Originally Posted by bignik
I’m about to consider cheating with all the girls that literally are waiting.
Chances are that solution will end you and your kids in a divorce as well.
I am in a similar situation, lots and lots of sex in the beginning, dwindling down to sometimes once a week, sometimes once every two weeks, and yet, the occasional 3 nights in a row (just to throw me off!). The sex, although has lost frequency, has never lost any intensity, which I am hoping is a good sign. She has also been dealing with trying different medications for chronic pain which are known as a major libido killer, but has been doing that since we met. I miss the sex though., and a part if me is probably doing PE to try and excite her more (can you guess which part?) She doesn’t know about my PE yet though. I just can’t figure out the secret to consistently turning her on, and like you, I seem to be doing everything I can (fit, generous in bed, etc.)
I feel your pain, and if I knew the answer I’d tell you. I do know however, cheating is not the answer.