Why I started PE

Maybe this should be in the “Is It In Yet” thread, but I wanted to share my story and my hopes.

First a little history. I was dating (my now fiancée) and we have developed a very open and honest relationship. No lies, nothing hidden, etc.. I was stupid enough to ask the question at one point about her previous 4 lovers .. “So how do I compare to them.”. I have never thought of myself as small, I have measured between 6” and 6.25” in length, so I wasn’t quite prepared for her response when she told me that all of them had been bigger than me, her ex-boyfriend being “the largest”. I had to deal with the thoughts of that, but I didn’t let it get to me.

A month later we were having a heavy make out session out on the couch, and after doing some dry humping on the floor, she grabbed my member and said “so what are we going to do about this size issue.”. To say the least I was devestated. She could tell it hurt me quite a bit, and tried to lessen the impact by saying that she was very happy with the sex, she only brought it up because she had ‘thought about it’ and wanted to be open.

That’s when I started PE (about one month ago). I have been doing a routine of warmup, DLD blasters, 1 hour on the PeniMaster (to sort of cement the gains), then 10 minutes of JELQs, then hot wrap.

We had sex a couple times after that, and although I finished I just wasn’t into it. She happens to be a very christian girl, and has always believed that premarital sex is wrong. She related this to me before, but she knows that I am a very sexual creature and that most likely I couldn’t do it. So the other day I decided that I can wait 6 months without sex until we are married .. why .. because I value her beliefs (sure a little, but that didn’t stop me before). It’s so that in 6 months on our wedding night I hope to pull out my dick with at least a 1” gain in length and a 1” gain in girth and see how much she likes the improvement! I have faith in the exercises so I am not measuring during this time. My measurement will be when she says “wow it feels a lot larger than 6 months ago” :)

Ummm…she’s had been with 4 guys plus you and still claims premarital sex wrong………?????????

Well esac I believe that in that time you may gain what you are after, or you may just be able to last longer and maybe be harder.

Just remember not to fall into the PE syndromes trap and enjoy the wealth of information that is Thunder’s.

Welcome to the forum!

She believes it is wrong. She did it full well knowing that it is wrong to her, but we have had sex despite that. I’m sure many people know cheating is wrong and still truly believe that despite the 50 times they’ve cheated on their spouses :)

Thanks :)

I know 1” in 6 months is not always possible and I won’t be upset if I don’t achieve it. I’m not worried about the lasting longer part, I have trained myself with that over the years and I can now finish anywhere between 5 and 35 minutes depending on how much I concentrate on it. As for hardness of erections, the damn thing gets hard and points straight up to the ceiling, and if I pull it down, it slaps right back up against my belly button!

I’m avoiding the measuring because I know that can be a problem, and I have my routine and am sticking to that (only thing is increasing the time of JELQs slowly). Are there any other syndromes I should watch out for ?

Ummm indeed. You deserved the first volley when you asked how you compared to her previous lovers. The second volley, however, was sheer cruelty on her part. No caring woman would ever say anything negative about a man’s penis, period. And actually, even though you deserved what you got, a caring woman would have even recognised the first request by you for comparison as insecurity on your part and would have acted quite differently. Plus, statistically, there is very little chance that 4 random men had penises longer than 6.5”. She either had a LOT more lovers to find 4 “big ones”, or more likely - she is lying. I have to say, I am not encouraged by her behavior for YOUR continued good health and happiness.

Yes you can make your penis bigger, but do it for yourself - not for her!

Well I really am doing it for myself. It would just be a nice ego boost to hear her recognizing that it grew. Sure this encouraged me to do it, but _I_ want to have a bigger penis. She has committed to me for marriage, so she had better be happy with the size of my penis .. 6” or 10” :)

I don’t think she was particularly cruel. It’s almost like she had heard of PE. ;)

Good luck surprising her on your wedding night, the wait will be well worth it!

I would simply roll her over and fuck her in the ass… Mind you I suggest this not in revenge but a healthy way to improve your sex life with her… I mean I would have put it in her ass even without that comment but after that I vote that she takes the soup there from now on @ least twice a month… Good luck brother!

RWG

Get rid of her.

I second that! I like the way you think regularwhiteguy. That would be a excellent way to start the Honeymoon.

Plus esac your dick should feel bigger to her. On the count of her not having anything in for 6 months. Plus tell her to Kegel to tighten up that pussy. Best of luck to you. Oh by the way how many of those guys fucked her in her ass!

“so what are we going to do about this size issue.”.

I would have kicked her right in the face!!!

RWG you are the man!!! :D

Best regards ,
-Secjay

This chick will bring you much pain if you truly care for her. Some “Christian” she is.

Next time she asks you about what you’re gonna do about the “size issue”, FIST HER.

What did she expect you to say the first time anyway? “Oh don’t worry honey, I’m off to the penis store to get a new dick.”? Does she know about PE? Or is she just a twit?

Honey I’m home

While you hand her over some brochures of a plastic surgeons who specializes in making the pussy tighter.

Or just order this for her

I like this I seen it in action once. I’m going to get one for the old lady.

You might want to get 3 for the M.A.P.

Wow, a lot of upset reactions here. Well to understand, but “fuck her in the ass” topped by “FIST HER”… great emotions here, but I am afraid you will lose esac really listening to you. He is (still) planning to marry this woman and he seems to be very patient with her allures and therefore will be very faithful to her.

In more calm words: Esac, you seem to be doing a big mistake by what/how you are handling the situation right now. Why the fuck should YOU stop having sex with her before the wedding, while she FUCKED with these other guys WITHOUT even having had the plan to get married with THEM? This is upside down, completely wrong! And I suspect that you found this way to handle the situation because you wanted a time out for building that cock she is shameless asking for. But if it indeed is just cruelty, what if she’ll go on teasing you with insecurities she’ll find in you? You will be married with her by then. Not a good idea. How can she handle this sexless time? If she is so much into SIZE, she seems to be into sex itself as well… this all doesn’t fit together. Better examine your issue in depth before getting married.