Grower,
I was following the 1” rule. But that’s when I was having the pressure issues.
Then I read a post where Bib said that sometimes he pulled the head out, sometimes not. That it was more or less what was comfortable at the time. By experimenting with not pulling the head out, and squeezing it really good, there were no more pressure issues.
But now there are pinching issues. And you’re right about not being able to get by with an insufficient wrap with more weight. At 10lbs, I can more or less get by. But when I put on an extra 2.5lb plate, no go. Every time that happens, I wonder how Bib ever got to 45lbs.
I’m just going to have to set my mind to just experimenting and trial and error. Because: last night I tried the ss wrap. It ‘bit’ into the skin a bit (I was pissed). But I saturated the ss with lotion and rode it out because I figured it was my last resort.
I had to open the bottom wing-nuts a bit since the ss was a little thicker than the latex-wrap. That and the ss put an end to the coronal ridge pinch. But then I was being pinched like hell at mid-shaft by the top teeth.
I was…ahhh…a little pissed.
I’m a little ‘down in the mouth’ right now. My hanging just ends in frustration and no fatigue. I set aside time to hang, and hours later it ends in fits and starts, trail and error, painful pinching….and no fatigue.
I’m not a very happy PE’er right now. I’ve gone 2 mos with no gain. I can’t get the BH right. I have been doing manual stretching (with, as I said, no gain as of yet). It seems that manual stretching has been a better upper body workout than penis workout.
My upper body feels so powerful…I feel like I could clean and jerk an apartment building. And the only upper body exercises I have been doing lately have been manual stretching (which, incidentally, is like isometrics with resistance).
I know that this is getting a little lengthy and a little off topic, but I’m in need of a little in need of cathartic purging:
Part of the problem is that I am, by nature, a little impatient. Although, I’m not as impatient as I was when I was younger. So I have a tendency to just want to jump right in and ‘get going’, and that is not serving me well with the BH, which takes a real concerted effort to get just right.
My personality tendency makes me want to bang, and bang away hard with it and be fatigued when I’m finished. And I finish defeated and frustrated. Which, with my personality, just fuckin’ drives me up a goddamn wall.
See, I have been a guy who has always gotten out of my body, what I have asked of it.
* When I was playing basketball, even though I am not a full 6’, I could dunk.
* When I weight trained, I went on a power routine and quickly had a 300lb bench press.
* I worked out for size and and got up to 209lb (body weight).
* I can do a split.
* I was into boxing. My natural speed and quickness made me good.
* I got into calisthenics and could do extremely high rep sets: Handstand push-ups - 30 rep sets. Push-ups ( with feet elevated) - 120+ reps. Pull-ups/ chin-ups - 15 rep sets (all the way down, all the way up).
* Jogging, etc, etc.
My point is, I always have faith in my body to do pretty much whatever I ask/ demand of it. So, I am confident in my ability to achieve my PE goals. I have a track record of success as far as my body doing what I ask of it. I’m not saying this to be arrogant. These are just facts. My genes and my ability to achieve a physical goal, make me think that PE won’t be an obstacle.
All of that having been said, being defeated by pinching, is pissing me off. I set aside time to hang and it just ends in frustration, with no productivity. I want to go in and ‘go hard’. But it just ends with pinching that pisses me off.
I was so short patienced recently that I hung with a spare swimcap. I used it for 2hrs total and had good fatigue. The irony is that I got a BH because the swimcap has a tendency to pinch if it’s not wrapped just right.
I’m not trashing Bib’s product. I know that, in the end, it’s my fault because of my personality tendencies. I want to just ‘blast’ with it, when I should be EXPERIMENTING with it to find the comfort zone.
But, my personality/ impatience makes me look at ‘experimenting’ as time waisted as opposed to putting ‘bricks in the wall’ toward the goal. I know that getting the BH right is effectively working toward the goal. I just have to commit to experimenting to find the right methods.
I’ve been able to overcome some obstacles to past goals with good genes and a hell of an effort. So, I guess you can see how being defeated by pinching is driving me insane.
All that was sort of out of nowhere, but I needed to purge my frustrations.