Women’s Size Preference: Compilation Of Articles

This topic is always comical to me. It’s not really that complicated. Do MOST women prefer taller than average men? Yes. Do MOST women prefer broader shoulders with narrow waist and hips? Yes. Do MOST women prefer to look at a larger than average penis? Yes. Do MOST women mentally equate a larger than average penis with greater sexual pleasure if they know nothing else about the man? Yes.

Is this the same thing as saying “bigger is better”? No. Most women don’t want a 7’ tall man. Most women don’t like the chemically induced professional bodybuilder physique. Most women aren’t hoping for a 12” penis.

The best way to think about it is, given a choice on any of those topics with no repercussions or other considerations, the greatest number of women will voluntarily choose a man that is about 1.5 to 2 standard deviations above the mean.

If you fall in that range in any category, lucky you. If you don’t, get over it and play to your strengths. If you can reasonably change where you fall in the range (e.g. getting more muscle mass with a thinner waistline, or successfully enlarging your penis), get to work, try for something nearer to optimal, and don’t obsess over it. Nothing is less attractive than someone who is absolutely obsessed with one of their traits, whether blessed or not.

It really is that simple.

For reference on the post above… when I mention spending some energy on getting closer to “optimal”, taking all studies that we have to reference on both male and female genitalia and psychology… “optimal” or IOW 1.5-2 sigma above the mean looks like this;

BPEL— roughly 19cm (7.5”)
EG— roughly 14cm (5.5”)
Flaccid length— roughly 13cm (5”)

If you’re not there and can’t or won’t get there, get over it and realize that only 2.5% of men are. Otherwise, do smart PE with reasonable dedication and don’t obsess.

To add. Size is just the cherry on top the Sunday. Show your partner a good time (have fun) and be free in bed. Ask them what they want, tell them what you want.

The secret sauce of Thunders is that you don’t need a bigger cock.

Just believe in you.

Amen!

Yesterday, I was watching a few YouTube videos aimed at dating men looking to “up their game”; the insinuation was that you would get laid more if you followed their tips… These videos were done by women, FWIW and I know they were less for instruction and more for their channel’s revenue.

The common themes were primarily personality traits; things like confidence, a sense of humor, and social skills. Later in the talks, the more carnal subjects came up, and all of these women pointed out that their best orgasms came from attentive and confident lovers that were “fully present” during the time leading up to and during intimacy; they were quick to point out that most of those men were barely average size. Now, that’s anecdotal at best, but there’s likely something to learn here.

All this being said, I’m NOT doing PE for my partner… I will freely admit that, like lifting weights, it is strictly for me and my own confidence and health.

My wife and I were married at 19, and we have only had sex with each other; hell, I gave her her first orgasm and eventually taught her to masturbate….

She jokes constantly that her “horse”, as she calls me, is too big and only recently figured out how to perform a satisfactory blow job… As a man that has always felt socially awkward, I simply enjoy overhearing her talk about sex with her friends at our pool. THEY joke about finding “bigger guys” and she jokes about making ME smaller. That builds my confidence and also leads to them checking me out and teasing their husbands. My wife also thinks I look good in a Speedo brief and buys them in unique patterns; having a hefty dick helps keep the men quiet at our local lake when I get out of the water… I have had my picture taken several times by women that start out giggling about my swimwear then put their hand on my shoulder for a picture. I’m not so awkward anymore ;) The local law enforcement guy has joked that my choice in swimwear may actually be better than his uniform.

I do PE for ME; I strive to be a healthy attentive and present lover for HER. If there’s and organ my wife wants bigger, it’s my heart and not my penis!

-Horseman-

Not to go too far OT, but it wasn’t until a recent visit to Mexico that I saw the wisdom in wearing a Speedo (though I didn’t….yet). So many Mexican men wore them and they looked more comfortable than wearing all these massive trunks like the U.S. guys had.

Cannot help but make me hear Ron White’s speedo routine in my head….”Looked like he had a squirrel in his Speedo”….and so on…hilarious if you haven’t seen/heard it.

We agree on the general statement that there is an optimum by definition.
Yet, I believe your estimations are too low. It is hard to disprove that scientifically, but I don’t see any reason why 18cm NBPEL
would not have more advantages and very little downside.
Your claimed values are very good, yes, but I challenge the notion of being ideal.
18cm NBPEL would IMO be
1) visually more appealing, especially if you consider the decent girth of >14cm 19cm BPEL do not look long (assuming fat pad is 2-2.5cm)
2) ability to bottom out if wanted
3) halo-effect: penis is “clearly big” without any discussion. You have a comfortable distance from the mean without hurting the woman.

I don’t see any downside as long as you keep EG below 14.5cm.
It is just anecdotal, but since I currently measure in at BPEL: 18,6cm EG: 14,2cm
I will hopefully see if gaining one inch will lead to any changes.
What is clear is that I never was too big at my current size, this could mean there is potential to grow haha.

I always have arguments with my friends because of that. The US is one of the very few countries that wear “pants” to go in the water. Ridiculous. Common sense tell you that if you are going to get wet, you gotta be as close to naked as possible. Hence we have speedos. But Americans cant. Because we are all fat and deformed. So the individual looks more like a burrito on a speedo.

Most Europeans, Aussies, Brazilian, Mexican and so many other wear speedo. I wear them, my dad wore speedos his whole life. I never saw my dad with basketball shorts, or beach shorts, board shorts or anything like that. Was always speedos. I even inherited from him the special edition made after Mark Spitz when he won the medals in 1972. Dont use those anymore, but have them with me.

And to be clear, is not exactly speedos what everybody use for beach. Its more like a square boxer. I love the Brazilian style and own at least 30 of them. Bought in Brazil of course because here there is no way to find decent beach wear.

I had no problem believing you until I checked your stats.. 6’3/4” BPEL and 5’1/4” EG… that’s about what I have… And there’s no way in hell anyone is getting jealous of my package or talking about me being big.. the only way your story makes sense in my opinion is if you are very, very skinny, with skinny tiny legs, no fat pad whatsoever, and are a “shower” (rather than a grower) to the absolute maximum….

This topic hits home. I do own speedo trunks but can only use them at home. Not infront of our kids. This year we went to the beach and I tried to wear an older pair of beach trunks with just the lining. I came out of the water and the wife said what’s with the shorts? You can’t wear those your sticking out too much. 😆 That Extra inch of flaccid was evident. I was already a shower. Needless to say I hid it and changed into underwear with a different pair of trunks. Oh the problems! Can’t wait till next year’s beach adventure.

I’m happy that speedos aren’t popular in the US. I’m a severe turtler so I would come out of the water looking like a topless flat chested woman in a bikini.