This topic is always comical to me. It’s not really that complicated. Do MOST women prefer taller than average men? Yes. Do MOST women prefer broader shoulders with narrow waist and hips? Yes. Do MOST women prefer to look at a larger than average penis? Yes. Do MOST women mentally equate a larger than average penis with greater sexual pleasure if they know nothing else about the man? Yes.
Is this the same thing as saying “bigger is better”? No. Most women don’t want a 7’ tall man. Most women don’t like the chemically induced professional bodybuilder physique. Most women aren’t hoping for a 12” penis.
The best way to think about it is, given a choice on any of those topics with no repercussions or other considerations, the greatest number of women will voluntarily choose a man that is about 1.5 to 2 standard deviations above the mean.
If you fall in that range in any category, lucky you. If you don’t, get over it and play to your strengths. If you can reasonably change where you fall in the range (e.g. getting more muscle mass with a thinner waistline, or successfully enlarging your penis), get to work, try for something nearer to optimal, and don’t obsess over it. Nothing is less attractive than someone who is absolutely obsessed with one of their traits, whether blessed or not.
It really is that simple.