Multiple Orgasm questions

Hi all!

I stumbled across this form and I figured it would be the best place to ask my questions. So I’ve been doing kegels for a while now. I can now control the flow of my urine with ease, without flexing my thighs, butt, or other abs. Perhaps I am misunderstanding the whole multiple orgasms thing, but I am a little confused. When I get to that point where I need to flex my PC muscle or else I will ejaculate (few moments before that build up) I flex it hard. Whenever my partner or myself constantly stimulates me to the point where I would orgasm, I can feel that pressure trying to escape, but I don’t allow it to. However, a lot of times I just end up ejaculating (often times retrograde), or if I don’t it doesn’t really feel good because I am so focused on contracting that muscle. Does this make sense? Or is the point of multiple orgasms is to stop that build up and cease stimulation to allow for the pressure to go back down? If so, that sounds more like edging.

I would appreciate any advice!

I tried the same thing a while back, when I was finally able to hold back my come with my PC muscles, it felt the same as if I did ejaculate and my desire and erection faded. Not what I was expecting!

I found edging much more satisfying since the sensations seem to gain strength with stimulation and the mind blowing orgasm at the end is always worth the effort.

http://www.slid eshare.net/mant … mmary?related=1 - the usual Chia fare…

http://www.slid eshare.net/adit … =&from_search=3 - this book is highly practical - I read it when it first came out and found it excellent. I recommend it :)

@Dongalong your dp is very distracting :P Wait, so when you did hold back your ejaculation, you lost arousal? Doesn’t that defeat the purpose? I guess my main question is that is it possible to experience a multiple orgasm WITH constant stimulation?

@Firegoat, thanks for the resources. I read/have the Chia book, it was sort of helpful. I’ll look at the other one :D

Maybe I should have continued trying the PC cum block method until it became easier, I was too disappointed by the lost arousal to want to keep tryng.

Yeah, by ‘the usual Chia fare’ I meant that while it has some decent enough stuff in it, it’s also filled with Chinese folk-lore and impractical esoteric stuff. The other book I recommended as it will get most guys to where they want to go much faster. :)