My story:
At age 19, I started to notice I was loosing my hair on the top sides (classic baldness pattern). I asked my dermatologist if there was something I could do and she put me on Propecia. I had a gf at the time and I noticed no difference. Me and this girl were together for about an other year after I started taking Propecia and I never noticed any changes in the erections/libido department. i was still horny as a donkey and hard as steel, I could get it up as often as I wanted and I had perfect control over my ejaculation (perfect meaning that I only came when I wanted no matter what she did to me). Then me and this girl broke up. In the next few months I had short terms relationships during which I never noticed any diminution in the erection department (other than those caused by anxiety).
After that, I’ve had no significant sexual encounters for two years. All that time I still was on Propecia. during those two years, I did notice that my libido seemed to have faded quite a bit but I told myself that it was because I have not had any girl in such a long time.
Than I met my actual gf. Everything was going all right, the girl was fun, very pretty…but I felt very little libido. More than that, my erections were not as powerful as before, I had no control at all on my ejaculation and my cock even shrunk from it’s past size. I told myself that it was because I had not been as consistent with my kegels routine during those two years of abstinence, so I started kegeling like crazy…with no results. And my situation got worst. I had no desire (I rarely wanted to have intercourse more than once or twice a week) and erections were getting weaker.
And one day it happened: I just couldn’t get it up. I had been with my gf for about 6 months at that time, and this episode of ED created a whole lot of problems in my couple. but at that time, I told myself it was only because I was tired, I have not been exercising enough, etc. And one month after, it happened again: I wanted to have sex with all my heart, I wanted to get inside her so bad but my cock was just weak and totally flaccid. Once again big problems came in my relationship.
I immediately stopped taking Propecia and went to a doctor to undergo blood tests. The doctor was really an ass in this story and he wasn’t very cooperative nor comprehensive. I told me I stopped Propecia and he said that, since my blood samples were alright, my condition should improve.
now it has been 5-6 months since I stopped Propecia. Results:
-I’m richer, 50 $ a month is not cheap.
-I don’t lose more hair than when I was on Propecia (I don’t think the medication was working quite well on me)
-My libido is up (I like to have sex everyday, rarely more than once a day, but still it is an improvement)
-My dick is also up! My woodies have been improving ever since I stopped the medication. Erection is always sufficient to allow vaginal penetration and it seems to get harder with every passing week.
-i have a much better control over my ejaculation
-THE BEST NEWS : yesterday, I got my first FULL erection (95-100%) in about three years. I think this mostly because I stopped Propecia and also because I restarted my old kegels routine.
My advice to you Tyler: stop taking this crap. I no longer mind about loosing my hair (anyway I don’t lose more than most of the guys that are my age). Even if I go bald, that’s not going to keep me from getting the girls want. I think that overall wellbeing and self confidence are the only things that are important to get the girls. having erection difficulties sure impaired my self confidence more than any kind of baldness could.