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Hello everyone, I’ve been a member (and even a donator) here at Thundersplace since 2015 but almost exclusively a lurker. A few things happened in the last 24hrs that blew my mind and I’ll get to those eventually. Growing up I had size anxiety pretty bad and it never really went away. I can remember my last year of gym class in sixth grade and everyone seemed so much larger than me. It didn’t help that I was a late bloomer and didn’t really develop until high school. However, by that point I had switched to marching band which meant I never had to take gym again. So after sixth grade I basically had no more points of reference. I was very shy with girls and was mortified that they would realize I was small and might mock me, so I basically made sure that never happened. I kept myself out of the game until I was 22. Luckily for me, at that point I met my future wife and she was somewhat aggressive. However, not realizing how devastating it can be for a guy, she told me I was perfect because her last boyfriend had been too big. Needless to say, that thought stuck with me and haunted me for a long time. Looking back, I realize now that I was roughly average back then at 5.75" BPEL and 4.75" BPEL, but I was still terrified about anyone else seeing it.

Fast forward a few years and I decided to start a stealth PE program. However, since I didn’t have a lot of private time, I didn’t really gain much: maybe a 1/4" to my BPEL. At least at that point I could claim to be 6", but I still wasn’t happy. In 2013, an opportunity for a threesome even developed but I was so terrified I couldn’t perform and ended up leaving part way through. I was pretty low at that point, but my stealth routine still wasn’t getting anywhere and years went by with no gains. Eventually Covid came around and I had much more time working from home. I started doing Fowfers, dry pumping with heat and sometimes my bathmate, but I still wasn’t consistent enough to gain much: another 1/8" to my BPEL (6-1/8") and a little girth 4.9mseg. I finally told my wife in 2021, but still wasn’t consistent enough in my routine, always trying to hide it.

Finally, in 2022 I decided enough was enough, I wasn’t going to hide it or be embarrassed anymore. I would Fowfer at home on the computer, Fowfer at work with my office door closed, use the bathmate 5-6 days a week 2x10min at roughly 3-5inhg, and even clamp with a heating pad a few days a week 2x7min. I finally started seeing results, my flaccid went from non-existent turtle to a decent 4-4.5" NBPFL and my erection went to 6.5" BPEL and 5.5" mseg. Strangely enough, my flaccid girth is the same size as my erect girth now too, 5.5". If I utilized a cockring, I could even get to 6.75" BPEL and 5.75mseg. At this point the wife even noticed the results and she started asking for sex more often and seemed to be enjoying herself quite a bit. I finally asked her about it last night and she admitted that she really liked the increased girth, but she was scared of saying anything since it might make me feel bad about my pre-PE size. I told her that was in the past and I only cared about going/growing forward now. She said I was definitely bigger than her old boyfriend now (what every guy wants to hear).

Today I pulled out a penis sleeve we used a few times in the past for fun, she said the first time we used it that it was huge and made her sore, but we did try it a few more times. As I looked at it, I wondered what size it really was so I got out the flexible tape measure to find out. Turns out, it was only 6" insertable length and 5-5/8" in girth. I was bigger than the sleeve now, holy hell. I went and showed it to the wife and she didn’t seem to think much of it, but to me it was a big deal. The sleeve still looked huge when I held it, but when I put it next to myself it was roughly the same size. Foreshortening is definitely a real thing, still can’t believe it. I put on a pair of gym shorts I hadn’t worn in a few years (man I gotta get back in shape now) and found that I had a very Visible Penis Line, going to have to get some compression shorts or something

Anyway, I had to share this with people who will appreciate what it means to me and to remind all the newbies out there that with time, dedication, and a really hot heating pad that this really does work. As for myself, back to work since I’d like to hit 7x6 at least.

Hello everyone, I’ve been a member (and even a donator) here at Thundersplace since 2013 but almost exclusively a lurker. A few things happened in the last 24hrs that blew my mind and I’ll get to those eventually. Growing up I had size anxiety pretty bad and it never really went away. I can remember my last year of gym class in sixth grade and everyone seemed so much larger than me. It didn’t help that I was a late bloomer and didn’t really develop until high school. However, by that point I had switched to marching band which meant I never had to take gym again. So after sixth grade I basically had no more points of reference. I was very shy with girls and was mortified that they would realize I was small and might mock me, so I basically made sure that never happened. I kept myself out of the game until I was 22. Luckily for me, at that point I met my future wife and she was somewhat aggressive. However, not realizing how devastating it can be for a guy, she told me I was perfect because her last boyfriend had been too big. Needless to say, that thought stuck with me and haunted me for a long time. Looking back, I realize now that I was roughly average back then at 5.75" BPEL and 4.75" BPEL, but I was still terrified about anyone else seeing it.

Fast forward a few years and I decided to start a stealth PE program. However, since I didn’t have a lot of private time, I didn’t really gain much: maybe a 1/4" to my BPEL. At least at that point I could claim to be 6", but I still wasn’t happy. In 2013, an opportunity for a threesome even developed but I was so terrified I couldn’t perform and ended up leaving part way through. I was pretty low at that point, but my stealth routine still wasn’t getting anywhere and years went by with no gains. Eventually Covid came around and I had much more time working from home. I started doing Fowfers, dry pumping with heat and sometimes my bathmate, but I still wasn’t consistent enough to gain much: another 1/8" to my BPEL (6-1/8") and a little girth 4.9mseg. I finally told my wife in 2021, but still wasn’t consistent enough in my routine, always trying to hide it.

Finally, in 2022 I decided enough was enough, I wasn’t going to hide it or be embarrassed anymore. I would Fowfer at home on the computer, Fowfer at work with my office door closed, use the bathmate 5-6 days a week 2x10min at roughly 3-5inhg, and even clamp with a heating pad a few days a week 2x7min. I finally started seeing results, my flaccid went from non-existent turtle to a decent 4-4.5" NBPFL and my erection went to 6.5" BPEL and 5.5" mseg. Strangely enough, my flaccid girth is the same size as my erect girth now too, 5.5". If I utilized a cockring, I could even get to 6.75" BPEL and 5.75mseg. At this point the wife even noticed the results and she started asking for sex more often and seemed to be enjoying herself quite a bit. I finally asked her about it last night and she admitted that she really liked the increased girth, but she was scared of saying anything since it might make me feel bad about my pre-PE size. I told her that was in the past and I only cared about going/growing forward now. She said I was definitely bigger than her old boyfriend now (what every guy wants to hear).

Today I pulled out a penis sleeve we used a few times in the past for fun, she said the first time we used it that it was huge and made her sore, but we did try it a few more times. As I looked at it, I wondered what size it really was so I got out the flexible tape measure to find out. Turns out, it was only 6" insertable length and 5-5/8" in girth. I was bigger than the sleeve now, holy hell. I went and showed it to the wife and she didn’t seem to think much of it, but to me it was a big deal. The sleeve still looked huge when I held it, but when I put it next to myself it was roughly the same size. Foreshortening is definitely a real thing, still can’t believe it. I put on a pair of gym shorts I hadn’t worn in a few years (man I gotta get back in shape now) and found that I had a very Visible Penis Line, going to have to get some compression shorts or something

Anyway, I had to share this with people who will appreciate what it means to me and to remind all the newbies out there that with time, dedication, and a really hot heating pad that this really does work. As for myself, back to work since I’d like to hit 7x6 at least.