I Masturbate way too much

I have tried in the past to cut back but th emost I can not do it is 2 days. I get non stop boners it’s ridiculous after 2 days even if I’m depressed doesn not matter what my mood is and your talking about 10 days I can not imagine that. So far it’s been 24 hours since last time I ejaculated and my lower back pain already feels a little better still not fully recovered.

And why do I do it? It’s weird it might be an addiction like I said originally even if I’m not in the mood I make my self in the mood on purpose to do it. I get soreness in my cock after doing it so much where when I get a boner it hurts but still I end up doing it. I do it at the worst times also. As my name is bodybuilda I work out a lot I do it sometimes right before I work out and right after. I really don’t know what to do and I don’t believe in taking drugs I don’t know how to explian this but even when I have a head ache I won’t even take a tylenol I do natural approaches like drink more water get fresh air which fixes that.

So anything natural I can do I have been having sex since I was 19 and I have never met one girl that has satisfied me yet. I did some research and I fall to the category that I think I have death grip syndrome. I always masturbate dry so when a girl gets to wet in the pussy I lose the feeling and have found out that is the reason why I can’t cum while having sex unless the girl is dry. If her pussy is drier than wet I can cum easily.

For this problem I used condoms to protect sensitivity.

So when with a women she always felt much better than masturbation with a condom.

Condoms for me are out of the question when I put a condom on I feel like I don’t have a dick anymore. And I just masturbated 10 minutes ago so as you can see not doing it for 10 days would be close to impossible for me.

Use lube. It may not feel right at first but you will get used to it soon. Best lube….and I should know …one half olive oil and one half hand lotion. Shake well before using as it separates. This lube will not dry out and no need to reapply. Clean up with a towel…no washing necessary and the lube is good for the skin. And you wont destroy sensitivity and the feeling is closer to real sex. You will retrain your dick.

I would try getting yourself into situations where you end up with no privacy to masturbate.

Go to a friends house and drink, stay the night, invite some friends over and do the same.

Travel.

I just hope you’re not nutting in your coffee.

Puts a whole new spin on the term “non-dairy creamer.”

Hmmm, it could incite a circle jerk though.

Nah there aint no place where I can’t figure out a way to do it. There’s always a bathroom somewhere.

I have the impression that you do not do it because you are horny. You do it just because of a bad habit, and because you do not have (yet) the ability to control your emotions and guide your present using reason. If you stop doing it, you will have constant erections; of course, because you have your body used to it. But is absolutely psychological. I am sure your hormone levels are normal. The solution is on you. Use your reason, isolate your emotions. When you are asked why you do it, you answer “I’m not sure, sometimes I’m not even in the mood”. Well, that’s your first homework. If you do it, there is a reason; you have the answer. Saying “I’m not sure” or “I don’t know”, that’s a psychological issue. It will be a good mental exercise. I recommend stop doing it. Simple. Just do not do it. If you have a girl, have sex with her once a day if you want. But forget using your hand “just because”

Yeah it sounds rather like an addiction, from everything you’ve said in your posts. You’re goddamn lucky to have the ability to orgasm and ejaculate so much (no, it is not typical for most guys to be able to cum three times in a half-hour, regardless of ejaculate volume!), but you’re obviously unhappy with how compulsively you’ve been masturbating, and you want to reduce it so that you have more penile sensitivity and feel more well-rested, yet you can’t reduce it — seems similar to any other addictive behavior. Might want to see a psychiatrist about that. In addition to therapy, there are some medications that help people fight their addictions.

And yes, feeling exhausted and feeling sexually insensitive are definitely normal signs of overdoing it with the orgasms/ejaculations. Guys vary widely in their “optimum” orgasm schedule to feel their most sexually healthy, but I doubt many guys feel their best with five ejaculations per day.

In honest I think any man can be able to cum three times in a half-hour span if they make themselves. Like I said I make myself get in the mood. Like that night I said I did it 3 times in half hour I was never hard to begin with just couldn’t sleep and decided to do it once and get myself hard by thinking of something I’m into on purpose and then I ejaculated. Still couldn’t sleep so got bored and decided to make myself hard again and do it again and repeat one more time which made it 3. It’s not like I was getting non stop boners that gave me no choice, I mean any guy who has a nasty sexual imagination which I’m sure all guys do can get themselves in the moood if they really wanted to I mean after all we all have a brain and a penis and that’s how it works to get a boner.

By some books. :)

I’m 29 and I do the same. Its a recreational thing for me….. bored? nothing to do? have a wank!

I need to try and stop though I think its affecting my PE, if I don’t masturbate or have sex in the evening I wake up with a rock hard massive boner that feels like my dick is going to explode (feels awesome) - if I do then I still get a morning wood but not quite as hard. I think this rock hard morning wood is essential for good PE gains.

From what I read a young guy needs to ejaculate 4 or 5 times a week. Occasionally I will have 3 or so a day, and yeah I feel pretty washed up.

bodybuilda - dunno, here are a couple things you could try if you haven’t already.

— edging for 30 minutes rather than masturbating multiple times. Basically bring yourself close to orgasm 4 or 5 times during that period and then back off. Until the last time, then let it go. You may find this is much more satisfying and relaxing. Plus you teach yourself to last longer in bed.

— Some days, do the edging, but don’t ejaculate! You still get the sexual rush, and the relaxation, but at least for me I do not feel all worn out afterwards. This is something I figured out from doing PE, you really do not have to ejaculate every time to have a lot of fun.

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As to the sleeplessness thing:

— no tv or computer 2 hours before bed — SERIOUSLY, you will be surprised what a difference this makes.
— try a relaxation or sleep tape. I have one called “Time Out For Sleep” that has been really great for the times I can’t fall asleep.

Could this be OCD but with masturbation instead?