Went to the Acupuncturist for my Premature Ejaculation

Heres a little background information. I am 21, have terrible PE where I can’t last for more then a few thrusts, which makes me anxious, which gives me ED. I’m a good looking guy, and avoid sex completely because its just too embarrasing for me. I’m physically fit and very active. I have tried many different things to help with the problem but nothing has seemed to work. I had my first appointment 2 weeks ago where I had a meridian stress assessment, which is running an electric current through the meridians in yoru hands and feet. Then the acupuncture. It cost $150 the first visit, and $60/visit after that. I also bought these Tribulus Synergy herbs which are supposed to help with the PE.

Had my 2nd visit yesterday, and still haven’t noticed any difference. I got a Fleshlight stamina training unit to track progress. I have noticed that I involuntarily contract my PC muscles which seems like leads to me blowing my load too early. I must have trained my body to cum quickly, because I used to masterbate constantly when I was younger…so its has learned problem. Is there a way to untrain my PC from contacting involuntarily? I am also uncut.

Have you tried edging? Edging is when you jack off ALMOST to the point of no return and then stop jacking. When the urge to cum subsides, start jacking again. Keep that up as long as possible.

Can you jack off “more than a few thrusts”?

Have you tried desensitizing creams, such as Studd 100 or Indian Gold or maybe while your having sex don’t put to much thought behind it, think about something else.

I’ve tried edging and it doesn’t help. I even prematurely ejaculate when masterbating.

desensitizing creams seem like a temporary fix that probably wouldn’t work. Its not the sensation, but the involuntary vise like contraction of my PC

so I decided to give it a go and got laid on saturday. I came when she was giving me a handjob…ugh but I squeezed the hell out of my PC and only a little cum came out. I still had an alright hard on so I put on a condom and went at it. I was going for a couple minutes, but just lost the erection.

I can’t even begin to describe how depressed and angry this makes me because I don’t know how to fix it!!!!

Mighty5 I know how you feel because you could have been describing me in your first post - good looking, young, active and healthy, but scared of sex due to PE.

Let me tell you that you can get through it - it will just take a fair bit of time and effort, but you CAN do it.

Just decide to give sex away for awhile, not worry about it and start REALLY practicing when you masturbate. Take a positive mindset that with time, you will overcome the problem.

Do a few searches on this site for overcoming premature ejaculation and the various techniques - such as ‘arousal scale’ from 1 to 10, deep breathing, kegels, reverse kegels etc. And start putting them into practice. You can overcome a PE problem without resorting to de-sensitizing creams or anything else unnatural - you can do it naturally.

Practice masturbating and not coming for at least 30 minutes (and all through masturbation concentrate on keeping your arousal under control using the above techniques) - just keep doing this over and over (only once per day though) to re-train yourself.

I had a serious PE problem to the point where I had to break up with a girlfriend (would come within 5 seconds of penetration and then couldn’t get another hard on for ages). I didn’t have sex again for probably at least 6 months but I really trained hard during masturbation (as well as doing enlargement exercises) and then decided I was ready - I had sex with this girl I really liked and lasted a good 10 to 15 minutes. For some this may not sound like much (and I am working to gain total control over ejaculation so I can last for hours) but it was SO GOOD that I lasted that long - now I am really relaxed and confident in my ability to last (which is probably the most important thing - Prem. Ejac can be a very circular problem: come too quickly —> get anxious and worried —> come even quicker next time —> get stressed and depressed etc.)

You can do it, good luck

I have this problem too. Its very hard for me to keep going when I havent got sex in more than a couple of days. I only last 5 to 10 minutes, and trying hard. My girl wont come in less than 15 minutes. Sometimes its ok and we start over, but most of the times she getss pissed off and we dont do it again. I dont know what to do.

I got laid again last night and only lasted for 30 seconds or so, then couldn’t get it up after that. I’ve been reading a few articles that REALLY hit the nail on the head for me. The article is basically about over masterbation through puberty leading to PE and erection problems.

Over-masturbation during puberty and PC muscle exercises cause this teenager’s premature ejaculation upon penetration for no more sexual orgasm -Why?

I don’t know what to do anymore. Its not just the PE, but the weak erection that also worries me.

This actionlove website is complete hogwash. You actually read that?

I just did a search for PC muscle control and it took me to that site. Why is it bs?

Doc Lin is accurate with a good 8% of his information. The rest of it?

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Why the sun does in fact rise in the East! Is you check to Thunder’s in the mail?

I had another acupuncture visit today, and I think this is going to be my last. I told the Dr. How I noticed that a major problem with me PE had to do with the inability to control my PC muscle from contracting when aroused. She said that was an important peice of information for her, then went absolutely apeshit with needles in my ears. She also told me a good way to stop the PE is by edging and told me to buy the book “Taoist Secrets of Love: Cultivating Male Sexual Energy” by Mantak Chia

I have the exact same problem themight5, my PC muscle contracts involuntary anytime my head is aroused. I even try to do reverse kegels while masturbating, but that doesn’t seem to work.