Finally Committed To Growth

This place has been a source of hope for me for many years.

My first girlfriend was a very petty person, and throughout our relationship mocked me for the size of my dick. In fact, she routinely told people in her family about it in front of me. Needless to say, it led to a strong dissatisfaction with my dick.

Over the years I’ve actually had several great sexual experiences. Only one other woman ever commented that it was small, which still hurt. I have always been a sexual overachiever though so my exploits have led to a lot of callbacks and great sex.

This past year, my absolute bombshell of a wife left me. She’s a erotic model and immediately starting making videos with other men in the community. Needless to say again, I’m back to being seriously unhappy with my dick.

I’ve lurked on Thunders Place since I was probably 18. Over the years I’ve half-heartedly tried several methods. I was always too scared to measure myself as I didn’t want to know the truth.

Now that I’m completely alone and have all the time in the world, I decided to finally keep myself committed to PE. I want to keep my routine simple with manual stretches, pumping (which I’ve done on and off before sex) and hanging. I’m lucky to have decent girth, which has often been complimented in the past, but below average length. I’ll post here as often as I take measurements with an update on my routine.

Age: 29
PBEL: 5.56 in
MSG: 4.98 in

That being said, my pump should be here today and I’ve also been looking into hangers. Would anyone recommend the Zen Hanger?

I’m so sorry to hear that someone was that horrible to you, man… That shit made me a bit angry inside to read… how can someone do something like that to the person they’re dating? Glad you’re finished with that scum. Just wanted to say that and wish you good luck on your journey!

Happypill,

Thanks I appreciate that. Honestly I’ve never really talked about it until I started reading here more regularly. Seems a lot of men, of all sizes, can be made to feel bad about their size. I unfortunately had it about as bad as it gets with her. But Thunders Place makes me feel hopeful and less alone.

Welcome, and sorry to hear about what you’ve gone through. Best of luck; great to have you here.

IDK about Zen Hanger but in the past I’ve used Vac hanger and Bibs.
My advice to you is this:
From my experience pumping and hanging doesnt mix. Pumping will make your unit unable to comfortably use “clamped style” hanger (like BIBs) and after pumping the glans has been “fatigued” so forget about Vac style hanger. It most likely will cause discomfort. That was my experience.
Good luck!

Hey bro, don’t let that crap get to you; time to focus on the person you’ve neglected unknowingly - your unit, build a proper connection with it (which will grow during your sessions, indicating through the psychology of well you exercise it).

I would recommend doing the newbie routine, get used to that before you even get into equipment.

I appreciate all the replies. Thanks for the warm welcome everyone.

I’m doing manual stretches and kegels, and light pumping afterwards. So far I’ve only experienced minor discomfort on the shaft skin from the stretching so I’m applying lotion several times a day and it seems to be helping. EQ seems to be improving and I’m hanging much heavier while flaccid.

Again I appreciate the welcome and words of advice.

I have only been told I was small once by a girlfriend. We’re pretty close in size to one another though!

I’m sorry to hear about your experience. Any woman who can hurt a man that deep without any feelings of remorse isn’t a good person. I get that people want what they want, but there is no need to hurt someone like that.

Anyway, Welcome! I’m posting my before pics today to measure my progress. Since we’re similar in size, I will definitely be following your progress! Good luck :)

Welcome aboard. My ex wife led me to this place because she told me I was small.

How about putting away all of the devices and get a solid newbie routine going? Give it 90 days.

+1 :up: