll help your self-confidence.

Regards
BananaMan

blackandwhite,

Your comment “I’ll say that I am about to embark on this journey for myself only” is the perfect attitude to have as you enter the wild, wonderful world of PE. For information and support, you have come to the right place.

My stats about two years ago were similar to yours, and since then I’ve gained about 2+ inches in both erect length and girth. Most importantly for me, my flaccid size gains have been even more dramatic - from “grower” now to “proud show-er”.

You said “I agree, a bigger unit in of itself, ain’t going to do anything for you if you have not developed the rest of yourself…..”. This is also an incredibly important variable in the equation of a successful life. Other than my dissatisfaction with my dick size for most of my life, I have been pretty happy and feel accomplished in just about all areas of my life. Getting a larger dick has just been the icing on the cake, so to speak.

I wish you well, and while you work on naturally enhancing the size of your dick, don’t neglect enhancing the rest of your personal life.

Best…
Peforeal

This is very true. Sometimes I feel that, paradoxically, there is actually something very powerful in our shortcomings (like physical ones), if we except them and come to peace with them. Because this sends an extremely powerful message: I except myself for who I am, I am not obsessed about how I look, I love myself. This message is very attractive to the other sex.

That would be me !! Except that Im going for 3.5 inches more than 8.5 in lenght !! hehe

I have to agree with those of you saying that “if I had a larger member my life would have been different etc….). I myself was not thinking of size until a rude comment came from one of my “friends” when I was about 17. Gee! what a small dick you have!

After that my selfestime went south. I became shy towards female contact, was not before. Several years later I met a girl becoming my wife later. I gradually got more and more confident that my size was ok until I was set back again. I have posted this before a long time ago but to be short, she had an e-mail affair with an ex of hers, telling him how she had been longing for a huge one for 11 years! Man that just made it for me.

I then desided to do something about it and found this forum. have been peing since. Have not gained anything, at least not measurable yet, but will be going until I do so,

However, a friend of mine that I know for sure having a dick almost the same size of mine got laid in quantities unbelievable. I asked him how he managed and the answer was quite suitable for this discussion: “I may have a small dick, but I have a big dick mentality!!”

BTW
my msr. are about 6.7X5.1

ER

However, a friend of mine that I know for sure having a dick almost the same size of mine got laid in quantities unbelievable. I asked him how he managed and the answer was quite suitable for this discussion: “I may have a small dick, but I have a big dick mentality!!”

That’s a good I like that one, hopefully soon you can have both. Dam that sucks with the comment the wife made, and that other heartless bitch.

I just your stats you are bigger than average, crazy bitches

How long have you been pe’ing if you need any advice just ask.

Dino

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Dino9X7
“…but I have a big dick mentality!!”

I hate my mental view :(

DLD

Bro you have the biggest dick on the boards and would be one of the biggest guys in porn and yet you still manage to have a small dick mentality. Don’t change it adds to your charm I think that’s why your well liked by all on the board. You don’t strut around like you have an 11 inch dick and we don’t.

Dino

Thanks to all for the words of encouragement. Will do my best to contribute as I gain experience……..as the saying goes, “a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step”

b&w

I really like the way you think!

What DLD wrote. You have a great attitude for PEing, so many guys show up, want to gain 2 inches fast before a big date, and then….?

Expect to see you still posting in half a year.

Hi, someone recently reminded me of these three posts and suggested that I bump them for the new guys.

Peace

Self Esteem

PE’ers as role models

lol, starting girth was actually 5.5"s for me, according to Sizes data base. I was one of those that didn’t like to measure at all untill I started gaining. Guess we can tell where I was at girth wise when I started this thread.