Cumming so fast

Iam having a problem ever since I started pe I have been cumming quicker ! And the only way I can not cum quick is if I have a cock ring or I am buzz. It’s weird because after a few beers I feel normal with a buzz but active but my performance is longer and I wanna know if any one know a technique so I cannot cum as quicker.. I usually cum first and my lady looks at my funny. And it’s embarrassing, I would like to try some thing else bysides drinking and wearing a cock ring. Or maybe it’s just me? Please any one I and going to try it with her soon so I wanna make it a surprise.. Thanks !

Maybe you’re doing something in your routine that has made your glans a little more sensitive?

Although PE itself shouldn’t make you a premature ejaculator, I think we all go through a period when we become very absorbed with our own units and maybe begin to look at sex a little differently because of that? Like being somehow freshly aware again of the sensations of sex; maybe that could be tipping you over faster?

I hear you dude,I’m having the same trouble because of pumping, my dick has gotten so large in girth that the pussy feels so tight.I just can’t help but explode inside of her.

One word:

KEGELS

And in conjunction to that:

EDGING

(go get ‘em tiger :sheepdo: )

Are you wet jelqing. I have found that wet jelqing is a great technique for length gains, but for me, I am more sensitive around the sweet spot during a period of lots of wet jelqing sessions.

If you edge wrong, can that be counterproductive? I been a little worried.

Wouldn’t it be so that you can “teach” your body to always balance at the edge, and that result in getting near the PONR much quicker than before practice of edging?

Has everyone who does edging gotten positive results?

Your supposed to edge and then cum,but hold out as long as you can.

I don’t think it usually works that way, Retainer. Even if it did, part of the point of edging as re-training is to learn to better recognize all the steps in your own ejaculation process - not just the point of no return but the sexual exictement steps that lead up to that so that you can take counter-steps away from it and prolong the “edge.”

This practice is especially helpful to guys who used to masturbate in fast and furtive ways because they were afraid they would get caught in the act. That kind of early masturbatory “training” does definitely contribute to issues of premature ejaculation later when you start having intercourse.

wow, I really got the whole edging concept wrong. I thought the point was to bring yourself near the PONR as quick as possible, let the feeling subside, go to PONR, subside and so on.

Instead I should stretch my masturbation sessions to the length I want my intercourses, in order to learn the body to hold the orgasm for that long?

If I want to able myself to bang my girl in a furious pace for 30 minutes, I should train myself masturbate in a furious pace for 30 minutes without orgasm?

Makes much more sense, am I on the right track now?

And also, where does kegels become useful in this kind of training? I thought they where to able yourself to go even nearer the PONR before ejaculating, so to snap the orgasm off more efficient.

Hey guys, this is the question am wondering about as well. I’d really appreciate an answer for that. Thx, Gery

Happy New Year! ;)

Retainer,

That is exactly what I try to do when edging. What I do is go as long as possible without coming remotely close to having an orgasm. When I do start to feel like I am going to cum, I slow down the pace. Sometimes I have to stop all together. I also try to count up by sevens (hey, multiplication tables do come in handy!). Just get your mind to focus on anything other than your penis or how good it feels. This helps a lot if you want to go the distance.

Kegels help build up your BC muscle, which is directly involved with ejaculation. I find that doing a kegel when I am close to the edge will usually put me over. However, when I slow it down and do some reverse kegels, it helps me gain control again. People are different though; as some prefer regular kegels over reverse kegels to gain control. There is a good thread called “The ejaculation process” that explains all of this really well.

Hope this helps,
Clyde

I know what kegels are but what is edging ? I heard it on sue johnson or that one show that comes on tv that ladie web site says that kegels make your muscles tissue tighten up.. What I wanna know is what is edging!

Edging, is working yourself up to just before the point of no return pretty slowly, then stopping. Letting the feeling subside, and repeating. Do it as many times as you can possibly bare.

I’ve never got past 10. The urge to shoot my load becomes far to strong and I usually either have to stop, or do it

Well guys you’re not gonna fuckin believe this. Yesterday I had sex with my gal and I was very anxious about cumming so fast. But a lil before the PNR squeezed my PC (did a fuckin strong kegel) for lets say 5-10 secs and didn’t hold my breath back. Wow man my cock was rock hard and after that I had to screw my gal for about 1-1,5 hours to make me cum. Shit that was my best sex I ever had. And yet my gal was screaming and asking for more :D The whole thing felt like a dry orgasm and after I coudn’t make it in hour or so. So bros keep ya head up and do kegels because it helped me, am not doing them daily tho :) x Gery

I have used the same technique as Gery for years to achieve multiple orgasms. Complete change of attitude when you WANT to cum quickly because you know you can keep going. I can basically go until the wife yells ‘No Mas’ or I reach muscle failure. Techniques to delay your orgasm are sending you in the wrong direction.