Originally Posted by NeverEnough9
U are correct. Lately I’ve had some pretty bad anxiety. As noted in one of the links as an example, you tell someone not to think of a purple elephant and they will think of a purple elephant. It’s frustrating when people say to just stop worrying about it as they cannot relate. If it were that easy I wouldn’t be in this position. Either way, shouldn’t those compounds still work regardless? Or is my anxiety overiding them?
They only work when your body is trying to get erect anyway. If something is preventing that in the first place, like performance anxiety, they will not work.
It WILL happen eventually, especially after you become more comfortable with this girl in general, not just in the bedroom. That is why I asked, being involved with one girl allows you a much better opportunity to get comfortable, and the fact that you can achieve an orgasm at all is a good sign.
My advice would be to give it time, but if that will not work for you there are two options:
Pump and cock ring to stay erect and get the first time or two out of the way. She would have to be cool with this though as she will definitely notice the cock ring.
PGE1 or trimix injection. Unlike viagra, cialis, etc., this will automatically give you a massive erection. The downsides, it is an intercavernosal injection and could have unexpected side effects. Also, it is prescription only.