Originally Posted by avocet8
Peter, I am sorry, but…Read the archives here at Thunders. Complaints like your own which cannot be connected to some type of over-zealous pumping are next to non-existant.
I would agree that pumpers who over-do their routines and go to excess do have problems.
I don’t want to jump into the middle of your little spat, but I’d like to say something, here.
Avocet, perhaps that is all he is trying to say, and just needs a little verification. :) There are a lot of guys out there who don’t even know about Thunder’s Place, and are doing some really bad things to themselves. Perhaps this is what he is expressing; not condoning it… simply just mentioning that it exists, and isn’t necessarily the “best way to go.” Is that it, Peter? I wish I had those links I ran across a couple of years ago… some really ugly pumping sites of guys that looked more like circus side-show freakazoids than penises.
A guy feels inadequate and wonders if a bigger dick will fix his problems. One day he runs across an ad with pumps and cylinders and decides to give it a try. When his goodies arrive, he starts pumping irresponsibly and gets the classic problems. It never occurs to him to use lower pressure, shorter times, or maybe to start with a smaller cylinder and pack it first. He buys the 2½ inch cylinder right off the bat and starts pumping away. I think it’s a pretty common mistake out there that a lot of guys are making. Perhaps a “silent epidemic” if you will. You don’t often see it, or hear a lot about it, because it’s a topic that is going to be riddled with shame issues and negative judgements.
I looked at pumping myself a few years back, but after investigating further I had to conclude that it wasn’t for me because all I could find in my web searches at the time was pumpers forums and personal web sites full of guys with the above mentioned freakazoid dicks. Websites with pics of guys showing off penises that look like an oval shaped missile from a 1940’s science fiction movie, and a full sized glazed-donut to match.
“Lookit me!” “I dun this in just three munths… ain’t it neat?” “Pumpin’ werked fer me!”
Guys with grotesque donuts. Guys that cannot get a woman anymore, or very rarely, because they were too big and grotesque. Guys having trouble finding pants that fit, because it is so big and misshapen from overpumping. Next hobby? Sewing 101, with emphasis on designing kilts and skirts. It’s out there and it’s happening. These guys aren’t necessarily stupid, they just lack good information. And of course I realize that some of these guys are trying to fill an emotional void or maybe psychological problem with a bigger dick. But it can, and does, happen to a lot of guys out there. Perhaps we should talk about it, rather than trying to “squash it” and make it go away, further shaming the individual? Knowledge and communication are the keys to wisdom. :)
I think we are very fortunate here at Thunder’s to have such intelligent people, sensible approaches and a community that is so sharing and caring. There is something really special here at Thunder’s that you won’t find elsewhere. Maybe we tend to forget that at times. :)
Peter, just a suggestion, but maybe try sharing your own actions and experiences instead of the vagueries, just put it out there in a more concrete fashion. “I did this and it worked.” “I did that and it didn’t work.” “Here’s how I fixed it.” I don’t know if this makes any sense, but the vagueness kinda comes off one of two ways. 1) You are afraid to hurt everyones feelings, or 2) you are uncertain of yourself or don’t know what you are talking about. It gives people an unclear message and they don’t know quite how to interpret it. Maybe try to be very “clear” about it will help.
Just my thoughts everyone, IMHO.