Erection problems

I started doing PE after a negative response from a female. I’ve been doing it off and on for about a year but the only real gains I’ve had came in the first 2 months.

I’m in college now and I’ve had several bad sexual experiences in a row. Here’s how the situations have gone. I’ll be getting a BJ (hate to use that term) but I’ll get to about 90-95% erect and I can’t seem to finish. By the way, some girls are a little reluctant to have sex on the first encounter so I’m limited to oral. It’s just a pain in the ass for me and the girl. I’m only 18, help!

And one more thing, I had only had 1 sexual experience before deciding to start PE and I’m wondering if its had any effect on my abiltity to “finish”

Thanks

Do you still PE? You can’t get to 100% at all? Do you enjoy the BJ? Can you finish by yourself?

If you are new to sex with a partner, it can be a little iffy at first because you are nervous no matter what is happening (if you don’t like the term blow job, just say, “receiving oral”).

Nervousness creates adrenalin and adrenalin reduces the erection to some degree, or altogether. Your confidence will build as you get to know the person better; you’ll relax, and everything will be the way it’s supposed to be.

I’m not of your generation but what I am picking up from young people is that oral sex is more acceptable to younger women than intercourse - as a very, very general rule. What an attitudinal difference compared with when I was in college.

Could it also be a case of ejaculatory incompetence? I take forever to finish from Oral usually.

TT, there is also another condition for which I have for the moment forgotten the term; has to do with the male’s mental refusal to get off with a particular partner. If your head isn’t into it for whatever reason, your ejaculatory process totally stalls. Ironically, the male is seldom aware of the mental process going on, so focused as he is on what’s happening to his penis.

Yeah,

After all my years of man whoring. I found that if I don’t like a girl and think she is a keeper material, I just won’t cum. I can go over 50 minutes on blow jobs cracking my knuckles and staying hard the whole time. But on the same token, I am now afarid of finding wife material and cuming in 30 seconds with her cause I actually respect and like her.

EI can also be from strange backgrounds of what religion you were raised. If you were taught sex was bad and dirty you don’t get to nut. Also some people are paranoid about knocking a girl up and just won’t nut while one is around. Weird stuff!

Had you been drinking? Sometimes when I’ve been drinking, I have the same problem.

To answer several of these questions…

Yes I’ve often been drinking. No, I have no trouble finishing myself.

But thanks guys, I really appreciate having someone that understands. I guess maybe all I need is to relax.