PE & Love Life

I have been PEing on and off for about 2 years. I have also been single. I remember a thread about a year ago about a guy who didn’t want to date due to his penis size. I have gotten laid a couple of times, but have not gone after women because my involvement in PE. With all the guys that are in relationships, Its hard for me to imagine where you guys find the time. My focus is hanging and my career right now but also am lonely sometimes. I have opportunities to get laid but blow them off cause I have to go home to hang. I have a pretty busy work schedule as well and am trying to hang as much as possible. How many of you guys are in this situation.

I don’t have to find time away from my wife due to the fact she knows and supports my PE…….however I don’t really like her in the same room (can’t focus with an erection and my wife in the same room :D ) but if she just has a peek at how things are going then that’s fine.

Try doing your PE in the morning, then your evenings are free to bang away if something comes up :)

Hello ForMeAndMyWife,

The morning is a probelm for me due to how early and busy my mornings are. I have decided I’m going to step up my weekends with alot of hang time. This weekend I’m already at 140 minutes with another session tonight. I have also made some changes to my home made hanger and have just ordered my BiB. I have also dusted off my pump and will try to pump a couple times a week. It was a good feeling to see I past my mark in the pump. I noticed some more wood the day after using the pump as well. I am determined to use what I have learned over the last 2 years but have to accept lacking in my personal life.

w1269,
You are turning down sex to PE?? I don’t get that. Did I read that you’ve gotten laid 2 times in the last year? Man, that’s not healthy. I guess we all want to pull out a monster but not getting any till you reach that point is silly.

If it comes down to hanging my gal or hanging 20 lbs. off the end of my dick, there isn’t no contest.

If I wasn’t able to multi-task, I couldn’t get in the time I do with PE.

Easy Larry29,

It was a couple of times as in many more than twice. Thats not the case, I don’t have a girlfriend but really don’t want one. It also has to do with the amount of hours I have been working, around 70 to 80 a week. If I had a girlfriend, I wouldn’t blow off sex, hell no its the relationship part I’d like to blow off. I dated a girl for a couple of weeks and would miss nights of PE cause of staying over her house. I just keep reading these threads of guys hanging or PEing about 10 hours a week. Thats twice as much as what I thought was a good time to complete.

Girlfriends generally equal some kind of relationship, whether it’s an understood standing date day up to “just you and me babe” Sounds like you need a fuck buddy or 2.

Hope all those hours you’re working are either for your own business or making you a shit load of money.

Whats so unhealthy about it?

Sexual release, for me, is a very important part of my life. Thank goodness I don’t have the libido I had in my 20’s, but I still need to have sex 2 or 3 times, minimum, a week. In my current situation, until I moved 15 minutes away from my wife, we had sex every day and I mean every day but the days she had her period. Before my wife, I dated 2 or 3(or more) gals at the same time. Sure there has been times in my life when I couldn’t get laid and I know how it affected me. It wasn’t a pretty sight. Am I a sex addict; I don’t know. I know I sure look forward to the company of women(for sex) and enjoy giving pleasure to them. Maybe I should’ve modified that statement to, “Man, that’s not healthy for me.” Pardon me.

Hmmm…what to do? Get laid, or hang weights from my dick? Ummm…seems like this is a no brainer to me! Get laid! Dude, you have your whole life to hang, and whole life to screw, which feels better?

GOTTABHUGE!

whome1269,

I have to agree with gottabhuge: you have your whole life to PE. If finding someone special is important to you right now, then go out and have some fun. PE will always be there. Heck, you might even be able to do both.

I’m a full time student, working an internship, and I’ve been in a 2 year relationship with my lady. Sometimes, there just isn’t enough time in the day to hang, but usually, I find that I can squeeze in at least two sets a day, 5-6 days a week. Like if I know I’m going to be watching TV for 30 minutes and I have the privacy, I’ll strap on the BIB for a quick set.

Also, we both have odd schedules which allows me to get some hang time in. She goes to bed early, then I go home and hang/study/internet/TV before I go to bed. I can usually get 3 sets in no problem. So, for the most part, there is time for it, you just have to come up with a strategic plan.

Good point guys, finally some constructive criticism. You made me realise what I’m doing. Ive had my share of pussy and do my trip to DR every two months to get my brains fucked out. I do realise now is the best time for me to focus on my PE, but I need to get some time under my belt while I can. I have been the most consistent since my start of PE. Superstroker, I was waiting for someone to post that I can relate with and stop whining about my schedule. Its just been a little difficult lately. Just like you said I just have to fit it in and still live a little. Thanx