Lack Of desire HELP

lack of desire … what to do? watching porn every day can be the problem? often no I have strong erections with girls

Hey man, I realized that I was a porn addict and I know where you are coming from with the lack of desire etc.

If you’re watching porn constantly like I used to (I still relapse quite often, I am on NoFap) then you’re not going to feel “desire” but rather you just want the “release”. You can have strong erections and such with girls but actually desiring someone will be put aside and will take a bit of time to grow back into your “mind”.
If I were you (even though I’m already doing this) I would quit watching porn, it can genuinely really fuck you up and you won’t even realize it until you start feeling the side effects, even then your mind won’t realize it until it starts repeating.

Masturbate once or twice a week, a fellow user/moderator gave me this advice and I’ve abided by it for a while, despite relapsing here and there, I choose to not masturbate because I have Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction along with a terrible EQ in general.

This is an illness only you can cure.

Thank you for sharing your experiences here with us on Thunders Place.

I can relate to that which you are sharing and although there are some other underlying challenges for me a big challenge has been the abuse of self through porn addiction. I am not passing judgment on anyone who uses porn but for me and my composition, it is not healthy. I prefer keeping my energy for connection and engagement with actual women rather than states which are not here or unattainable.

The frustration in not being able to engage with full presence is enough for me to say that it does not work for me. I do not have fixed rules around masturbation however everything in moderation.

do you think that even going with an escort has the same effect as porn?