Why I started PE

Yeah man, if you marry this chic, you’ll be sorry. Size queens are never satisfied. They are always out for the BBD (Bigger Better Dick). You wont listen and I know, “what the hell do I know”. I’m sorry but I know more about it than you can ever want to know. Getting your penis bigger should be an option not a demand

“so what are we going to do about this size issue?”

Tell her, fucking her is like fucking a bucket full of luke-warm water.

I think you all need to read the original post a few more times.

I don’t think she’s a “size queen” by saying what she did. Sounded like an innocent joke, even if it didn’t come off like it. For all we know she was talking about flaccid vs erect size, which I think is far more likely than her referring to some inadequacy on his part. One thing I feel certain of is that she wasn’t trying to hurt him when she said it.

He says he’s marrying her and is happy about it. Why try to destroy that? So what if she slept with esac and previous boyfriends? Esac is the one suggesting celibacy for 6 months? She probably does feel bad about premarital sex, even if she’s willing to do it. Esac’s plan is to surprise her on the wedding night with his “improved” penis, and I say go for it!

Tough call on this issue, but I would lean toward MDC’s comment. Give her the benefit of the doubt. I think a lot of the comments by others was bourne out our natural penile insecurities. If the woman is still willing to marry him knowing what kind of package he has, then she can’t be entirely unsatisfied.

As for Esac, how does she feel to you bro? Still reasonably tight in there? If you are feeling pretty good and you feel the sex has been good, then just do what you are doing and don’t worry about it. If you are in love, there aint nothing better!

GOTTABHUGE!

esac,

Technically speaking, here’s what I would do for the biggest gains possible in a 6 month period.

Hanging for length and base girth. Supplement this in the second month with BTC stretches, and in the third month with a BTC ADS device.

Dry jelquing and Ulis after the hanging sessions for upper shaft and head girth.

If you still feel sore on a rest day ( or any day ), take the next day off too.
It’s still healing and therefore still getting bigger! Don’t do too much.

esac,

Psychologically speaking, why DID she ask you that question? Can you ask her now what she expected you to do about it? Maybe she does know about PE.

Also how much money do you make? From your first post, I don’t see any love coming from her, and it’s been posted here about the contradicting statements she’s making. I don’t want to annoy you but knowing nothing else about her, I have to be suspicious seeing from what I so far know and ask you if she is marrying you for your money.

:-k

Guys, size matters to chicks at least she is honest about it and will support his PE. I would still go with the bang her in the ass advice though :)

Actually she is the only woman I have ever been able to cum while wearing a condom with .. it’s a lot looser than my ex, but still doable. I think she had more length, and not much more girth before.

She isn’t marrying me for my money .. I make a bit, but she can make more than me very easily doing wedding photography @ $7000/day sessions. She doesn’t schedule that many, but if she wanted to, she could.

I talked to her about why she asked, and what it came down to is she didn’t think I had an insecurity with my penis size. I didn’t. I had always satisfied every woman i’ve been with. In fact because I didn’t let the original response that her previous 4 boyfriends were bigger than me get to me, she figured that she could tease a little. She didn’t expect me to do anything about it, but she was hoping to bring up those sexual positions that help women who have had bigger guys in the past. She just went about it the wrong way.

>>>>>I talked to her about why she asked, and what it came down to is she didn’t think I had an insecurity with my penis size. I didn’t. I had always satisfied every woman i’ve been with. In fact because I didn’t let the original response that her previous 4 boyfriends were bigger than me get to me, she figured that she could tease a little. She didn’t expect me to do anything about it, but she was hoping to bring up those sexual positions that help women who have had bigger guys in the past. She just went about it the wrong way.<<<<<

See, it helps a helluva lot to talk things through before they fester. I’ve got good experience in learning that lesson, a wrecked ten year marriage! Just keep talking and you’ll be fine. A bigger dick down the road will be a bonus for you and her.

GOTTABHUGE!

esac,

Stop screwing around, man! Are you out of your mind? This is your future wife we’re talking about here - your marriage! Using your wedding night as an unveiling ceremony for your big battered dick borders on the sacrilegious. Not only that, but what if she looks at it and shrugs? Says that she’s not impressed? There is no rewind button on life my friend. Now is the time to get this right.

You noted your “ex” in a post - but I can say with all certainty that you have NO idea what you’re getting into by getting married. It is for LIFE, brother. If you’re having these issues now - if this woman is capable with just a comment of getting you to abstain from sex for half a year and stretching your dick to unknown limits - you are at the beginning of a horrible life. Trust me.

The only saving grace is that you have indicated an openness between you two - now is the time to use it. The way you have BOTH been going about this is infantile.

The only chance you have of saving yourself is to openly let her know what is really going on in your head and be done with it.

That, or fucking her in the ass.

—Cap

OK, I think you’ve got me and this situation pegged all wrong. We have talked about it many times, and the decision is that she is happy sexually, I don’t have to worry about my size, and that life will move on.

I know what marriage is. The “ex” was my ex-wife. I was married for 3 years already, and I know what it takes to make a marriage work.

Mainly I am doing PE for me. _I_ want to have a bigger dick, I want to look down at my flaccid member in the gym and be proud of what’s hanging between my legs. She is already happy sexually. If PE works and makes it just a little bit better, then so be it. Even if there is a size increase and she doesn’t notice it on our wedding night, it is not going to upset me. But hopefully it’ll feel just a little bit better to her, or even to me.

I have let her know openly what’s going on in my head and we have worked past that. I just do PE now because my hope is for that little something extra.

Best case is she looks at it and goes “wow that is the biggest i’ve seen”. Is that going to happen .. no. Second best is she is like “that looks bigger to me”. Now it’s possible that’s going to happen. That would be nice. Third is it just feels better to both of us, still a good thing. Last is that nothing changes, PE doesn’t work and so there is no size increase. Even if that happened i’d still be happy because I am marrying the woman that I know I am meant to be with.

Hi, I’m new to this great forum. I’ve been reading around here off and on for several days and decided I want to register here so I could talk with you guys. In the past I’ve only had some discussions I could stumble onto on the internet by doing google searches. Somehow, I never found thundersplace. I just happen to see the name mentioned somewhere and eventually decided to have a look and wow am I glad I did. I no longer have to feel like I’m almost alone in the world with my jelqing.

I started jelqing about 1 year and 3 months ago. I had stumbled onto some info about it on the internet and decided what the heck, I’ll give it a try. I did the search because I found out my girlfriend had gone onto the internet looking to read about enlargement pills for me. I was a bit taken back when she told me this. By talking with her then I was able to find out she had been with 5 guys before me and that only one of them had been smaller. At that time I was 6 1/4 inches long and about 4 1/2 inches girth. The only guy that was smaller than me was extremely small, she ” didn’t even know he was in her”. She admitted that size does matter some(but “not that important”)and that she has orgasms more with the bigger guys. She was hoping the pills she had heard about could maybe work for me. I told her I thought the enlargement pills were a gimmick and I didn’t think anything could be done except maybe surgery(which I was very reluctant to try).

But the next few days I kept thinking some about her looking and it was bugging me. So I decided to try and see if I could find anything and found out about jelqing. I didn’t really believe it could work but why not give it a try.

I only did jelqing (I had seen a little bit about hanging and not having anyone to talk to I was afraid of it)and over a period of perhaps 8 months or so I gradually increased time doing it. During that time I did it every other day but still was only averaging about 15 mins a day at the very most. I did gain 3/4 inch in length and about 1/8 inch in thickness(I had stopped measuring girth and preferred to simply measure thickness across the top)which had moved me from 1 1/2 to just about 1 5/8 across the top.

During the 7th and 8th months I had gained hardly anything and I was working alot and tired so I dropped off doing jelqing.

But after a few months I became interested in giving it a renewed try. In the last couple of months I’ve been spending more time per day jelqing and have been doing some BTC also hoping that might help along with the jelqing in increasing my size. What pleasantly surprised me was to read here about BTC( I hadn’t thought about giving it a name like that when I was doing it—-I only thought of it as sitting on it carefully and had no idea there was such interest in it. If I ever did read of it in a discussion somewhere I’m sure that I didn’t know what BTC meant at the time and just skipped over it then). Since reading about it here lately I’ve begun doing it more regularly since now I don’t feel like the lone ranger anymore doing it.

Doing the jelqing more intensely and more time per day plus doing BTC off and on has increased me to a now length of almost 7 1/4 length (this is if I push to the bone) and not quite 1 3/4 thick (at the base where I’m thickest). I’m not quite 5 inches girth there.

My girlfriend is reacting more during intercourse also. But I definitely want to get bigger because I get the impression that I’m still fourth in line with how big she has been with and also I want to be bigger because I just simply am not as big as I think most women like a man to be. I feel that I may still be fourth in line in her experiences because even though she says she can feel the difference she hasn’t really seemed impressed to me. I’ve thought about asking her how much bigger I need to be to move up the ladder but I’m afraid of what I may hear and she can even be touchy about me talking too much about them. So subtracting my time off from jelqing my jelqing time adds up to some over a year perhaps and I have a small amount of time off and on put into BTC.

When I read about you being over 6 inches yet everyone else was still bigger I was definitely able to relate to that. Some people claim big guys are rare but that is not the way it appears to be in real life. My goal is 8 inches length and 6 inches girth(of course I would like to be even more than that). Sorry for writing out my measurements like this—- I see you guys are abreviating your measurements but I haven’t stopped and learned the abreviations yet. I will soon though.

esac,
Does this mean the ass-fucking thing is a no go??

Kidding. Best of luck, friend. I really hope the best for you.
—-Cap

Well I wasn’t kidding when I asked her, and she adamantly opposes it. She has never tried it and never will. Not even letting me give her a rimjob or a little bit of pressure. I got a rimjob from my ex-girlfriend and it was amazing, too bad shes missing out :(

Yeah since then I have wondered about it. My ex-wife was a virgin when we met (I took care of that ;) ), so I never really looked into penis size. After the divorce, and I was back into the dating scene, so I was curious and found average to be around 6” (some places say 5.75, some say 6.25). So I figured I am average. But to have FOUR guys all be above average just astounds me, no luck there! My fiancée only dated “taller” men in the past (guys over 6 feet tall) and i’ve heard that there is a direct correlation to height and penis size .. on average taller guys have bigger dicks. So that may be the reason. I am 5’ 9”, so I guess I got the short end of the stick (pun intended).