Have I Damaged My Penis Permanently

Thanks Zero for that kind reply. It’s put my mind at rest a bit.

I’ve been resting it for a week or so now and tbh it’s been quite easy because I’m so worried and not really interested in touching it at the moment because it reminds me how numb it is.

Gonna give it a few months. My ex GF had her wisdom teeth out once and the nerves behind the tooth were badly bruised and she couldn’t feel the right side of her jaw at all for nearly six months!! It went back to normal eventually but it took a helluva long time. Looks like I’m in for a similar period of waiting. :( Just can’t believe I’ve done all this with 40 strokes of my penis!

No problem man. I’m glad I helped you in a way. Don’t touch it nor look at it or you’ll be tempted to whack it off. Well, if you happen to be be tempted, just make sure you don’t stroke it too hard to avoid further bruising the nerves. In my case before, I just stimulated and played with my glans whenever I jack off until I came. That way I had some fun and not caused any further damage, hahaha. Healing time could be long or short. It really depends on how bad the damage done is. Some members here healed in a weeks time some two weeks. The important thing is that it’s not permanent. I really hope you heal in the fastest time possible. And when you get okay, take it easy the next time ok. Make sure you do warm ups as well.

This sounds a lot like the boat I am in. I am able to get a pretty good erection, but I really have to work at it. During jacking off it goes through short bursts of feeling really good, but then kind of goes numb and starts to deflate. Of course if I keep going it will perk back up, but takes a lot of work to maintain it and cum. I have been vacuum hanging 5lbs 3X20 min M-F for about a month, and have seen just about .5in increase in BPEL. Just recently I have added some jelqs, manual stretching and edging for about 20 min. During edging my dick was awesome, fat, veiny and HARD. I thought, Man! I got a half inch longer dick, and it is rock hard. I can’t wait to get in bed and try this out. I’m guessing I went a little to hard this past Friday and over did it. When my wife and I got into it the next day, my little man decided he wasn’t having any of it. Limp, as a noodle, no reaction. Of course she tried, but it just wasn’t happening. During the night while sleeping I don’t know if I’m still getting hard-ons, although I am waking up with softies. Although I am not accustomed to waking up with raging morning wood. Now in my own head, freaking out, what have I done! Looking back I think it may have been either the manual stretching or jelqs that did some damage. I’m not particularly rough with jelqs because of the danger of squeezing to hard and applying to much pressure, although I do follow through over the glands. The manual stretching, I remember thinking I didn’t really feel a stretch so I assisted with my other hand but kept loosing traction. I used a thera-band which I’ll admit did hurt/pinch the skin a little but nothing unbearable. My manual stretches consist of going every direction and BTC. So all of this to say I’m in the same boat, and am hoping for a speedy recovery. I have not told my wife I was doing PE so its not like I can provide an excuse for why it wouldn’t get up. After browsing the tons of other member that seem to have experienced at lest something close to this, it seems that it will heal in time (possibly months :( ) I wonder if a supplement like L-Citrulline could help with functionality, or maybe low dose Cialis? At least until some of that feeling comes back? I’m sure not even looking at my dick is the best option, even go as far as to pee with no hands :) . But in the event my wife tries to hop on again, I want to avoid that situation again. One more thing to add, when peeing, typically you cannot just pinch it off to stop the flow without that stabbing/pinching pain in your urethra, Today I noticed I was able to stop the flow by pinching it off and the pain we would normally feel was hardly there, so that could be my daily test. Does it hurt to pinch it off? Haha. Thanks for any comforting words or advise to help with a speedy recovery.

I wouldn’t be too worried just yet. Give it a little while with absolutely no PE work, and see if it improves. I would recommend at least two or three weeks off. The inconsistent erections and periodic loss of feeling makes me think that you may have pinched or disrupted a nerve. I would recommend some thorough massages while flaccid but beyond that don’t put your member under any strain.

Definitely post again if your symptoms change at all.

Will do Gurks, thanks for the support. I’ve had whiskey dick, and the “I forgot to breath while doing the jack hammer” dick, but never the “hello .. Is this thing on” dick. Haha. When you say thorough massages, are you talking like very light strokes/circular massage with some moisturizer? I did notice today that the skin around the coronal ridge, feels papery? Maybe dry feeling? I have some vitamin E oil on it now. Poor wittle guy, I did to much to fast.

That is ever the danger with this hobby. There’s no particular technique that I recommend for massaging, just work it around gently to make sure that you’re keeping good blood flow. Also good to feel around for anything unusual in the internal structure. Painful spots, lumps, hard areas etc. You might also consider applying heat. I would recommend doing so if/when you resume your PE routine as well. Heat makes a lot of difference in terms of gains from many guys and it also keeps your tissues more flexible and reduces the chances of injury.

I have been using a rice sock to keep him warm and comfortable, and was doing so before any PE exercise. Luckily everything feels normal as far as lumps/bumps. Wife just started her period, so I’m safe for the week ;) . Thanks for the comforting advise. I’ll keep you guys posted.

Guess who finally showed up to part. My dick! I have been using a rice sock and making sure to keep the glands and shaft moisturized with hand lotion and vitamin e. Yesterday I gave it a little rub and it just felt to good to stop. It was still a bit hard to maintain the erection, but it popped up pretty quick and the sensation definitely improved. It had its period of getting a little lazy and then getting very rigid. We are approaching a week since injury, so I’m not going to complain to much about the inconsistency. I am just happy that there is some sign of improvement. To be honest it wasn’t top notch EQ to begin with. Although this little hick-up has brought me to the realization that I really need to change my masturbatory habits. Porn and jacking off are all I can think of the last week, all because I wasn’t able to do it. Its like knowing you can’t have it , making you want it more. So once this injury heals up, that is my next goal. No Porn and maybe limiting jacking off to once a week vs 2-3 times a day :|

Today I repeated this test to see if any more feeling had comeback. Pinching off the flow of urine hurt like it should, with that kind of burning/stabbing pain you get when doing so. We are on our way!

Well after two unsuccessful attempts to have sex with my wife, my guy was not in the game. I was able to kinda get an erection with her or I playing with it, but it would immediately just go back to flaccid a few moments later. This sucks. Not sure what the hell is going on. The sensation feels like its all there, and it feels good even when she was jerking it soft.. But it just wouldn’t stand up. I tried standing, laying down and on my knees but no position would entice him to get hard. I told her someone is coming tonight and if it ain’t me, its gotta be you. After some good eatin down south, I was at like 50% and tried to hop up and stick it in, hoping it would trigger something. But it just died. She remembered she had gotten a sample box of supplements from STEEL supplements. They have a product called HARD AF, which has all the usual ‘erection enhancing’ supplements. She said we are fucking tonight and I took 2 capsules. Of course these things take at least 20 min to digest and start working. We laid down and she said she was gonna stay naked and to wake her up if it kicks in. Needless to say, It never kicked in. I am able to get and maintain an erection by myself, albeit , I have to really work to get it up. But fuck! I just wanna plow. Why me haha. O well I guess I just need to wait it out. I have ordered some blue chew to see if that can help, probably not though. If things don’t get better in 2 weeks I’m going to go get check out. Witness me brothers!

Well here we are at about a month from injury and I think I am on the way to fully recovering. Although I am still having issues climaxing during sex. Masturbating is fairly easy, but I am trying to just leave it alone to regain as much sensitivity as I can, but man its hard to do sometimes. After a few failed attempts to get it up in the bedroom, I think its just performance anxiety at this point. I did go to the urologist just to double check. I explained that I believe I just pulled to hard while doing Manual Stretches. He thinks that I may have torn the Buck’s Facia, which may have led to some irritation to the dorsal nerve. He also advised there isn’t really anything to make it more sensitive other then time. I feel like I have most if not all the feeling back, although I never actually tested how sensitive each part of my shaft was in the past so its hard to judge if its more or less sensitive. That may be something that a newbie wants to document prior to starting, and that very well could be something I missed when looking over the newbie information. He did prescribe some low dose daily Cialis with the assumption that keeping a good blood flow to the region would aid in the nerve fully recovering. What I have been doing up until seeing the doctor was taking Ginko Biloba and B12 (both are supposed to support nerve growth/health), along with keeping a warm rice sock on for about 2 hours a day. We are going to meet a gain in 3-4 weeks to see how everything is going.

My advise to newbies would be TAKE IT SLOW. Even though its echoed all over this forum, its very easy to let a small gain take over your judgement and try to push harder. Take it slow, heed every piece of advise when it comes to taking it slow and watching your PI. I don’t know if ill ever start back up again, getting in bed twice with my wife and my dick acting like its just a skin tag was pretty detrimental to my ego/self esteem. Luckily I explained everything to her and she is real patient. She even helped me find which spots where more and less sensitive, which did turn out pretty well :) .

Thanks for the update Wapme!

It’s very helpful when folk ‘finish a story’. Well done.