Pumping and sex parties

Okay…

This may seem silly, but I thought I’d ask. Occasionally, Mrs. Dfarrell and I go to swing parties. If that is your thing, they are a lot of fun! I can also honestly say that it has been pretty good for my PSI (penis self image). I am about 7x5.5 and at these parties, I am usually in the top group sizewise. Anyway, I have been on the newbie routine for a few months (since March) and have had some very modest gains.

If I wanted to pump before going to these parties, would the gains last a few hours?

From my experience, it takes a few weeks/months to dial in the routine that works for you and provides the most size increase per session with minimal/zero fluid build up.

Once you find your good routine, the gains do last a while. During a good session, my gains can last upwards of 16-24 hours later. You will definately be smaller a few hours later though than when you first come out of the pump.

Wow is that encouraging. I always have images of those parties where a guy like me (7.25”x5”) would be laughed at by a bunch of 9-inchers.

As Stormy said, after you become conditioned to it, the increase from pumping will last a number of hours. You won’t be as big as right after you come out of the cylinder. But you’ll be bigger than you otherwise are.

I clamp in addition to pumping. Both do different things, and I suspect that clamping is the better exercise for girth. I’ll clamp one or two or three sets. Then I’ll pump for a couple of sets. The results of this combination is great.

Another trick you might want to consider is Cialis. Many here use the liquid Cialis from Kits & More to aid their PE or for recreational sexual purposes. Cialis (as opposed to Viagra) gives you a nice flaccid hang and thickness that lasts for a couple of days. It can take several hours to kick in. Sometimes the hang is best on the second day. You might want to experiment with this. The combination of pumping, clamping, and the Cialis could really wow the crowd at these parties. Of course, the Cialis only makes your flaccid bigger!

I swear by Cialis!! I call it the Greek God of SEX!!

By no means do I need it, but man, it is GREAT. Not only has it ELIMINATED my refractory time, but I can finish, AND KEEP GOING!!

Absolutely NOT. As a matter of fact, size is NOT an issue. There were guys there having a BLAST and they were FAR smaller than average!!

It’s about confidence and not really caring about those crazy mental things that us guys seem to have with our units.

That is AWESOME!!

So, how long before the party should I pump? Let’s say the party starts at 10 and the “fun” begins around 12-1?

I am just curious, would it bother you, DFarrel, if it was obvious to others that you had pumped or in someway “artifially enhanced” your unit?

I ask because if I were in your situation (which is unlikely — not into swinging) I would love the thought of having one of the biggest cocks, but be very uncomfortable with overt signs of “enhancing it”. It would seem kinda… creepy or perverted. To me, anyway…

Would some telltale sign of PE (discoloration, “bloated look”) be an issue for you?

If it’s a sex party, why don’t you just take the pump with you? It would be quite an attraction I would think.

Never thought of that. To be honest, I don’t think anyone would notice the signs of PE. As far as discoloration, with the lighting, it would be hard to see it!

I’d rather not do that!! Might get some Austin Powers jokes!!

Experiment! Based on my experience, I’d probably do some pumping/clamping/jelqing about two hours before my clothes were going to come off.

But bear in mind what Commanderblop is saying. Like him, I would not want it to be evident that I’ve “artificially” enhanced my size. The best way to deal with this is: (1) maintain a regular routine of pumping and clamping. And (2) when you pump and clamp just before an event, do it a a fairly low level (say, 4 to 5 hg, and not too tight for clamping) and for shorter sets (five to ten minutes). If you keep up these exercises regularly, your unit will stay conditioned and larger, and it will be less prone to develop red spots, etc. And if you keep the exercises light just before an event, you’ll lessen the discoloration and most likely eliminate any bloating. After a couple of hours, your dick should look pretty normal, except for being a bit fatter! It may be a bit darker. I do get comments about this from women. I tell them lots of things: “I’m Italian, so I’m a bit darker down there”; “It’s you baby; you’ve got me so excited I’m exploding with blood down there”; etc.

Once again, experiment

I’d like to hear you say more about this, if you can. Do the women there give more attention to the “big” guys? Or is the attitude much more egalitarian than that? I’m around your size, 7 x 5.6. But I’m certainly not huge.

And what do the women tend to look like at these events? How concerned are you about STDs? Tell us more. I’m intrigued. I’d love to go to one, but I’ve never had a gal who was into that.

I am not all that concerned about STD’s because we don’t really participate with others beyond kissing and (in my case) some stroking and playing. The FUN stuff is between the MRS. and Me. Don’t get me wrong, there is plenty of “exchange” going on there, just not for us.

As far as bigger guys getting paid more attention, it really seems more about chemistry at these things than anything else. For instance, there was this one little dude (in all aspects) who must have went from 4-6 women in a half hour span!! They all loved him! The women are usually MUCH better looking than the dudes (not that I am there for the dudes, just giving perspective). A lot of times, it is younger women with older guys, but it is a nice mix.

I guess the best way to describe the events are simple. You go, you drink a little bit, socialize (with clothes on!) dance a bit, then, go into the “play room,” pick a spot, do your thing and let the evening come to you!

Sounds cool! :D