Jelqing has destroyed my life A warning.

I think UkranianTitan hit the nail on the head.

Yes.

But my penis was immediately numb afterward. Immediately. And it didn’t look right, it looked veinier and less “full” than it usually looked when flaccid.

What confuses me is, if I’ve damaged the nerves, why was there no pain? No pain at all, it was just nice and sensitive (like it had been ever since I started masturbating) one minute then after I stopped jelqing and let it go back to it’s flaccid state it was numb as was my scrotum! And they’ve remained that way for 11 months!

Interesting, I can’t tell what the problem is.

I hope you figure it out, I also hope it is psychological, because it would be easier to fix with a different attitude and state of mind, than if it was a deeper physical problem.

I am glad to help any way I can, but as you alluded to seeing a minimum of 3 urologists (IMO) is important if the problem persists. Also, don’t worry about the extra drops after peeing, I also noticed that. I don’t know why this occurs, but it was like I could never shake enough to get it all out. I have a feeling that you will recover from this, but you just need the right person to tell you that this is not a serious injury, and even if it truly is a physiological problem that it’s not one that need end your sex life, and you will regain much if not all of your erection strength over time. I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you.

UT

I fear it is physical.

I’m not the neurotic type. I’ve dealt with big problems with my life in the past and I’ve always had an extremely strong libido and the ability to get a rock hard cock throughout.

Stress and anxiety just doesn’t affect my penis (it does affect my appetite and digestive system however), it never has, I have no history of erectile dysfunction. Which means it’s a physical issue 100% in my opinion. And if that’s the case, I must be one unlucky fucker to have caused it with 20 or so mild jelqs! :(

Thank you, UT.

You’ve definately put my mind at rest for bit. Something the urologist didn’t do!

Maybe it’s just me, but has anyone else noticed the discrepancies between both his posts? That has me a little suspicious. In his first thread of 05-26-2009, 10:08 AM, he mentions a few details that I cannot reconcile. Help me sort this out so I an understand what’s really going on. In the first thread Willy says:

Willy- There was a programme on TV the other day featuring a journalist who was practicing the technique “jelqing

But now he says:

Willy- It’s May 2009 and I’m watching a programme on Uk TV called “Extreme Male Beauty”.

Ok maybe I’m just “splitting hairs”, that’s no big deal there could have been a journalist on the show, I do admit I am not familiar with the show.

But this is the one that really bothers me. Again in the first thread of 05-26-2009, 10:08 AM Willy mentions:

Willy-I performed the “jelqing” once for precisely 40 strokes whilst half erect, and that is all.

Here Willy seems to know exactly what he did and what was going on. Which is nothing out of the ordinary, I’m sure we all have a good idea of what we do to our cocks, and after all he does say “precisely” which in my book means “exactly” and I thank him for being so exact, because that helps. But I got extremely confused and lost when I read this recent thread, because in this thread he says:

Willy- . So I got some lube, got about 2/3 erect and did about 20 “jelqing”strokes

That’s “precisely” half of what he claims to have done 11 months ago. Now as I said in an earlier post, I do not want to accuse you of anything, but can you please be more “precise” and explain what you mean. 40 is much more than 20, it’s exactly twice as much. Willy also mentions he does not want to come to terms with this. I can appreciate that, but what story are you telling the doctors, the 20 jelq incident, or the 40 jelq incident?

I strongly considered asking a urologist about this (she did my father’s vasectomy, and is a family friend) but what should I tell her 20 or 40?

These weird inconsistencies continue, yet again in the post of, 05-26-2009, 10:08 AM Willy maintains:

Willy- I woke up the next morning and the whole top part of the shaft running to the tip of the head was completely numb and my erections aren’t as strong

But in this thread he says:

Willy- Immediately I noticed my penis and scrotum were less sensitive than before, about 80% less sensitive

Was it “immediately” after or “immediately” after he woke up? Did he go to sleep jelqing 20\40 strokes? He did mention he had couple of beers.

These are important details, that is why I asked you could you give us more detail. I understand you are scared and as you said “terrified” I would be as well, if I were in your shoes. Can you please explain to the members “precisely” what happened? I’m sure someone can help, but at important, vital, parts the accounts differ. All I’m asking is for clarity.

Definitly stop taking the anti depressing pills. The fact that you can get an erection is a huge positive. As people have stated you should see as many eurologists as are in your city so you can get an overall picture and use the best advice. Try taking some viagra and seeing the effects, dont worry bro, you will recover.

I apologise for the variation in details between the two posts. It’s been 11months after all and I hadn’t looked at the other post before typing this one so maybe a bit of understanding and less pedanticism on your part wouldn’t go amiss?

I believe I jelqed somewhere between 20 and 30 times (what exactly damage could’ve been done with 40jelqs that couldn’t have been done with 20 anyway?). All mild, all stopping before reaching the gland, all whilst 2/3 erect, all with lubrication.
I was numb immediately afterward because I went into the shower after and was using hot water to try and bring the sensation back.

With respect, Zerone, I don’t quite know what you’re trying to prove? Do you think I’ve done something more than I’m admitting to? I can assure you on my mother’s life I haven’t and I can assure you should my penis go back to how it was I will never do a PE exercise again in my life. I am NOT trolling, I AM telling you the truth and I am fucking terrified (ask Sparky about my PM’s to him) and utterly embarassed about the whole thing hence me being sat here at 4am in the UK unable to sleep and close to tears about the whole thing!

BTW, thank you for considering asking your family friend about my problem, I appreciate that.

Thanks, mate.

I’m just staying objective. In situations like this it’s so easy to say, ” He’s lying, screw him” and then there will be those who will strongly agree with your cause. I decided I wont even think about the veracity of this situation, and if I must err, I’ll do it on the side of generosity. What I’m doing is trying to get my facts together before I take this to my friend who is a urologist, and I can’t go to her with a 20\40 variable. So maybe I’ll pick a number.

I understand and I apologise for my inaccuracies.

I’m unsure after 11months but for arguments sake I’ll say it was 30 strokes. It certainly wasn’t hard/aggressive and I certainly wasn’t fully erect when I did it I was at the very most 2/3 erect.

Thank you, I apologise for my tone I’m just terrified.

Maybe you could try doing a routine of kegels to see if it helps at all.

And maybe some light stretches, I feel they help too, sort of like body stretches help your muscles and you never know it might fix the problem somehow, I know I’m pushing it. :)
But I think it won’t get worse with a few light stretches right?

Anyway I think trying to find more urologists for more advice is a good idea.

I also think this is very important, get a LOT of exercise, cardio/weights etc if you don’t already, getting fitter has benefits in many ways.
2 great reasons to do this, first you get better erections! Second regular exercise helps stop depressing, because it releases “happy vibes” to your body. :)
And of course will give you a overall better well being.

I guess what I’m saying is, try attacking this problem from all angles, plus enjoy the other benefits that may come with that:)
Good luck.

Peace.

You should try, as mentioned before some ED drugs like Viagra,Cialis JUST to test yourself if you have bigger problems or not(meaning if you can’t get erect with viagra and maintain the erection, then it could be bigger problem).

As already said, Anti depressant CAN kill erections.

What meds are you taking? SSRI’s can cause impotence in some men and they always will cause some sort of sexual side effect. Personally, they weakened my erections slightly and made it impossible to climax when I tried them, thats when I switched to wellbutrin which is an NDRI. I was also on other meds when I tried the SSRI, so it was a combination of buprenorphine and an SSRI that messed me all up.

Drugs suck, I plan on methodically tapering off buprenorphine as soon as I can muster the will but I will probably stay on wellbutrin for a time (one thing at a time). I am so addicted to opiates it isn’t even fair; but this is your thread and not about my problems. On the bright side, I have been blessed with some good equipment and a PE enabled penis and never the less can, will, and always will be able to get a rock hard cock so I cant relate to your problems other than the SSRI issues you’re having.

I can literally fuck a goat on heroin with a taurus judge up my ass loaded with .410 bird shot ammo with a low testosterone level these days. I don’t even know what keeps my dick hard to be honest; oh wait, maybe it is all the pornography, my cable clamps, and dick pump. Seriously though, I don’t mean to make a mockery of your thread, I hope you resolve this issue and I sympathize…..hope you see some better days soon.

PS, I recently purchased the taurus judge public defender….fucking awesome gun. The problem is though it makes you want to shoot something. I’ll have to settle for the shooting range or pray someone carjacks me. About guns, my dad always said “you may not be able to shoot them but they sure are fun to look at.”