Is it possible to continue after first ejaculation?

When I ejaculate, my glans is so sensitive to any touch that I cannot go on. I’ve tried different semen retention techniques, to hold back, but during intercourse I have a hard time controlling it, especially to avoid the frenulum, the most sensitive and good-feeling part.

Are any of you guys able to ignore or otherwise continue sex even with the extra-sensitive glans?

Have you been able to train yourself to continue? I just wonder if this is possible. I’ve love to be able to stay hard and keep going even after shooting by working past the “pain”.

Any advice guys?

Thanks,

BFLR

Why do you want to go on after you have ejaculated? Everyone goes through a refractory period after ejaculation so its normal not be hard soon after you have blown.

Are you Uncut?

I can continue and I ejaculate 2-3 times mostly during sex.

Bird !You are a blessed man. In that case let me change my statement to ” Most men go through a refractory period after ejaculation”.

GOD

If I’m into her* and haven’t spanked the monkey that day, then the refractory period after the first go around is nil- the willie stays hard and I can keep going with no rest.

*To no small extent that may influenced by her enthusiasm and appreciation of my yeoman efforts.

Cut.

So we can continue and I don’t have to think so much about “holding back.” My question was pertaining more to the pain felt in the glans and continuing to fuck in spite of it, not so much about the erection. I tend to stay hard after shooting, just want to work at continuing stimulation. In the past I new a couple guys that said “just ignore it, keep fucking”, so I wanted to talk with any other men that have also trained themselves to get past that point and keep going too. It seems it would take a lot of will power and conscious thinking at first, but I think when my wife and are together next (probably tonight), I’ll see if I can manage.

BFLR

BFLR,

It’s possible. Some guys just have extra sensitive glans right after cumming. You might try this. Right after ejaculating into your wife, just stop thrusting and just let your dick stay still in your wife’s vagina enjoying that sensation. Then gradually start to move your dick slower and slower. What should happen is that your glans will have time to adapt slowly again to the stimuli of having sex and gradually have that extra sensitive feeling replaced by pleasurable sensations which will allow you to continue having more sex. Just experiment a bit with the wife the next time.

You’ll eventually go limp. Why dont you try looking into nonejaculatoty orgasms? It took me 3 months of practice by I can honestly say it was the best thing I have ever done for my sex life. At first it was just edging but then I learned to fall back into a nonejaculatory orgasm. It feels just as good as a ejaculatory and I stay hard as long as I want. Amazing!

Well, I’d like to learn more about how to “fall back into a nonejaculatory orgasm.” Is it more than just trying to clamp down on the PC muscle?

BFLR

Do you have any interest in sex post-ejaculation? I can keep an erection and keep fucking after orgasm, if I want to (e.g., to satisfy a woman who’s near orgasm), but I typically have no sexual desire whatsoever at that point.

Yes there is more to it than just clamping down on your PC muscle. Probably the most important aspect is breathing. Deep belly breathing is essential along with knowing your arousal level. The trick is I think is actually getting to know the very exact moment when you might crest over ejaculation and then controlling it and stopping it through breathing and the PC. Just knowing the right timing took me many months in itself. At first I would ejaculate completely unable to stop the flow, then I got a sense of the timing and was able to control it somewhat, but still there was some leakage. Now nothing comes out when I orgasm at all and the feeling is just as powerful as if I ejaculated. Maybe a better feeling now, cause I don’t get tired and lose my erection. There are 2 books that are a necessity if you want to learn this:

“Taoist Secrets of Love” & “The Multi-Orgasmic Man” both by Mantak Chia

I have really sensitive glans as well and I finally just made my self keep thrusting after blowing my load, I just try and get the right mind set and just keep going, even though I end up going limp shortly there after.

PEFOREAL, I will try just what you said, and stmhealth I admit I think part of my problem is not breathing properly at these moments.

Thanks for the replies and suggests, guys.

BFLR