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Originally Posted by Summerfag3000
Today I managed to resist I am proud of myself.
After pleasuring myself for almost 2 hours on porn.
I resonated at the peak of my excitement on the hottest scene I had ever seen, I turned everything off and then I went to take a shower.
I said to myself, stop! You will ejaculate, be disappointed, be tired, in a bad mood, and in addition on porn so you will take several days to get over it.
Fuck never again.. This trap is huge.
Nowadays porn girls are so HOT damn !
Nothing to do with what we had before.
Now in a single scene a girl can bring together all the fantasies of a man without any difficulty thanks to her attitude, her makeup, and her perfect body, the video quality ..
I feel like my soul is being sucked with incredible force through the screen.
It’s fuckn witchcraft !

I AM PROUD of you man, that is one bad ass move at the peak of excitement.

Learn about sexual transmutation and see it as an opportunity for inner and spiritual growth (read further bellow that your wife has no sex drive right now), once you find a way to soak in that sexual energy and move it around your body without the need of release you will feel very powerful and strong and will see a new path in front of you to grow in amazing ways.

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Originally Posted by flamingodynasty
I AM PROUD of you man, that is one bad ass move at the peak of excitement.

Learn about sexual transmutation and see it as an opportunity for inner and spiritual growth (read further bellow that your wife has no sex drive right now), once you find a way to soak in that sexual energy and move it around your body without the need of release you will feel very powerful and strong and will see a new path in front of you to grow in amazing ways.

Thank you ! i am currently learning about this kind of stuff.
I manage fuck without ejaculate sometimes but I am still in progress.

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Mockery can gives you unfailing faith in yourself.

Originally Posted by damianromante
The release (orgasm) is the issue. If you can look and not indulge, then you should be fine. But it’s with anything else, you can become addicted to the dopamine release. I found this article interesting, What’s Going On With Hormones And Neurotransmitters During Sex .

I’m done with porn, but in a different sense. I still use softcore for edging when needed for pumping, clamping, and jelqing. I think that I had one of the best jelqing sessions in my PE career a few days ago. But, I don’t allow myself to release or even get close. After about two weeks, I did something that I’ve never done, while she was bent over the side of the bed, I reached down and rested my hand on her mound and clit, allowing the movements to create friction. I even started to talk dirty. I needed to feel her. When we were done, she said, wow, you were really turned on. Her body alone turned me on. Before, my eye’s would be closed and I would be imagining or role-playing something from "the collection".

I imagine that it’s easy for guys in live in relationships to not relapse because we can literally have sex daily if wanted. So for guys in a different situation, you may need to get some friends with benefits or something along those lines. That way you can have a plan like, once per week, I need to meet-up.

All easier said than done, I know. But it is what it is I guess. I have no desire to release to porn anymore because I want to "unleash" all of that tension on her…and she’s been loving it. For the record, it’s been exactly four weeks.

I get you on this! Yes I don’t even get hard to what I happen to look at if I do, its so seldom now that when I think of masturbating to anything porn-related, even pictures, it kind of wigs me out and I don’t want to do it at all. But softcore, that would be cool. I guess pictures aren’t really the worst although they still affect the brain in a certain way similar to porno like movies and scenes. Awesome what you did to, your wife? Girlfriend? It sounds really hot! I haven’t released to porn since March 22 this year and when I did I felt pretty bad for myself. That was when I knew I really depended on it. That was when I figured out why, sometimes, I couldn’t stay or get hard when I’m alone and there’s no visual stimulation. If I can’t get hard all by myself, or stay hard long enough to cum, then I have a problem! No porn fixed it pretty quick. I’m very lucky my wife is able to have sex through the medicine she’s taking for menopause. She has the pussy of a 20 year old right now! So I gotta bang her good again like I used to a few years ago because her body can take it…and she wants it really bad. Last night I was pummeling her pussy like it was 10 or even 20 years ago and she never told me to slow down or change up. When I was on porn more than daily earlier this year I would get hard, stick it in her, and cum in seconds. Now I’m hard like crazy and have to work really hard to make myself cum so I don’t wear her out. Porn was a killer for me!

Yay on four weeks, keep it up it only gets easier and your life and body will continue to thank you! (And your lady will too!)

TL;DR: Proudly on Day 17 of my Dopamine Detox. Hoping to get my mind straight so I can get my life in order, as well.

And now for the long version:

I’ve been meaning to quit porn for a while now. I don’t know what changed, but this time has been easier than all of the previous attempts. Perhaps it’s because I’m at a better job that I enjoy more. Heck. I’d go so far as to say that I’m at a job that isn’t absolutely crushing my spirit and soul. Hah! I know for a long time I used porn (and alcohol and junk-food) to self-medicate. Now that the source of discomfort is gone, the need for the medication is gone as well.

Perhaps it just got to be…. Too mundane. Wake up early. Pull up The Hub on my phone. Find some good clips. Jerk off. Get up when the second alarm rings to go shower and start my day. Rinse and repeat ad nauseam. It became a part of my daily routine (which I already loathe).

Perhaps it was because it wasted so much of my time. I’ve had numerous weekend days where I’ve spent the majority of the day in bed, either masturbating or sleeping after masturbating. Beautiful days with beautiful weather that I could’ve spent outside enjoying the beauty of nature. Days that I could’ve used to clean my apartment or work on a project. Something that could’ve brought me joy and peace. Days all wasted lying in bed watching porn. Days I’ll never get back. Life’s too short to waste days like that.

Perhaps it was because – during my masturbation sessions – I noticed that my erection wasn’t at 100%. Before I started on this detox journey, I did a lot of reading here that tied porn use with ED. Getting a 60-70% stiffy every morning was nice…. But it just lacked the feel of a good rock-solid 100% erection. Luckily, I never experienced the kind of porn-induced ED that others here on the forum have experienced. Whenever I was with my girl, I was at 100% and ready to go. But that’s not to say that porn didn’t affect my sex life in a negative manner…

The thing that pains me the most to think about is that I lost out on so many beautiful, sensual, romantic love-making sessions with a woman that I loved with all my heart because I was playing the role of the male porn star in my mind. “The girls in porn love to be hammered hard, right? So that’s what I should do with my girl! Just pound her silly until she cums!” I’m sure that women do enjoy a good thorough rut every now and then, but it has to be balanced out with the kind of sex that builds emotional connections between the two parties. I didn’t give that balance to my girl and it eats me up inside. I hope that, by going on this detox, I’ll be able to be more present and aware with the next girl that comes into my life. I’ll be able to read what she wants/needs in the bedroom and give her the right balance of hard pounding and sensual connection.

I’ve read a lot here and elsewhere about the benefits of abstaining from porn consumption and masturbation. I’m hoping that I’ll see these benefits. I’m hoping that this change will help to alter the course of my life for the better.

Thanks to all of you TP-ers who help to make this such a wonderful and supportive community.

- SparkAdvance

Originally Posted by SparkAdvance
TL;DR: Proudly on Day 17 of my Dopamine Detox. Hoping to get my mind straight so I can get my life in order, as well.

And now for the long version:

I’ve been meaning to quit porn for a while now. I don’t know what changed, but this time has been easier than all of the previous attempts. Perhaps it’s because I’m at a better job that I enjoy more. Heck. I’d go so far as to say that I’m at a job that isn’t absolutely crushing my spirit and soul. Hah! I know for a long time I used porn (and alcohol and junk-food) to self-medicate. Now that the source of discomfort is gone, the need for the medication is gone as well.

Perhaps it just got to be…. Too mundane. Wake up early. Pull up The Hub on my phone. Find some good clips. Jerk off. Get up when the second alarm rings to go shower and start my day. Rinse and repeat ad nauseam. It became a part of my daily routine (which I already loathe).

Perhaps it was because it wasted so much of my time. I’ve had numerous weekend days where I’ve spent the majority of the day in bed, either masturbating or sleeping after masturbating. Beautiful days with beautiful weather that I could’ve spent outside enjoying the beauty of nature. Days that I could’ve used to clean my apartment or work on a project. Something that could’ve brought me joy and peace. Days all wasted lying in bed watching porn. Days I’ll never get back. Life’s too short to waste days like that.

Perhaps it was because – during my masturbation sessions – I noticed that my erection wasn’t at 100%. Before I started on this detox journey, I did a lot of reading here that tied porn use with ED. Getting a 60-70% stiffy every morning was nice…. But it just lacked the feel of a good rock-solid 100% erection. Luckily, I never experienced the kind of porn-induced ED that others here on the forum have experienced. Whenever I was with my girl, I was at 100% and ready to go. But that’s not to say that porn didn’t affect my sex life in a negative manner…

The thing that pains me the most to think about is that I lost out on so many beautiful, sensual, romantic love-making sessions with a woman that I loved with all my heart because I was playing the role of the male porn star in my mind. “The girls in porn love to be hammered hard, right? So that’s what I should do with my girl! Just pound her silly until she cums!” I’m sure that women do enjoy a good thorough rut every now and then, but it has to be balanced out with the kind of sex that builds emotional connections between the two parties. I didn’t give that balance to my girl and it eats me up inside. I hope that, by going on this detox, I’ll be able to be more present and aware with the next girl that comes into my life. I’ll be able to read what she wants/needs in the bedroom and give her the right balance of hard pounding and sensual connection.

I’ve read a lot here and elsewhere about the benefits of abstaining from porn consumption and masturbation. I’m hoping that I’ll see these benefits. I’m hoping that this change will help to alter the course of my life for the better.

Thanks to all of you TP-ers who help to make this such a wonderful and supportive community.

- SparkAdvance

Good luck to you brother.

You might want to read the book Your brain on porn and to join the nofap forum if you want additional support.

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Originally Posted by SparkAdvance
TL;DR: Proudly on Day 17 of my Dopamine Detox. Hoping to get my mind straight so I can get my life in order, as well.

And now for the long version:

I’ve been meaning to quit porn for a while now. I don’t know what changed, but this time has been easier than all of the previous attempts. Perhaps it’s because I’m at a better job that I enjoy more. Heck. I’d go so far as to say that I’m at a job that isn’t absolutely crushing my spirit and soul. Hah! I know for a long time I used porn (and alcohol and junk-food) to self-medicate. Now that the source of discomfort is gone, the need for the medication is gone as well.

Perhaps it just got to be…. Too mundane. Wake up early. Pull up The Hub on my phone. Find some good clips. Jerk off. Get up when the second alarm rings to go shower and start my day. Rinse and repeat ad nauseam. It became a part of my daily routine (which I already loathe).

Perhaps it was because it wasted so much of my time. I’ve had numerous weekend days where I’ve spent the majority of the day in bed, either masturbating or sleeping after masturbating. Beautiful days with beautiful weather that I could’ve spent outside enjoying the beauty of nature. Days that I could’ve used to clean my apartment or work on a project. Something that could’ve brought me joy and peace. Days all wasted lying in bed watching porn. Days I’ll never get back. Life’s too short to waste days like that.

Perhaps it was because – during my masturbation sessions – I noticed that my erection wasn’t at 100%. Before I started on this detox journey, I did a lot of reading here that tied porn use with ED. Getting a 60-70% stiffy every morning was nice…. But it just lacked the feel of a good rock-solid 100% erection. Luckily, I never experienced the kind of porn-induced ED that others here on the forum have experienced. Whenever I was with my girl, I was at 100% and ready to go. But that’s not to say that porn didn’t affect my sex life in a negative manner…

The thing that pains me the most to think about is that I lost out on so many beautiful, sensual, romantic love-making sessions with a woman that I loved with all my heart because I was playing the role of the male porn star in my mind. “The girls in porn love to be hammered hard, right? So that’s what I should do with my girl! Just pound her silly until she cums!” I’m sure that women do enjoy a good thorough rut every now and then, but it has to be balanced out with the kind of sex that builds emotional connections between the two parties. I didn’t give that balance to my girl and it eats me up inside. I hope that, by going on this detox, I’ll be able to be more present and aware with the next girl that comes into my life. I’ll be able to read what she wants/needs in the bedroom and give her the right balance of hard pounding and sensual connection.

I’ve read a lot here and elsewhere about the benefits of abstaining from porn consumption and masturbation. I’m hoping that I’ll see these benefits. I’m hoping that this change will help to alter the course of my life for the better.

Thanks to all of you TP-ers who help to make this such a wonderful and supportive community.

- SparkAdvance

Keep at it man! Sorry you lost your previous lover. I was asking my wife the other day if I pound her too hard and she said “no, you do me really soft and gentle too” and the force of my thrusting waxes and wanes from hard and fast to soft and slow during lovemaking sessions. You can for sure do it hard and soft; my hips just kind of do what they want as the passion moves through me. Getting off porn will help you immensely I know it will! I used to jerk off to porn religiously and now that I masturbate with no stimuli at all other than my body and cock, I’ve been having a great time, I’m focusing on my pleasure that I build from the inside only, and honestly, masturbation is really fun again. Its fun like it was when I was like 20-25 years old, and even though I started using porn during those years (whereas I hadn’t really used anything before that), I was still really excited to get off with my own body. That excitement really declined as the years went on and now, 20 years later, porn had a grip on my cock that neither I nor my wife could replace. Not getting it up for her when she wanted me the most was the final straw. Porn ended and my boners for her came back strong. Its been almost 16 weeks off of it for me and I feel so good I don’t even know what the source of my good feelings is. Its just like there was “something” there that is not “there” anymore and now its just me.

Stay with us here and keep updating and commenting, it was everyone and their positivity here that gave me that booster shot of support and help that I needed from time to time :)

Thanks for the kind and encouraging words, gents. I’ll certainly pop in from time to time to give updates on my progress (and to find encouragement when I need it).

Today is day 22 porn-free. Don’t know the last time I’ve gone this long without. Feels good.

Just passed day 12 myself - keep it up. I feel better in a lot of ways that I didn’t expect to.

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Jan22 - BPFSL: 8" (cold), BPEL: 7.5", NBPEL: 6.875", MEG: 5.5"

One Day - BPFSL: 9.5", BPEL: 9", NBPEL: 8.5", MEG: 6"

Originally Posted by Willis99
Just passed day 12 myself - keep it up. I feel better in a lot of ways that I didn’t expect to.

Hell yah! I know, same here, I feel better in a lot of ways that I didn’t expect to, too! Its weird to me. Its kind of freaking me out too, that porn was doing something to me inside and out that I couldn’t qualify or quantify until I had an event that threw me over the top and I could identify the problem and stop it. Just wait till you’re like 4+ weeks in, you’ll feel good!

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