Jelq4Life,
Ok, I see the problem. This is going to take a little work, but should not be too hard.
First, do not wrap that close to the head. Begin one inch at least behind the glans. Then place the hanger within a quarter inch of the front edge of the wrap.
Second, the amount of wrap you are using is probably way too much. In general, the more wrap or padding, the more slipping you will have. The hanger is simply not able to react through that much wrap to grasp the internal structures.
Next, you do not have the hanger adjusted correctly. Now, if/when you reduce the wrap, the adjustments should change, but this is the goal: You want the internal fingers of each side to gently slope in toward the top of the hanger when it is closed to hanging pressure. IOW, the pressure should be greatest on the top sides of the two major chambers.
With a 1/8 inch gap between the hex nuts, the top teeth should be meshed almost together. With a quarter inch gap on top, the the hanger is putting most on the pressure on the bottom sides of your penis. If you reduce the amount of wrap, you can probably still increase the gap on the bottom hex nuts, and barely mesh the teeth on top at hanging pressure.
Try this please: Wrap with a 2x15 inch piece of cloth, then the 2x15 inch piece of Theraband. Both one inch behind the head. Then, measure the girth one quarter inch from the front edge of the wrap. Tell me what that measure is, and I will try to get you in the ballpark on the adjustments.
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The wrap that seems to work the best is the one I used yesterday I wrap with a piece of therma that was 13-15 in. long one in. under the head and spiraled it down alittle but not much
Then I went over that with one big wide peice of cloth don’t really know how long but I wrap it right under the head and the bottom of the cloth goes down as fare as the first therma wrap
Then I cover it all with a 18x2 peice of therma wraping from right under the head spiraled down to the bottom of the cloth.
The hex nuts are an 8th back front and back
The teeth almost mesh theres about well I am not sure cause I tired so many different wraps in the past few days but I know for sure its under 1/4 an in.
Well I have tightin till pain before but it always goes away in the first few mins. of hanging, but normaly i just tightin it till it gets hard to tightin any more.