How can I make my penis more sensitive

Pleasure vain?

It comes back to what your sex life experience has been I reckon. If it has always been wanking, you will have certain expectations and you will have aroused certain nerve endings. When you change to “proper” sex, it’s different and the “right” nerve endings are not being excited.

Try to swap from solo to doing it with her. Explain your predicament and work through it together. Don’t try to fake anything. Be honest and open. Maybe start by limiting sex to masturbation — each masturbaing him/herself, but do it together. Then try swapping to doing it to each other. Then get more adventurous and, in time, you’ll be having an orgasm with your dick inside of her as it should be.

Hi Marinera, I feel a small amount of pleasure from being masturbated, but due to a few past sexual experiences of my penis going soft, I am a bit anxious about it. It’s all ways in the back of my mind because I think it’s going to happen again.

It’s probably the wrong terminology but I was talking about the vain that runs down the back of the glans. It’s a bit difficult to fake an orgasm with a female as girls they would usually see me take off the condom, or they take it off and would see it to be empty. This is a touchy subject so it’s hard to talk to girls about, very embarrassing.

Ordered my fleshlight today so I will see what happens.

Hey Steelworkers, please let us know what you think of the fleshlight. I’m considering ordering one too.

I will do RickM, should be here in a few days.

Avocet, you are correct in stating that Avena Sativa is derived from oats. You are however incorrect in assuming that there is no positive influence on male liido or sensitivity. Don’t take this the wrong way because while it is intended to be straight-forward it is not intended to be rude: unlike most people on these forums such as yourself (although I’d say you are distinguished by your number of posts if nothing else) I see an herb and do my research and THEN I actually eat it for 6+ weeks and draw conclusions based on reality instead of speculation. I would suggest that you or anyone who has an interest in healthy and effective supplementation check out Avena Sativa among other herbs that may not be the holy grail of penis pills but might be the best solution for SENSITIVITY. I can tell you, hands down, Avena Sativa is good, it is great, it makes your getitalia feel very sensitive, and you wouldn’t get the amount out of 50 bowls of cereal that you get out of a couple pills.

About faking the orgasm, it is a scientific fact that orgasm and ejaculation do not necessarily accompany one another. Therefore, if you seriously want to fake an orgasm, just make some drama, “ohhhhhhhh wwwwwwow”, pull out for a minute, chill, kiss and whatnot, and go again… ? But I really wouldn’t recommend faking orgasms too much!

Do you eat the actual herb, as in the plant itself? Or do they have it in capsule form like any other supplements?

Fleshlight came today, it feels very realistic, just like the real thing, I like how you can change the tightness as well. I still don’t feel much sensitivity when inside it, and after a very short time can barely hold an erection (just like the real thing). I do fully recommended the fleshlight though.

I’ve decided that I need to start a kegel routine to increase my erection quality. I’m also from Monday 11th January going to refrain from masturbation, and porn for about four weeks minimum to help re sensitise my penis. I’m possibly going to take Avena Sativa on the side whilst abstaining.

How did you make out Steelworkers?

Absolute, the Vitamine Shoppe has some in capsule form. I take 2/3rds their maximum recommended dose because I take a host of other herbs as well. I also take a week or so off from my herbs each month. Other GREAT herbs to experiment with are Ginkgo, Ginseng (I like American but if you want a ton of energy use the Asian), Tribulus Terrestris (needs cycling), L-Arginine… They’re all very safe and effective, and each works well with the next.

Hey matutinal_euphony, thanks a ton for the great info! I’ll definitely give Vitamine Shoppe a shot.

I’ve increased sensitivity through PE. Stretching has made my dick skin looser and more scrunched up when I’m flaccid, so the area that’s approximately between my circumcision scar and my glans is almost always protected by a fold of skin. When I’m fully erect that’s an area around three-quarters to and inch wide around my shaft that’s more sensitive, particularly on the underside.

Thanks for the posts above, guys. They’re most appreicated.

I reckon as well, that you should avoid porn, only use the fleshlight for a season and not ejaculate too often — say two or three times a week. Resenitise your dick to the kind of environment that it’ll find inside your girl. Don’t give up and discard the fleshlight in favour of your hand or other tool. Well, that’s what I’m going to do anyway. I’ve become brilliant at wanking, now to the exclusion of my wife — but I won’t go further down that path right now. What I will say, is I want to be able to have sex with her whenever she asks for it — which might not be very often, but I want to do it when the opportunity comes up. Right now, I can’t — I loose my erection as soon as I come inside of her. And I think it’s what I’ve done, enjoying my wanking too much. We have a similar problem, brother.

I have posted in a couple of threads about how I’ve quit porn, weed, and smoking. Rickm I used to be able to go literally for hours without exploding. Now, with my addictions aside, I’ve masturbated just a couple of times a week - and then only because it just doesn’t feel right not to.

I can’t last more than a few minutes - and honestly without porn, or any other stimulation other than my mind, masturbation kinda feels mechanical like I’m doing it just for the sake of doing it. I think this is what we are all shooting for - cause if I can only last a few minutes on my own due to the overwhelming sensation, than I won’t last very long inside a woman either.

If I can do it anyone can, my masturbation habits were fucked up, and ruining my life. Just lay off the dates with palmela and I swear things will get better. My hard drive had to crash to snap me into reality, but now I’m kinda banned from porn since I don’t have my own PC and I’m so glad for it.

Good luck my fellow masturbation addicts! Being free isn’t so bad, trust me.