After the second newbie session my penis will not stand erect. Help

# Quick intro

Hello everyone and first of all congratulations for the project.
I was avoiding writing here to try to forget a little, but I’m going crazy and desperately need help.
I am 35 years old, 6.20 feet and 242 lbs and my penis has 6.29 inches (BPEL) and 5.11 (MSEG).
However being an overweight guy I have a fatpad of almost 1.75 inches. I’m working to lower my weight ..
It is not exclusively the increase in penis size that made me start PE, but the increase in EQ, Morning Woods and others.

# Story:

Last Thursday (01/17) I did a newbie routine - 5min warmup + 1x20s Stretching (up, down, right, left and rotate) + 3 x 20 jelq + 50 kegel. No problems.
On Saturday (01/19) I masturbated normal
On Sunday (01/20) 1h before PE I masturbated again
On Sunday (01/20) I did it again - 5 min warmup + 2x30s Stretching (up, down, right, left and rotate) + 3 x 30 jelq + 30 kegel.
After my PE session I went to do a muscle exercise on the stability ball to strengthen the core.
On Sunday (01/20) I went to the pool with my wife, I got erect 3 times with her and once in the bathroom (but we did not have sex).
The problem started on Monday, I came back from work, went to see a porn and realized that my penis did not move. Standing erect for me is so easy.
As soon as I realized I went into panic and started to cry.
Just an observation, I was a cop, I saved my life (drowning), I changed shots with bad guys and so on.
I consider myself a well centered and tough person.

#Evolution

From Monday to Tuesday I woke up semi erect (morning wood or pee? Does it have any differences?).
Tuesday to Wednesday I woke up erect (morning wood or pee?)
Wednesday to Thursday (semi erect).
In the morning today (Thursday) I tried to stay erect and I could not and freaked out.

# Information Problems

I started reading in the forum desperately about information and you begin to see information that may have caused a nerve damage(1), a blood vessel damage(2), an overtrained (3).
From a newbie perspective like mine I could not detect what are the characteristics of each one and this makes you worse.
Is there a protocol that we can differentiate?

Example, if my penis was erect in the morning, is it possible to rule out the hypothesis one or two?

#Doctor

I checked a urologist on Wednesday and explained the situation.
First he laughed at me and said that does not exist (PE).
Then he said it was psychological.
I then insisted and he asked me if my unit turned purple. I said no.
He said it should not be anything, it must be some tiredness / stretch and prescribed tadalafil (similar to viagra).
Should I take it? If my penis is recovering, is not it better to wait?

The funny part that he did not know anything about PE, in the convincing process, I showed in his notebook thunderplace. Org and he went crazy.
He was very interested stay all night reading, after he told to my that as awesome!

#I m bad

I’m desperate, depressed and I do not know what to do. I’m taking sleeping pills and I can not leave the house.
I missed work one day and my wife is desperate because I am a very active and happy person.
I’ve already made two promises if I get out of this one: /

Is it normal to take almost 5 days and nothing? I looked a lot in the forum and I saw few reports about this situation.
Is this normal? Do I have a genetic defect?

Thank you all and sorry for the English.

Maybe the sleeping pills.

I’m only taking sleeping pills tonight because I can t sleep after this.

You just need to relax. That likely seems impossible, but all this mental and emotional stress you are causing yourself is likely the real problem. If you are getting hard in your sleep, then it is almost certain that this problem is caused by anxiety, and not by any kind of physical changes or damage to your penis. You are going to be fine. Try to put thoughts about this out of your mind.

The problem is definitely psychological, unless you somehow managed to really mess yourself up in two sessions, which is very unlikely. Waking up with morning wood = you’re fine.

You’ll be fine.

CTFO!

The two most normal thing are;

1- your knob hates being overworked, it can go into a sulk. When you get erections again in a few days, I bet you will have grown.

2- the penis owner goes into a complete panic because of this and makes things 100 times worse through anxiety.

Thanks all for the support message!

I m more calm now.

I started to take glutamine, arginine and omega 3 to help the heal.

For all of you that pass trough this I have one question.
In the first 2-3 day I felt a little burn inside my penis (nerve?maybe?).
Yesterday and today I m felling a little burn/odd felling in base of glans/neck of glans. Someone have this ?

Another thing that in can realize is that the base of glans I can see very clearly purple veins. Maybe caused by strong jelqs? Is it dangerous?

Again thanks for all you that read my post and trying to helping.

Start by taking it slow and gentle. Do this until you feel comfortable. Slowly increase the intensity and duration, but only to where you feel comfortable.

Create just a little pressure, but no more than you are comfortable with and be patient my friend.

There’s an old saying, “sometimes it’s less work to be comfortable with who you are than it is to change.”

Hi Guys! Good news here.

On Saturday I wake up very erect and horny. But I was felling a little discomfort in the base of glans. I took one pic because was very early to be certain that I was not dreaming. (kk).

I tryed not make sex with my wife but I couldn’t and we did on dawn.

I did again on sunday morning. All good.

Question for the gurus. What my cause this? Screating or jelq? How long I wait to restart?

Thanks again for the support.