Can't Cure my Premature Ejaculation, which SSRI's med should I pick

I’m going to visit my urologist again, and ask him to prescribe me one of the SSRI’s.

Which is the best for not killing my sex drive and with the least side effects? What should I expect after using it? Do you think my urologist will agree to prescribe it? Can it cause ED? Or something that is not temporary?

I need to take cialis with it? (I’m only 19, and cialis is really expenise - 10$-12$ for one pill)

What are you advising me to do? I’m cumming after 1-2 minutes, and then struggles to get another erection and to save it during sex.

I’ve had it, I can’t keep doing it.

Maybe after a month or two I’ll stop taking it and my situation will be better, what do you think?

Thanks.

OS-q,

I can only speak as to what worked for me. I simply asked my family doctor for the generic version of Paxil.
I told him what I wanted it for and he had no problem prescribing it for me. You may want to print out a list
of side effects to show him that it works on premature ejaculation. It was a very low dose (10 mg) but even
then it worked too well and I had to cut it in half. It took about 2 weeks to become fully effective.

You shouldn’t have any need for Cialis unless you have erectile problems. Otherwise, it works alone. I had no side effects at all.
Other than delayed ejaculation, I couldn’t even tell I had taken it. I seriously doubt it causing ED.

Read “I solved my premature ejaculation” or something like that by KingXXX (?).

You can't take SSRI for a short time and expect the side-effect to be permanent. It isn’t.

I’m talking about negative side effects.

Iguana, thanks, I’ll try it, are you still using it?

Hi OS. How’s the glans issue going?

I would steer clear of anti anxiety meds if you can avoid it. However, mirtazapine is probably the best one when it comes to no sexual side affects. I believe there were no adverse sexual reactions. I was on it myself and it had no negative sexual affects. However, seriously consider taking these things, they can be hard to get off - I had bad withdrawls when I stopped. I’ll never touch medication like that again.

Hi Yataghan, I’m still waiting to my new Doppler examine to see if the radiologist can find the leaking vein, and if it’s just o vein who’s leaking, thanks for asking.

About the anti anxiety meds, why should I avoid them, are they addictive? Why have you stopped?
Are there any other meds that can help stop premature ejaculation? Do you think after you’ve stopped using it, you’ve overcome your pe?

Thanks.

I heard Celexa is good for pre-mature ejaculation.

Personally I found them addictive. Not in the sense that I craved them, but if I went a few days without taking them my state of mind dramatically deteriorated. At one point I spent the entire night in a sweat, with a sickly warm stomach just continually pacing back and forth, all my problems magnified. It was all mental, but the result was physical because I could not control these feelings at all. It was the closest to suicidal I have ever been, pretty scary.

Now apparently not all people experience withdrawls, and these days doctors reccomend coming off the drugs very gradually to avoid this. This wasnt advised to me by my doctor though, he said I could go off whenever I wanted, and I was unlucky enough to be one of the ones who did have a bad reaction. Some people still have problems, and end up completely dependent on them. So I went cold turkey, stopped taking them and eventually got over the hump.

Overall I’m probably slightly more anxious and neurotic being off the drugs, but I’d rather just be me and work on these problems other ways without chemical assistance.

Unfortuantly I don’t know what else could help. Maybe a numbing cream, a condom, or try different positions. I actually have the opposite problem, I can’t cum for the life of me…have to jack myself off after sex to actually blow.

L-Methionine and B complex if you have high histamines.

I’m going to try a round of Prozac again for my premature ejaculation. Last time, I was on 20mg a day for a couple of months and didn’t see any significant results. Maybe a minute more I lasted, that was it!

I’m going to use Paxil, or Paroxetine which it the same.

Thanks Iguana, I’ll keep you all posted.

Seroxat is another name for paroxetine.

I can last with up to 5-10 minutes whem I’m getting a hand job \ BJ , but when I’m having sex it’s taking more then 1-2 minutes to cum.

I need to work on brain and not on my unit :\

Even on paroxetin?