It's Really Bigger mind blown

Hello everyone, I’ve been a member (and even a donator) here at Thundersplace since 2015 but almost exclusively a lurker. A few things happened in the last 24hrs that blew my mind and I’ll get to those eventually. Growing up I had size anxiety pretty bad and it never really went away. I can remember my last year of gym class in sixth grade and everyone seemed so much larger than me. It didn’t help that I was a late bloomer and didn’t really develop until high school. However, by that point I had switched to marching band which meant I never had to take gym again. So after sixth grade I basically had no more points of reference. I was very shy with girls and was mortified that they would realize I was small and might mock me, so I basically made sure that never happened. I kept myself out of the game until I was 22. Luckily for me, at that point I met my future wife and she was somewhat aggressive. However, not realizing how devastating it can be for a guy, she told me I was perfect because her last boyfriend had been too big. Needless to say, that thought stuck with me and haunted me for a long time. Looking back, I realize now that I was roughly average back then at 5.75” BPEL and 4.75” BPEL, but I was still terrified about anyone else seeing it.

Fast forward a few years and I decided to start a stealth PE program. However, since I didn’t have a lot of private time, I didn’t really gain much: maybe a 1/4” to my BPEL. At least at that point I could claim to be 6”, but I still wasn’t happy. In 2013, an opportunity for a threesome even developed but I was so terrified I couldn’t perform and ended up leaving part way through. I was pretty low at that point, but my stealth routine still wasn’t getting anywhere and years went by with no gains. Eventually Covid came around and I had much more time working from home. I started doing Fowfers, dry pumping with heat and sometimes my bathmate, but I still wasn’t consistent enough to gain much: another 1/8” to my BPEL (6-1/8”) and a little girth 4.9mseg. I finally told my wife in 2021, but still wasn’t consistent enough in my routine, always trying to hide it.

Finally, in 2022 I decided enough was enough, I wasn’t going to hide it or be embarrassed anymore. I would Fowfer at home on the computer, Fowfer at work with my office door closed, use the bathmate 5-6 days a week 2x10min at roughly 3-5inhg, and even clamp with a heating pad a few days a week 2x7min. I finally started seeing results, my flaccid went from non-existent turtle to a decent 4-4.5” NBPFL and my erection went to 6.5” BPEL and 5.5” mseg. Strangely enough, my flaccid girth is the same size as my erect girth now too, 5.5”. If I utilized a cockring, I could even get to 6.75” BPEL and 5.75mseg. At this point the wife even noticed the results and she started asking for sex more often and seemed to be enjoying herself quite a bit. I finally asked her about it last night and she admitted that she really liked the increased girth, but she was scared of saying anything since it might make me feel bad about my pre-PE size. I told her that was in the past and I only cared about going/growing forward now. She said I was definitely bigger than her old boyfriend now (what every guy wants to hear).

Today I pulled out a penis sleeve we used a few times in the past for fun, she said the first time we used it that it was huge and made her sore, but we did try it a few more times. As I looked at it, I wondered what size it really was so I got out the flexible tape measure to find out. Turns out, it was only 6” insertable length and 5-5/8” in girth. I was bigger than the sleeve now, holy hell. I went and showed it to the wife and she didn’t seem to think much of it, but to me it was a big deal. The sleeve still looked huge when I held it, but when I put it next to myself it was roughly the same size. Foreshortening is definitely a real thing, still can’t believe it. I put on a pair of gym shorts I hadn’t worn in a few years (man I gotta get back in shape now) and found that I had a very Visible Penis Line, going to have to get some compression shorts or something

Anyway, I had to share this with people who will appreciate what it means to me and to remind all the newbies out there that with time, dedication, and a really hot heating pad that this really does work. As for myself, back to work since I’d like to hit 7x6 at least.

> found that I had a very Visible Penis Line, going to have to get some compression shorts or something

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Why? “If you’ve got it, flaunt it!”

Nice story with a happy ending that I hope isn’t the end. Keep up the good work.

Congratulations man. Good to hear success stories like this.

Congratulations on your success

Decided to have a little fun today, did about 2x20 minutes in my lapump with a heating pad for good expansion. Was at 6” girth when I got out. Immediately grabbed a cockring and went to find the wife. Good times. Hope I get to that size permanently.

I can relate to the beginning of your post. The trauma of being the smallest in the crowd junior high gym class showers can scare you for life. I have dealt with the whole bigger boyfriend thing too. Great to hear of your success gives hope. I have done PE here and there never regimented like this effort. All these testimonies of success are encouraging especially those that have small beginnings. Thanks for sharing

Thanks for posting that very personal story. Your in good company here and I cant wait to have my mind blown as well.

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Your story is really inspiring and encouraging. I appreciate that you decided to share. I plan to become more active on here myself. I look forward to your continued success!

Thanks everyone. I was literally sitting in the tub with my bathmate, reading the new posts here at Thundersplace for motivation and ideas, when I came across comments on my own thread. Such a strange feeling. Anyway, back to work.

Congratulations on your progress!

Very inspiring story, and a bit similar to mine. Hope to see the same results as you brother!

That’s my mantra

Your story is experienced by many men, you did well to overcome it, you are a great example, keep it up and update us, bye :)

Thought I’d share a quick story. We were flying to the UK for vacation with the wife and kids from here in Texas awhile back. All the usual TSA BS, shoes off, laptop cases open backpack search etc and of course the full body scanner. After stepping through the scanner I get pulled aside. I can see the screen for the TSA official and there is a highlighted area around my groin area. Luckily the newer units have some modesty software installed, so it doesn’t show everything but it is calling attention to that area. The TSA official asks if I want to go to a private room for a pat down or he can do it right there. Luckily, I’m not wearing anything embarrassing down there like I would on a normal day (tungsten glans ring) because I knew I’d be going through security. Hell, I’m not even wearing underwear at this point since I’ve been following Titleists and others recommendations for going commando (which is indeed very comfortable). Anyway, I tell the official he can perform the pat down right there. Using only the back of his gloved hands, he’s tracing around the contours down there, promptly realizes there’s nothing else in there and lets me leave. The wife and kids were there waiting for me, but didn’t realize exactly what was going on or why. I couldn’t tell the wife right away, but explained it to her some time later when the kids weren’t around, which gave us both a good laugh.