Female curiosity

That isn’t even relevant. What women he dated makes no difference. He is short, stocky, bald, and cheap. The cheapness and the stockiness he can fix with effort, but the rest is something he has to deal with.

Did you not read my post? You are using the same cliche I used.

:rolling: I have the Lord of Acceptance criticizing me. :rofl:

Easy now guys. No aphrodisiac is going to help any guy thats already an A-hole… It may help them make the intial attraction but thats about it.

Ive heard many stories of guys with stunning good looks but still rejected by women for either their size, financial situation, a bad drug habit, stupidity or other bad quality in their personality.

Being good looking doesn’t matter whether you shave or not, or the clothes you wear. Some guys can just do all the wrong things and still look good. If she was meaning that guys dress up and shave, she needed to word it differently, because I apparently took it the wrong way.

I never look for a fight. BTW, it takes two.

I always thought stuff like this was kinda bullshit. Please explain more.

Xl,

Maturity is a great thing to pursue and I wish you well.

Oy (: I was talking about visually, looking at pictures of naked men. Visual. Haven’t I already said that it’s good to be able to hit the cul de sac, etc.? On a practical matter, yes, PE is good. I think some men here might be jelquing themselves out of being able to comfortably have sex with the majority of women, but for a guy who is four or five inches long—go for it. A good thing. Will help you hit the cul de sac and improve tightness. Or if not, you can do just fine if you learn how to work her g-spot with your cock.

Women already in a relationship are going to be practical, enjoying the mechanics. Visual is kind of a moot point. Unless you get off on webcamming. And nothing wrong with that. I was in the minority there, I know it. When I was camming, I’d go through a couple dozen cock cams a night—I liked to watch all sizes, but the other women in the room liked to watch the big ones.

But in general how is visual going to help pick up chicks unless you go to a nude beach? Just from a logistical point of view soulful has better odds of working because women can see soulful. I like to watch hard cock a lot more than most women, and even I get turned on with soulful. A manly soulfulness.

Xl, BTW, I’m not looking for a fight. I just think you’re being awfully picky with Zane.

I will say this although it sounds crazy, and maybe it will make you feel better. I’m 39. When I was younger I was pretty hot-looking. I did not get the male attention I do now. Of course I get attention from men who know about me, but even men who don’t know what I do, what I can do, they hit on me, which is perfectly ridiculous. I am old and unattractive. I am pretty sure it is because I have utter and total sexual self confidence. That comes from my ability. Now if PE gives men the same sexual self confidence, there’s not a more potent chick magnet in the world.

Then drop it.

Don’t have her try to hold it—that’s too hard for a beginner and not necessary. Just rhythmically flex without stopping at any point. It’s very typical for the #3 to be intimidating. The Gyneflex has a huge range—each level can take several months to master. If she is able to flex it at all, she’s using the right level. When she is able to close it all the way she can move to the next level.

Some very dedicated women are able to get through a level in weeks, but those women are very motivated (and I’m not one of them—hell I’m still working on #5!). It’s basically like any weightlifting routine, like training any muscle.

The Gyneflex should basically force her to use the correct muscles. Even if she is helping close it with other muscles too, the PC muscles will get a workout. That’s why it’s like a Nautilus machine for the vagina.

Tell her not to get discouraged. Closing level #5 basically is virgin tone. And I even have trouble closing #6 with my hand!

SlickyDicky, the pheromones have passed a double-blind placebo-controlled test.

Will you two stop?

Zane, any chance that you’ll make a tutorial video using your clam tightener thingy?

What?

Just asking.

Mm :fob: I used it a couple times on cam in closeup for women at jmeeting who asked me to, who were curious about it. My abilities do attract interest. But watching it work doesn’t really tell much because everything is happening inside where you can’t see, except for seeing the ends move closer together.

I’m certainly open to any advice on how to fix this emotional numbness. I’ve been doing tantric exercises and key sound, and both of those seem to be helping. I do have heart chakra orgasms very easily. I guess my emotional capacity is functional, there’s just a disconnect when it comes to men. For example, I feel a faint revulsion kissing men, although I can orgasm upon penetration and keep having an orgasm every twenty seconds or so.

I can do without the long diagnosis on how damaged I am and why I am so damaged. I am well aware of my limitations and how I got them.

Emotional numbness is something all us have some expereince with at different times in our lives.
We all hurt but staying grounded within yourself will help you deal with it.

I actually have a DVD on Tantric sex because I think its a fascinating subject.
Im always looking for anything that drives women out of their mind. Its how I get my pleasure!
Its called the “Tantric Guide to Better Sex” with nationally recognized experts Margo Anand, Robert Frey, David Ramsdale, and Charles and Caroline Muir.
Their methods are supposed to prolong and intensify orgasm and create a sexual energy that unifies a couple emotionally, physically and spiritually.
I believe that sex is about 85-90 percent in the mind to begin with so I believe that the mind connection can only enhance the physical, emotional and spiritual aspects of sex. Unfortunately many people only expereince the physical part.
Granted that one must be at least somewhat sexually attracted to their partner in order for the energy to even have a chance of flowing between two partners when they make the physical connection. I liken it to the difference between one that swallows his food whole without taking time to savor it ( like a dog) and one who takes time to decipher all the delicate textures, flavor and subflavors hidden in the food.

As far as the long diagnosis, I hear ya but its not uncommon that when new members enter the forum, there is a kind of settling in period or jockeying for position whereby other members put you through your paces and see what your made of, especially if you said something controversial or insensitive. Even though we are a forum of exchanging scientific ideas as they relate to the penile growth and exercises, the social aspects of it are unavoidable because that is the dynamics of any place where a bunch of humans gather and chat…virtual or real life.
Some rough seas at the start but hopefully its smooth sailing for you from here on out.