Premature Ejaculation Solutions

Ziggaman, Yes, I like to drink beer and have had no problems. I have a good relationship with my doctor and I can tell him anything I feel like and he listens and understands.

I take 25 mg. Every other day and it works great. I would think you would need to be on it a few days to kick in. I did quit taking it for a couple of weeks and the PM did start again. I plan to use it for at least the next 50 years.

PM is a common problem and any doctor worth his salt should be glad to try to help.

Thanks for the reply SCfarmer.

Ya know Zigg,

I have been thinking long and hard about your problem. Get it? Long and hard? Anyway, I think you should become a Monk! LOL No, just kidding. I think you should take up edging. The more I have done this, the more advantage I attain over the FUCKING issue. I cannot last a long time either without come kind of help. I have some pain pills I take for my back and I use those occasionally as i have posted before, however I do not like the side effects I get from them. I also tend to last a lot longer if I put a vibrator on the wife’s snatch while fucking her. This does get old at times and I have to keep buying batteries! Heh heh. But I have been edging now for a number of weeks and it really seems to be training this old dog to hold his wad! Wifey likes it to because I do a reverse Kegel quite often while fucking her brains out and my dick just gets huge when doing so. So, by the time I do cum it seems to be a lot bigger than upon insertion.

Do you know how to edge???

Heres how I do it.
Get a porno on the tv going. Get a vibrator. Jerk off a little and use the vibrator on your tool and get a big boner. Take yourself right to the edge, slowly and just before you cum, relax your dick and asshole and push like you are pushing out a big turd. (now make sure you take a shit beforehand so you don’t shit on your bed! LOL). This is called a reverse Kegel. What it does is stop the pumping mechanism and you don’t cum. Sometimes you will get real light headed and dizzy but it will subside soon. Then you are ready to take it to the edge again. Do this for about ten times each session. If you make a mistake and cum, don’t worry about it. There is always next time. Also, if you take it right up to the edge, a little will cum out of your dick but not a complete ejaculation. Just push like you are letting a big-assed fart and it will stop and then you can continue. I do this for up to 20 minutes all the time rubbing my vibrator on my dickhead or asshole as well. When I am done, I still feel like fucking my wife’s brains out!

What all this does is programs your dick and brain that they don’t need to explode every time they are asked to perform. I could see how this could really train someone to fuck for quite some time. It is also a very fun excercise that I enjoy and look forward to. It has been the only form of PE i have been doing this week because I got a T/vein and am recouping from that. My dick just get huge when doing this and I can see that I could get some size benefit from it as well.

What do you think DUDE?

v

Like VVC, Dude, Dudester, Duderino, my man!

Yeah, I have tried edging a little bit in the past, and I’m sure done regularly it would help a lot. It’s just that with the jelqing, stretching, and a little bit of hanging here and there, another 20 minutes spent edging is just a lot of time in the day to play with your willy.

But V, I thought you were supposed to do a normal kegel when you were on the edge. I’ve heard of reverse kegelling, but I thought it was something you were supposed to do before getting to the edge, at which point you do a normal kegel.

Well maybe but normal kegels do not work for me. I have tried them for years. If anything, they make me cum faster. Reverse kegel is my bag. It works for me every time and right from the start. Just make sure during your fuck moment that you don’t push out a giant fart! And if you do, then you will both get a good laugh. She will like the size so much she won’t care if you fart like a racehorse!

v

I agree with vincent, reverse kegels are the key. Regular kegels just make me cum faster. However there´s a trick with them, SQUEEZE A LITTLE bit instead of hard. If you squeeze really hard you probably are going to increase your arousal and ejaculate, but if you lightly contract them you will be more relaxed. Also, as you squeeze (remember, lightly) you can firmly press down the shaft of your penis (like if you were standing, trying to point to the floor), this will help to make your erection subsides. It really works for me.

Here’s an article on that new drug from J&J:

Yahoo News - Latest News & Headlines

The article is not there sm. It may have expired.

Just to keep you all updated:

I went to the doctor to talk about my premature ejaculation, and to try and get some Clomipramine out of her.

She said she hadn’t heard of it, but she looked it up and discovered that it was an anti-depressant. I told her about SCfarmer’s experience with the drug (saying that a friend of mine Stateside had found it to be helpful), and she hypothesised that SCfarmer’s doctor might have thought his dizziness was due to panic attacks or some kind of depression.

Anyway, the up-shot of it is that she has referred me to the psycho-sexual clinic at my local hospital. She said that they may believe that my prem-ejac is due to some kind of depression, and wish to prescribe me something like Clomipramine; although, because she hasn’t heard about the drug, she doesn’t feel comfortable prescribing it for me.

I’ll be interested to hear what the psycho-sexual people have to say. I may even tell them about Jelqing. They’ll probably try and lock me away!!!! :spin2:

Hmmmm :-k ‘Psycho-Sexual’……good name for a band.

Here’s another, with some links within it for further reading.

Currently there is more discussion about the vocabulary to be used in discussion and marketing of the drug than about the drug effects themselves. You have to wade through that.

Medical and health information

Dapoxetine HydroChloride eh?

Sounds promising!

You will get more mileage with this group by just presenting your own case history of premature ejaculation and answering their questions. This, PE, is one of those chicken/egg conundrums. Which came first, the PE or the depression that often accompanies PE? If you allow them to treat both without participating in their protocol, you may end up being overmedicated with antidepressants then find yourself in an ED situation. Be a broken record. You want no drugs which will potentially compromise your erectile function.

I haven’t read your whole story, zig, but if depression is indeed a large factor in your ejaculatory pattern then talk with them about the whole enchillada. Depression should be treated first, always. Worry about erectile function later, having first made your firm stand that you want to keep that.

How about “Sexual-Psycho”?

Yep, Avocet, I sure will. That would be pretty stupid.

I don’t want to be all spaced out on anti-depressants anyway.

I am also interested in that stuff, but I think in germany its not produced anymore.

Any ideas where to order it?
I would also take some residue (right word?) - feel free to PM me!

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