I Can't Cum,help Please

Last week I had sex for 1 hour and I just gave up I couldn’t Cum!I had discomfort fucking her in the pussy and I didn’t even feel like I was close we did so much posses she even gave me a blow job. ..is it from stress?is it because I got a tight foreskin and it creates a discomfort (I’m working on it!The doctor gave me mometasone furoate gel)Or is it because I masturbate with the foreskin on and when I have sex the glands isn’t protected and it’s not comfortable?I don’t know what I’m talking about guys please help me!THANK YOU!give me tips please

Delayed ejaculation is the think most guys will say I have but in reality 1 month ago I could cum in less than 5 min…is it just stress because I care allot about the girl?and if so how to even relax?

Do you take any anxiety or depression medication? I has this issue when taking an SSRI for anxiety.

I can’t cum either. I have no sensitivity in my glands or head. I’m 62. It takes an hour of extreme effort and a powerful vibrator to have an orgasm.

Some nights I don’t cum. Tonight I came. I worked for it. Ultimately it was unreal.

I think that each of us have our own unique desires. Initially, in our lives, just touching a warm body satiates the needs. As we grow older our imaginations wonder, completely normal. Wondering takes time, wondering in the bedroom also takes time.

We are animals, but we have been conditioned to not be honest with each other as to what we want and desire. This is emotional inefficiency, it’s understandable, but inefficient.

However, this inefficiency also allows me to provide her something different.

You are good, give it all you have and know that you will finish when the time is right.

There are several things to focus on. First, I would stop masturbating. If you cum while masturbating, but not during sex, it may indicate that you need to let sex be the only thing that brings you to orgasm. You may only need to do this temporarily. Second, are you using porn at all? This is a proven killer of orgasm among many other issues - none of them good for your sexual health. Stop using porn. Next, ask yourself if you are really into this partner or not. Sometimes we can be with a partner that deep down we know isn’t right for us and that can cause the mind to do all sorts of weird stuff.

You mention stress. Are you under unusual stress? If so, it could contribute to the issue. So, deal with the stress or understand that this is the reality while you are under stress and you’ll have to wait for it to pass.

Finally, you haven’t yet responded to the post about anti-depressants. Some SSRI drugs are orgasm killers.

You need a big fat cock in ur ass

Alright. We ain’t having that kind of behavior. First and only warning. Knock off the crap. Follow the Forum Guidelines or be removed.

The comment and attitude has no place in this forum.

Let’s see; you can’t cum and you can’t pee when someone is around. Therapy or just waste your time.

You have been giving the best possible responses, thank you!

So my opinion now:It’s all in the head, everything related to sex is connected deeply with the mind and the way of thinking in that exact moment.

Delayed Ejaculation Syndrome was one of the reasons that I came to find solutions on Thunders Place.

There may be a list of varying reasons that you are experiencing the challenges that you have outlined. I have had challenges before with my degree of immersion during intercourse and at varying times the degree of my unit’s sensitivity. I have found that light pumping has aided to help me increase sensitivity and meditation has helped me develop a greater capability to be immersed in the moment.

Although this does not apply to everyone in my case, I have found that exposure to insane exposure to porn is not conducive to healing.

This can be annoying sometimes. Others mentioned SSRIs, I have never taken them, but have often read about how they can cause this issue, and are sometimes prescribed for premature ejaculation.

A key factor is learning about your body and what gives you the most pleasure. When I was younger I often came too quickly, and as I worked through those issues, and became older and more experienced, now the pendulum has swung to the other side. The tighter a woman is, the easier it is for me to cum. Hopefully I can increase my girth to a point where all women feel ultra tight!

My main strategy is using positions that increase tightness. I don’t know what it is called, but the one where you start in missionary, and then put your legs so they are on the outside and squeezing her legs in. This definitely increases sensation more than any other position.

Feeling disconnected from your partner emotionally can also be an issue in long-term relationships. A feeling of detachment is certainly not conducive to orgasm. Remembering to get out of your head and connecting with her can often be effective in achieving orgasm.

Hi Young Boss; I have experienced this too; I always thought premature ejaculation was the problem; who would have thought it has the reverse effect hey.! All I know is that through PE the key is to NOT cum while I complete my session. What I do know is that it is important to release the sperm periodically to enable fresh sperm to say;; flush out the old stuff. Leaving the old stuff in place is.. I suppose.a bad thing. Anyway. I decided to sweep through the threads regarding premature ejaculation in the hope of using all that information to actually cum. It’s quite ironic if that’s the word. I would spend a lot of time mastering the control and now I have to regress all that work. But hey.! It’s all a good learning experience. And one day I will have found an ON OFF switch to govern this aspect of sex. Yep.! Simply put.. The forums of Premature Ejaculation could help you. Just take that information.. Process it.and find a way to reverse it all. Hope this helps.

Talk with a urologist. No sensitivity in the head means somehow nerves are severed. Perhaps it can be corrected.