Four months in.

Hello all,

I’m new to the forums and relatively new to PE, in general. I thought I’d introduce myself by sharing progress up until now, as well as the routine I’ve been using, hoping for input that might help me make some useful modifications. First and foremost, my starting stats were 5.2 inches BPEL and 4 inches MEG. I’m sure it is obvious why I was inspired to start my journey into committed P.E. I never had trouble finding sexual partners throughout my teen years and young adulthood. I’m on my second marriage at 30-years-old. I mention this to highlight the issue. All of my sexual experiences, which are fairly plenty, did not end well, because the ones that were honest noted they couldn’t even feel me. As you might imagine, this has been pretty destructive to my self-perception. I decided to do something about it, because even my current wife has had to bluntly tell me why we don’t have sex very often, which is incredibly frustrating, as I’m extremely sexually attracted to her. In December, I started with an extender and a bathmate, along with manual exercises. I worked up with the extender, starting with just 1-3 hours a day for the first few weeks and moved up as my comfort level grew. I am now up to about 8 hours a day extending. I do 3 sets of 5 minutes pumping in the evenings with 5 minute sets of jelqing in between. I then stretch for 3 minutes in 5 different directions twice over for a total of 30 minutes. I take Saturdays off of extending and I take both Saturdays and Sundays off of pumping, jelqing and stretching. As of today 3/25/2022, I now measure at 6 inches BPEL and 4.5 inches MEG. I’m pleased that I had results for these first four months, but I do admit to being a bit concerned with the “newbie gains” concept, as I truly dread these results slowing down significantly. I still have so much to go. My goal is 7.5 inches BPEL and 6 inches MEG. I guess what I’m wondering is this: is this even a fairly realistic goal with where I am now and where I started? If so, any opinion on how long it might take with what I’m currently doing? Any changes I can make to my routine that might help me reach my goals sooner than I might currently be on track for? I want to thank everyone in advance for any replies. I’m glad to have found such a positive community of people on the same journey, even with many being far further along than I am. Wishing everyone here all the gains they could hope for.

Welcome, Warrick. Yes, these likely are newbie gains, but that’s fine - enjoy them. Then settle in for the longer journey of permanent gains. You’ll get there - especially with pumping.

Hopefully you won’t obsess about the comments. Lengthwise, you’re in the average range. Girthwise, you can increase this. And size is just a one part of the overall sex experience anyway, and a pretty minor one when considering how women feel about it.

Best wishes,

DL

Thanks, Don. I really appreciate your comment. Especially since your stats are exactly where I want to be and your flaccid length is my BPEL! Inspiring stuff. And absolutely, I tend to agree with the overall experience outlook, I just feel like my lack of girth, in particular, has definitely been a hindrance. The comments have been hard to put behind me, I’ll admit, but I’m definitely going to remain steadfast and committed in changing it for good.

You have good goals. Wishing you all the best!

Welcome, just enjoy the journey. Try to include your wife. Just don’t become obsessed, never pass up lovin for PE try to make PE compliment your love life. Listen to some female sex podcasts to help understand your wife’s needs. This can open up talk about desires. Good luck!

Likewise! See you on the other side.

I appreciate that. I admit I have found myself getting pretty obsessed with it all, trying to fine-tune my routine, trying to identify anything I’m doing wrong, etc. I just want to make the absolute most of my time and make sure I’m not shorting myself. My wife has definitely made it clear on numerous occasions she just doesn’t like the way my dick feels, which kills me inside. We haven’t had sex since I’ve gained the .8 in length and .5 in girth, but I somehow feel like I haven’t reached the point where it will make a difference, yet. I’m severely anxious to get to that point, in addition to my long-term goals. Thanks for the comment!

All the best man. Keep grinding !

Thanks, brother!

Hey Warrick! Sounds like you are already longer than most men so you definitely have that in your favor! Keep up the hard work man.

Thanks, I truly appreciate the positivity! I definitely feel like it has been my lack of girth that has caused me the most issues, but here’s to changing that. Hope all has been well with your journey, man!

Here to document that, after measuring last night, I found I have gained another .2 in length, bringing me to 6.2. A full inch in just over four total months of my regimen. My girth remains at 4.5, so I’m hoping to see more improvement there soon. I’m going to keep everything going as is until I see results no longer being yielded!

Congrats man, thanks for sharing. Let’s celebrate every bit!

Let’s definitely do that, brother! We’ll make it to where we want to be, I have not a single doubt.