I have been doing PE and pumping for about two months. During the day, I do it mostly in the bathroom using an interesting book as an excuse. This limits my sessions to 10-15 minutes. I also do it at night, using the bathroom to warm up and a session of PE. I then start vacuum pumping which I finish-up in bed while my wife sleeps. I return to the bathroom for some warm down jelqing. Sometimes two sessions at night.
It works best if I finish up early morning so I can cuddle up to my wife and press my enhanced package against her backside which helps the warm down.
I have ED so I brought the pump out once when I was having erection problems to show my wife the benefits. She was not terribly impressed and cautioned me not to hurt myself. She also suggested I check with a doctor.
I’m sure she knows I am still doing it because the equipment is kept in a draw in the bathroom and she certainly must feel the temporary growth. Until she actually mentions something about any size I will continue stealth PE and pumping,