Originally Posted by goldenbear
Just curious if anyone has experience with this and what their thoughts are/were? Do you recommend it? How long until you healed completely with no signs of bruising etc? And anything else you care to add. Thanks!
I had a vasectomy and didn’t feel 100% sexually for 6 months. That was 16 years ago. I feel great now. I was always happy with my choice but I was quite nervous for those first 6 months.
But circumcision amputates much of the penile surface and most of it bears highly specialized pleasure-receptive nerve endings found nowhere else on the body in such density.
The foreskin allows the whole skin tube to slink and glide frictionlessly over the erect shaft. Without it sex is altered dramatically for the owner and his partners. The foreskin also provides protection for the suppleness and sensitivity of the glans and the mucosal “skin” between the corona and the outer-facing skin. Without it these parts will get dried and dull and less responsive.
Why exactly would you get circumcised? Have you investigated non-destructive options? For example if your foreskin opening is tight then a few months of gentle finger stretches is nearly certain to resolve that. If your frenulum is tight you can stretch it or snip it without amputating anything. If you think you’d prefer to not have the skin over the glans 24/7 then you can try living “skinned back” with the aid of simple and comfortable devices or you could have a non-amputating “bi-lateral dorsal slit with transverse closure” to let the skin live off the glans.
Hundreds of thousands of circumcised men are enduring a tedious multi-year process of non-surgical foreskin restoration to undo just some of circumcision’s damaging effects on sex. I’d say amputation is not to be entered into lightly. Most of the world (over 95% of the non-Muslim world) is intact. Half of US infants are now being left intact. Skin is in.
Apart from all that, EVERY surgery carries risks of unwanted outcome and complications during healing. Make sure your surgeon knows exactly what your goal is and that he or she signs something describing the type and degree of cutting. MANY cut-as-adult guys wake up from surgery horrified to find WAY too much skin was removed.
Good Luck,
-Ron