What Length Is Needed To Hit The Cul De Sac

Stop derailing threads. We have progress reports and the PM function for these questions. This is a bad habit you have and I know you’ve told to stop before.

I am going to vote 8”bpel. Maybe 7” will do the trick too, I personally experienced it with prostitutes since I was a teenager with 19cm nbpel, around 8”bp, and my guess is they were actually pretty aroused or at least “conditioned?”, because I only go to cheap prostitutes which have a lot of clientelle every day (probably over 3 people each day, depends only how much actual sex is there actually).

I voted 8 inches bpel because reaching the cul de sac and hitting the cervix isn’t the same thing. To go past the cervix into the cul de sac area you need a little extra length in my experience. Ι wasn’t able to do it when i was 7.5-7.6 bpel, but i think i did it once now at 7.9-8 bpel. Its totally different from hitting the cervix directly and the girl’s reaction is different as well.

With more length i will be able to do it more easily and there is something about going deep, which excites me.

I am not exactly familiar with this cul de sac, maybe I will be in due time, this was my opinion for the moment based on when I saw discomfort from her or when I actually felt somethingh tighter or something…

Hello,

In my experience there is no length that answers that question. Obviously the longer you are, the greater chance you have of hitting the end of the cul de saq on more women, but all women - just like all men are different.

For example, my ex wife was about 5’6” and 130 pounds. There were many positions we couldn’t have sex in because it hurt her. She could only fit about half my dick in her mouth before gagging so my 7.5 inches of BPEL was more than enough.

My current wife is 5’ 100 pounds and is just a tiny little thing. She can take every inch I can give her and in my opinion would enjoy about an inch more. During blow jobs, she can press her lips to my abs and swallow 7.5 inches of dick like it’s nothing. She has absolutely zero gag reflex, which I love!

Moral is - my dick is the same and provides two very different results for two ladies.

When I was first with my new wife, I thought I was going to tear her in half. It just wasn’t the case.

Lucky for me, I’m the first guy she has ever been with sexually so she doesn’t know what an extra inch would be like.

I see some talking about their girls enjoying being “bottomed out” in theory but finding it unpleasant in practice, and others seeing their women being both pained by it and enjoying it.. That’s because there are two types of sexual arousal: the physical, and the psychological.

Psychologically, having one’s vagina’s filled up and being pounded to the bottom is extremely sexy. And so that in itself arouses the woman, even if the direct physical feeling of it is sometimes less than enjoyable. Physically, you can make a woman cum by simply stroking her clitoris, g-spot, or deep spot. Psychologically, however, women cum through domination, through being used and abused and being made to feel lesser and helpless and degraded and all that. And being shoved by a big dick or rough pounding is just part of that. Orgasm can be achieved through either or both, and very often the psychological ends up eliciting a physical response.

I remember watching some interview with some porn chick. And she was like, “bring me Ramon,” because he was one the talents there. And the guy was like, “You know he’s huge, right? He’s gonna destroy you.” But the girl said she’d been fantasizing about him for a while and masturbating to his videos ever since she did her first scene with him. She said yeah he would hurt her and make her sore, but that was still hot. For the record, I have a pic of Ramon being measured and he’s somewhere between 7.5 and 8”. The girl in question was BBW so she probably felt a lesser impact.

But physically speaking, it’s hard to have it all. If you get too long, you can’t go in balls deep into some women, you can’t “pound” and “smash” that pussy with reckless abandon anymore, which is unfortunate because that kind of “uncaring” screwing plays a part in the “psychological arousal”. At the same time, if you’re just average, you won’t be filling up plenty of women, though you can still size-dominate them if you’re thick enough. The ideal length size is the one that ends right at her cervix, that way you can pummel hard and carelessly and also fill her up. Alas, one woman’s wall is another’s non-wall.

It would’ve been great if all females had the same vagina length and structure. That way we know where that sweet spot in length (that enables both reckless pounding and filling) would be, and we’d all aim to a definitive size. But with the female variations, it’s somewhere between 6.5” and 7.5” (NBP) if you go all in. And wherever you stop in that range, it’s impossible to achieve both with most women. I’m around 6” (NBP) right now, and once I comfortably exceed 6.5” I’ll take it easy with the length exercises and refocus all my efforts on girth.

Welcome to Thunders Jimbo25!

Maybe, however some women have reconciled their past and have broken the chains that bind them back to such a mentality.

I am currently moving past the cervix and hitting the “deep spot”. If this caused my wife pain she would tell me to hit the road. She would most likely say, “that hurts, let’s switch positions.” She doesn’t connect pain and sexual enjoyment.

She’s a very free and confident woman. It either gives her pleasure or it hurts and she lets me know.

No games.

Thanks.

Yes, sometimes pain is just plain painful. But typically, women get psychologically aroused by being “overwhelmed” in some way, by feeling feminine in contrast to the masculine. But if it’s really uncomfortable, then it is, and it can ruin the whole submissive fantasy or state of mind. Kind of like when you try to sweep her off her feet and lift her, and then you do it awkwardly, lose balance, or hit her head, and she’s like, “Yeah okay, you can put me down now.”

On the psychological note, even for us on the giving end, it plays a role. Sure, the ideal would be a girl who could take it all which would be her maximum, but there is also the ego-boost if a bit has to stay out in the cold. Sure it would be nice if it were inside too, but knowing you are “too much” for a girl can be a good thing too.

The ideal for me would be to see my dick poke out of her stomach creating a belly bulge way above her belly button almost around the ribs. Like I have seen in big dick amateur porn. It’s extremely arousing to see you are moving stuff around inside her stomach.

As long as she’s not in discomfort. What’s a turn on for me is that I can go balls deep and pound without her in pain. It’s all pleasure.

Naturally, ofcourse the girls are having pleasure like never before with the belly bulge.

You know that first hand?

No man, sadly my penis isnt long enough or the girls havent been short enough, (in the amateur big dick porn).

It’s porn. That should not be the source as to whether the lady is enjoying it or not.