Female curiosity

Women like to look at large penises—it is hardwired. It’s a secondary sexual characteristic for humans, just like big antlers or dark lion manes or big peacock tails. I think that’s pretty clear looking at the difference between human penis size and other primate penis size.

On the other hand, I strongly suspect baldness is another secondary sexual characteristic. Big antlers and dark manes have been found to predict sperm health. DHT improves sperm health in men, and DHT also causes baldness. It’s just a hypothesis of mine, but when you consider there’s no earthly survival reason for male baldness, also that it served to show off the large human forebrain, I think it’s pretty clear. Subhuman hominids and humans coexisted for a very very long time. Baldness would have been a way of showing off clearly human characteristics.

I know it’s farfetched, but if I’m right about that, I think it’s clear that evolutionary hardwiring only goes so far in sexual attraction. And that Rogaine and hairpieces are men sawing off their antlers :chuckle:

Zaneblue,
Yes the primary reason (it goes almost without saying) of a penis forum is to exchange scientific ideas as they relate to penile growth, hardness, sexual function and whatnot however we also have some family like atmosphere here and many choose to share some of their lives here and even become friends in real life. (which is completely a personal choice and not mandated by the forum)
It is common courtesy to extend a warm greeting when a new member comes aboard. For you to say that “I’m not here to understand your psyches” after extending you a warm greeting was IMHO rather cold and insensitive. The comment about “psyches” was merely an anecdotal afterthought of some social life on this forum (that followed a warm greeting) The purpose of this forum is already firmly established…but your response is duly noted.

This has been a good thread and it’s certainly refreshing to hear from the female perspective in such a give it to you straight manner.

Now I have always disagreed with what women consider their self proclaimed “expert ability” to judge a mans penis size based on the bulge they percieve in his pants. So many factors go into creating the bulge in the first place. The type of pants, did he take his shirt tail and wad it up in front of his cock? is he a shower or a grower?
Yes overall cock size helps in the “bulge” department, but my flacid hang can be anywhere betweeen 5 and 6 inches and I really don’t show all that much of a “bulge” in my pants.

Like most guys, I’ve had to put up with my fair share of bulge conversations when around a group of women.
99.9% of the time it comes off as extemely vain and sounds as if it’s coming from insecure women with sex and /or self worth issues. I would also guess that almost a same percentage of the time it’s used mainly to shit test and attempt to psychologiacally slap the men who may happen to be in attendance and have to put up with this shit. But WTF would they know? There’s a big piece of meat sitting in the chair right next to them and they don’t even know it. The first thing that goes through my mind when I hear this stuff is, they don’t know shit and here we go again …
What is this anyways? Payback for all the tit watching we do?

Like I said, I don’t show all that much of a bulge in my pants even with a flaccid that can be anywhere from 5 to 6 inches.
But I’m sitting here with a cock that according to all the data on this site is in the top 5 percent or better of the size range when it’s full on. IF I was a single guy I might be inclined to try and create more of the impression of a bulge for attraction purposes, but my wife already knows what I have and considers it her BIG secret. Besides the self confidence that I project in my life says way more about my cock size than any bulge ever could.
A high class woman picks up on THAT factor and I find it’s much more of a turn on for them, or at least the women I would care to be with.

Cock watching seems to be more of an activity resigned to teenage girls, drunken club sluts, and my recently divorced tramp of a sister in law. 1 group is trouble, and the other 2 I want nothing to do with.

I also disagree with your claim that seeing a large flaccid does nothing for the excitement of a partner.
My personal experiences are quite the contrary. What’s with all the bulge watching anyways if a large flaccid does nothing for you?
Hmmmmm, sounds like a contradiction to me.

So let me get this straight, women are hardwired to look for large penises while looking for a mate. They constantly check out guys’ bulges, their hands, and feet, trying to guage the sizes of their penis. The majority of women (excluding those who are really small and tight like you) can accomodate and enjoy large penises. So it certainly sounds like women, in general, favor large penises over small and actually seek them out. Otherwise, why would they get sexually turned on by the site of a “large” bulge over a “small” bulge? Why would they get excited by the site of a “large” penis over a “small” one? Their bodies are sending them signals in these visual reponses that the large one is the preferred one.

There seems to be a lot of double talk from women. On one hand they want to imply that size doesn’t matter, and you’ve certainly convinced me that a woman can be sexually satisfied without a large penis if the woman is as in tune with her body as you are, and if her vagina is as small as yours is. However, I believe that few women are as in tune with their bodies as you are, and that most women do not have small vaginas.

So for all practical purposes, size does matter a great deal in terms of “natural selection” where a female is playing the field and choosing a mate. Right?

Like the woman said, emotional intimacy is not her thing right now.

If it’s any consolation, I found your greeting wonderful and heartwarming. I wish I were that friendly.

Thanks Modesto! ;) It is some consolation my brother but Im over it now.

Absolutely. I am very emotionally cold and insensitive, especially on the topic of the male psyche. Don’t mean to hurt anybody though, I do apologize. Didn’t used to be this way, and hope to get back to being feminine one of these days. Been through a lot, the past couple years especially.

Although I am very interested in helping people out.

Let’s see here, I would fall into group #2. :D Lord, didn’t think the idea of cock-watching would be a hot-button issue on a PE forum. Forget I mentioned it !

Its cool. Being aware as opposed to in denial of your insensitivity to the male pysche is half the journey to overcoming that problem. Not all men are as bad as you may think but I can certainly understand how a few bad expereinces/relationships might have tainted your overall impressions of men and caused you to generalize.
Apology accepted. Welcome to the forum. :)

No, it’s not that. I’m not saying men are dickheads or anything, although actually in my book with my love of dickheads that would be a compliment. I like men. I’m just—damaged. I’m about on the level of the Borg, “You are here to service us.”

Zane,

I know you get bombarded with a lot of q’s at once, but don’t forget post #109. :D

Thanks,

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I cant speak for all men but what I can say here is that after more than 2 1/2 years on this forum, Im confident that the men on this forum are better caliber of men than you might find elsewhere. Despite our obsessions with penis size and the stereo types that might be associated with that, you will find many of us to be true gentlemen and intelligent. Many of us do PE for the sexual benefit of our wives/GF so we are in an ironically strange way servicing women. (as you say) :D We weed out most of the A-holes because they reveal themselves in time and hang themselves. I do love Star Trek but I somehow don’t think I could get away with that “servicing” comment on a predominantly female forum. :) Although I think I understand your brand of humor. :D

Men aren’t around just to service you. Last I checked, it was a dual relationship, where both parties benefited. Even as a joke, you need to tread carefully with certain subjects on this forum.

Almost every guy on this board has been hurt by a woman at one time or another. The extreme majority of those guys have forgiven and forgot, so using bad experiences as a scapegoat is just not an option.

I live life with the belief that a person I just met is generally good until they give me another reason to think otherwise. The world would be better if everyone could use this philosophy.

Welcome Zane - Blue….Welcome to the Machine! (Whoops! This isn’t the shower forever thread :) )

It’s been a hot topic in the past, but not a hot button. There are 3 mature female moderators here that have expressed enjoying seeing a bulge. I believe you’re correct about it being hard wired, but hard wiring only accounts for 50% of what we do—- according to a study done on 4 sets of identical twins separated very early and then finally reunited at a much later age.

Look, I know I am damaged. That’s why I am currently CELIBATE. Believe me, it is not easy for a woman like me to be celibate. I am extremely frickin’ orgasmic. I basically orgasm every time I DRIVE anywhere. So yes, I know I’m not nice, and that’s why I’m not dating.

My divorce was final a month ago. My ex-husband hit me. So cut me some slack. I would love to move on, but I need a little time. Also, I’d like to mention there are plenty of recent threads in this very forum that talk about women as if we were some kind of masturbation sleeve or something.