Sure way to stop yourself from cumming early

Since I started edging I discovered that if you are close to cumming then the easiest way to stop it is to shake your head back and fourth as fast as you can. Works every time.

Bro, which Head???

Best way I’ve found to not cum is reverse kegel or push out when you do cum. Its like a mini orgasm until the main event and you stay rock hard.

Works for me too, but not every time.

Your actual head lol. I can’t explain why it works but it does.

I just slow down my breathing, reverse kegal and relax my abs.

Arousal builds tension somewhere in your body. For me it’s my lower abs. Some guys it’s the gluts or quads. Just keep that muscle group relaxed.

Switching positions while doing the above also helps.

Same here. I get the orgasm without ejaculation. And when I finally do ejaculate it’s as if I’ve lost my mind. And it can go for 30 seconds or more.

You’re all talking about right when you hit the point of no return?

I appreciate the techniques giving above but not everyone can do those cause they take some skill and mind over matter somewhat. Shaking your head back and fourth requires no skill and anyone can do it.

🤣 I cannot picture myself vigorously thrusting only to stop and violently shake my head back and forth. Pretty sure I’d feel more awkward about that then cumming early. If I feel myself getting to within say 85% of the way to the PONR I try and do something else to get them going even more without pushing me further. Might be pausing to suck her breast or play with her clit or slap her ass pull her hair anything to hopefully keep her climbing while I subside a bit. That way it doesnt look like I’m stopping but rather focusing more on her. Best thing though for my endurance was doing threesomes. Honestly once I saw how easy a woman can get another one off and how little I need to be erect to make them cum it took alot of the pressure off. Use to think if I came its over. Now I rarely cum before she/they do as I usually try and make sure she cums before I even penetrate and then if I do happen to cum before we are done we just continue in other ways. 15 mins later I am usually ready to go again. I definitely feel like 95% of this is just in our heads.