2 difficult questions for veterans

Hi guys,

Im a bit of difficult situation. Im gaining like hell with jelqing and stretching but I keep getting hard I tried everything all of your tips, a long break of 1 month and no porn didnt do the trick it only seemed to make it worse now I cant even stretch while getting hard.

Now I got 2 questions:

1) I now gained almost 2cm and I need another 0.6cm to get my ultimate goal. You guys need to know how frustrating it is that I was doing so well and now I want to PE but my mind doesnt want too. Now If I switch to another PE method and I want to change to hanging. If Im switching to hanging while I be able to cement or stay at this BP length or will my jelqing gains dissapear as I stop jelqing? I want to change because I dont see a way out and I dont want to lose the gains and maybe even gain with another method.

2) Can someone explain the basics of hanging? What equipment do I need, how much time do I start hanging and what wheights and does someone has a routine for me?

Please help me I need help badly because im out of options.

Thanks in advance

Why not use the search function Type in basic hanging and all the info is right there.

Getting hard during exercise, is a mind thing, I think. I sometimes have no problem, sometimes many.

Far as hanging. Have you looked here?
Hanging 101

Of course its a mind thing but Ive literally tried anything. Most important question do you think hanging while cement my jelqing gains as long as I need to get back into jelqing. Ive feel like my whole family needs to die or something very very terrible has to happen before I dont have the need to get hard while jelqing.

Ive tried ice bath, hurting myself (not extreme) , breaks of 1 month, no porn, many porn, no masturbating, many masturbating. Nothing works. Im feeling very down but still getting hard

Try waiting it out, or edging. In the extreme case, jerk off and blow your load. Wait for your boner to go away, then kegel.

Ive read that thread indeed but its so much information. Ive read it 3 times now and its too much to be clear information. I got 0% information on how to hang. I understand that you build up very slow with warmups, less weights is always better. But how I hang specifically I dont understand the whole tread because english isnt my language.

If you’re gaining, don’t change anything!!!

This!!!!

If your gaining what’s the problem?

Also you don’t NEED to gain anymore. You WANT to gain more. Don’t get into a mental funk about gaining. Your gaining so just go with the flow.

Im not gaining anymore because I cant jelq anymore. Im gonna give it this 2 weeks if I dont get 1 good session I need to figure out something else.

I want to jelq but I cant. I think the skin right under my glans (not the foreskin) grew and that made my sessions impossible. I cant get a good grip while jelqing.

Im very motivated, I love jelqing but I cant do it anymore. Im out of ideas.

Again im gonna try it 2 weeks if I dont get 1 good session I think im gonna go surgery to circumcise myself or get rid of the excessive skin. I really dont want too but I dont see other options. You have to understand how frustrating it is that everyone says keep jelqing but It just wont work. I know if I can continue like I always im praying for that but it just wont work anymore.

Getting hard is no longer the problem its my skin im afraid.

:wtf:

You change your story almost directly in-line with whatever the active thread on the forum at the time is. You can’t possibly be serious…

What is my change of story? First the problem was that I was getting hard every time. Now I didnt had that problem anymore or at least not every single time and I wasnt hard but still couldnt stretch or jelq. I took a good look and I think my foreskin or the skin right under the glans and under the foreskin was the problem after all.

Thats not change of story thats just something I figured out. Why would I lie or change my story? Whats my benefit from that? Im here to change my dick not to post funny stories or to fool you guys. I seriously need help.

Is it OK that I dont know for sure whats going on and then I ask myself questions how in the fuck is it possible then I could jelq without problems for almost 9 months and gained almost 2cm so close to my goal and suddenly its impossible to stretch or jelq or do anything what I did before?

I know im insecure about a lot of things thats why Im here but there is no need to say something like that. You guys post a lot of reply that doesnt make sense at all too like you guys didnt read at all. Then I will tell them in a nice way and still give them a shoutout because they took the time to read my problem and reply to it.

This comment made me very sad, you dont know how I feel really about this whole situation PE was a safe spot for me and it all falls down. More then a month now. I could find a rest moment in the day to escape my fucked up life. Im working 24/7 every day to fix that and every day I got another struggle and not PEing makes that 10 times more horrible

I’m sorry your feelings got hurt. I just reread every single one of your threads. I stand by my statement. You are all over the place. You’ve gotten every bit of advice that knowledgeable and trustworthy members have to offer. In most of your threads, just like our PM’s; you ask for opinion, and then argue the answer. I can’t help anymore. I apologize.

I wish you the best of luck. Truly.

I’m sorry your feelings got hurt. I just reread every single one of your threads. I stand by my statement. You are all over the place.

I ask a lot of question because I get my answers a lot of times but it didnt solve the problem I have. I still cant jelq properly. Is it weird that I keep asking questions to people who have been PEing for a longer time then me?

You’ve gotten every bit of advice that knowledgeable and trustworthy members have to offer.

Yeah right, and I appreciate that a lot but again my problem didnt solve and I will keep being annoying and active on this forum (Is what you think of me) till I found a solution that works for me.

In most of your threads, just like our PM’s; you ask for opinion, and then argue the answer. I can’t help anymore. I apologize.

And with PMs I ask something and I dont get the answer I asked for. Its hard for me to talk english all the time because I didnt learned it at school. So If I ask something or try to explain something you guys think I mean something else. This leads to misunderstanding. Im not arguing I just ask the question in a other form.

I wish you the best of luck. Truly.

Thanks, and again thanks for replying but the way you talked to me , youve got a wrong idea about who I am and what I do in life. You see me as an annoying kid who asked too much questions and its always something else.

On my side it feels like I have a big problem because PE gave me a lot of confidence,hope and rest in dark days and everything you guys say to me wont solve my problems. Im out of options so thats why im asking everything. Hope you understand.

[/QUOTE] one of your threads. I stand

Circumcision, just to jelq seems crazy to me, but hey if you want to go get cut, that’s up to you. You will spend more money and time on this than you would if you just bought a pump or extender to get yourself the 2 more cm you want. Just measure your girth, order the right cylinder and try it for a while, you may be surprised. Circumcision may not even solve your problem, and it takes months to recover before your going to be able to pull on your dick again… You will probably loose all your gains in the process and be back to where you started 6 months from now when you may be able to resume PE, assuming you don’t have any complications.

Yeah youre probably right but as now I dont see other options related to PE methods only hanging. Ive spend more then 5 hours last week searching everything for hanging but its hard to understand because my english is very bad especially with reading. Hanging is a seriously option but I dont like the wrapping part of the penis and I heard stories your penis gets ugly.

Im gonna try this week and next week for jelqing. I give it my all every day and if its still very bad and I cant get 1 good session im gonna focus on hanging. Those session are more relaxing too I think. You just have to wait 20 mins.