What do your wives or girfriends think about PE?

Mine supports me in it. I’d say she understands but seems to be uninterested. Like someone else here said, she says I’m perfect the way I am, blah blah blah.

I have beed PEing for 3 to 4 years. Off and on for the last couple years. I was going through huge depression and insecurity problems, which was effecting everthing in my life, and I blamed it all on my penis size. She is OK with it because she knows I need to do it for my own silly reasons to make me feel better about myself. My wife loves me for who I am, thank god. But I know she enjoys sex, more intensely, with a larger penis. Yes, god screwed me over with my penis size, but he made up for it by giving me my wife. I don’t think I would be happier (in the long run) with a big penis and not having my wife. She is my soul mate, best friend, and lover. I can’t ask for more.

Some Jackass sent my wife his pics via “myspace”. One of the pics was his dick. He quoted 9” in length, which I believe after seeing the photo. I would say by estimating the length relationship to his hand and his keyboard, that his girth was about 5”.

Well, of course my wife had to send it to her best girlfriends for review. Later in the day, I overheard the girls talking about it. My wife said that she didn’t like it at all. She said it looked long but too skinny. She likes “the thickness more than long”. She actually told the girl that she thought mine was “about perfect”! That I had “a beautiful shape and just right in thickness”. Don’t think my heads weren’t swelling on that one!

I knew that my wife was very supportive of my PE. I knew that she said (to me) that she was very happy with my size. But after eavesdropping, God forgive me, I felt very good about my size and have since re-evaluated my growth plan and goals. I have ordered some golf weights and started jelqing again. Her first words were, “well I better get you some lube from Wal-Mart tomorrow then, huh big boy”. Yeeeeehhhhaawwwww! Game on!

Well I finally got my tent back online - had 3 guests staying in it before. I had still been doing PE, but had to retreat to almost a stealth mode, due to lack of privacy at the moment. One of the things that this made difficult was measuring properly - like a lot of PEers, I find it difficult to keep at 100% erection while getting the ruller and tape in the correct position.

Anyway, had a shag in the tent today, and afterwards got wifey to pass me the ruler. Does it look any bigger, I ask. Yes definitely, she says, not a lot, but yes! So the work continues :D

Devass,

Sounds like you are a lucky guy (to have the wife you do) and with your head on straight to boot. I wish you luck on your depression issues. I’ve battled my own demons in the past, fortunately not so much now.

I have always been in stealth mode in regard to PE. I don’t expect my wife would think much of it, probably just the opposite. So I’ll just continue to lay low.

My wife and I were recently talking about sex (rare for us) and I learned that my wife gets sore from inter-course (even if she is well-lubed and after lengthy oral). She doesn’t like lengthy sessions. I wondered if it could be because of my size as I am over 8” (I measure 9 1/2 on BPFSL), not sure what my girth is, it seems to vary a lot. I could see her getting mad if she knew I was trying to make it bigger and she thought that my size was the problem making her sore.

dan,

I have to wonder too - why try to make it bigger, given that your wife doesn’t quite enjoy it (= you getting less)?

mgus,

For me, PE is no more than trying to maintain a healthy penis any more. I have no one to impress with a big dick. No one will see it and frankly, at this stage of my life, it’s a lot more work than I want to expend for something I would get very little from.

But I do enjoy the forum and the variety of topics that come up.

Actually.. My wife is kinda annoyed.. We’ve been together 15 years now.. Never had a problem with sex. She most always cums 2 to 6 times.. I am very versed in foreplay and intercourse. I’m only average sized.. About 5 3/4” length. So she’s confused at why I would want to torture myself trying to make it bigger. She’s disappointed because she had just been getting the hang of deepthroating what I have. She’s also not sure she’ll want to give me anal access anymore if I keep up the PE’s. (Hrmm.. Choices.. Bigger dick, or continued DTing and anal from my wife.)

So I’m not really sure.. It must be just a man thing wanting a bigger better dick, and the commercials on TV are playing up to it. In truth, I’ve fucked over 50 different chicks in my time ( I really did lose count). I love pleasing chicks and don’t enjoy sex unless they have multiple orgasms.. I’ve only met 2 chicks that I wasn’t able to fully satisfy. Hey, it happens. I guess the point I’m trying to make is, that if a chick, can make another chick cum, then ya gotta know, it’s not about the dick. It’s about charm, finesse, being in tune with your score. Knowing how to swoon her, seduce her. Make her so hot for you, that by the time you actually touch her, she’s already on the verge of orgasm. And it doesn’t matter if you just met her, or if you’ve been together 15 years, they still get hot the same ways.

And remember this.. The diferance between a pick up line, and a compliment, is sincerity. Find the traits you like about her, and complement them. Make her feel sexy and beautiful. This works on most all woman.

To me, that would be a very easy choice.

“So I’m not really sure.. It must be just a man thing wanting a bigger better dick, and the commercials on TV are playing up to it.”

You know why most guys PE? Because these words are spoken, but never heard!

Holy Crap Danmanky,

You’re 9 1/2 BPFSL. You say that you’re definitely over 8” EL but not sure how big? You say that you’re wife is sore from sex sometimes?

Can you tell me why you want a bigger cock again?

Of course, I can’t blame you. I would LOVE to accidentally kill my girlfriend with my cock.

HA!

I totally had you pegged for an 80’s D-50 or DX7 aficionado! Wow. That truly IS amazing.
It’s off topic, I know, but dang… I SCARE myself sometimes.

I haven’t told a girl I’ve been seeing about PE, but she asked me if I was taking that pill extenze. I’ve been seeing her since November, we only screw around, but when I told her I’m not taking anything she laughed and said “bullshit!”. Well no need to say I have been beaming ever since!

I won’t tell her. I want her to ask:

H: hey,.. mmm.. Nothing.. mmm.. Your dick looks bigger.
M: what? What do you mean?
H: have you been taking drugs?
M: what, are you crazy? Oh yes as if it could just get bigger. Is the same as always.. You are the one taking drugs
M: OK, dicks are like hair and nails, they just keep growing all life.

My wife is all for it, I work off-shore and am relatively new to PE. I started the first of the year and was away from home 3 months. My gains were beyond what I thought was possible for the relatively short period of time that I practiced the routines.

When I got home, my wife was all over me. I actually had to stop the exercises while I was home, she couldn’t keep her hands off me. Just going into my routine would excite her and I would have to take care of business. She actually wanted to help, got her doing the manual stretches for me. She likes the new size and wants me to continue with the growth. She is a believer and so am I. I am back off-shore and into my routine, I can except the fact that when I’m home, the exercises will have to stop. She is such a convert to the whole idea, she did some research for exercises that will benefit her and got right into it. Thanks to the old timers here and the keepers of the website.