Advice I wish someone had given me when I first started.

Great post as always TG!

I would definitely put in Thoughtfulgold as (insert guru here). The work you’re doing, the commitment and experience you have and the gains you’ve made all combine to solidly put you in that position. The posts you make, and care you have for others in the community is amazing. You’re a major part of why this forum is so well thought of and why us young guns see gains, so with that said, thank you!

To TG! Cheers!

If I could tell myself something when I began my first PE journey, it would be something like this:

1. Don’t get caught up in the numbers. No one measures correctly and even if they do, everyone lies. Dick tales (ah woo ooh) are exactly like fish stories. Any time you hear girls comparing dick stories, they’re lying.

2. Average is better than being an outlier. Our bodies are made to match and evolution has created us this way. If she doesn’t like your dick, leave her. Girls don’t like being treated as a piece of meat neither should you.

3. Learn some good moves. Remember how some unattractive girls can rock your world because they are so good at sex? How you never expected it but she just could do things that kept you crawling back? You thought she’s not much to look at but damn she could fuck! You would likely pick her over a much hotter girl with a clamp vagina just because she could give you that pornstar sex? Do that. Learn more. Read books. Learn the signals. Learn about psychology. Understand the female psyche. Rock her world. She’ll forget about anyone else, I promise. Be Don Juan Fucking de Marco and don’t worry about that other shit. Envision your self as Antonio Banderas when your having sex. You’ll be golden.

4. Learn how to listen. Just shut the fuck up and listen.

5. As far as PE goes. Jelq. Jelq like the wind. Don’t be ashamed of doing it. Enjoy it and reap the benefits.

I can say I tried HGH but…I can’t tell you where from. It was a small, no name company I think. But…

The pills seemed to work. However the main ingredient was L-Arginine far and away. And when I ran out of the HGH supplement I switched to L-Arginine 1000mg and got what felt like the exact same effect.

The effect was minimal. Good bloodflow,and it also gave a good placebo effect. But the cost for me didn’t justify keeping up with it.

I do what I can. This post was dedicated to the me from years ago that didn’t have anyone giving good advice so I’m just trying to be there for the guys that could be that same version of me back then.

I’m no guru; I’m just good at keeping track of my mistakes.

1. Numbers are crap. Buy toys. I bought a toy I decided I wanted to be. Last time I had sex with my partner she fit less of me in than said toy. I picked a goal I could see, feel and touch. This will help you visualize.

2. Dead on.

3. Learn moves and hone them from partner to partner. You will be a legend before you bulge and after.

4.Dead on.

5. If you ain’t got a jacked up wrist.

Edit: +1- I need a new toy to use as my visual inspiration.

Humble yes, conceded no!

That’s really what it is though no? You have more experience than probably 98% of guys on here, you learn from mistakes, you pass it along. Ha-ha just accept the compliment

wow great

Appreciate the first hand knowledge, I lost EQ for up to two weeks while pumping. I knew that wasn’t right, so I took a break. It’s nice too see that was a good idea, and yes EQ n frequency came back. I can definitely say, your advice about listening to your penis is spot on in my case.

Great advice. Thank you!

Thank you for all the advice! And mostly, thank you for caring!

Hey, someone ought to. *chuckles* Hope it helps in your journey.

Great advice. Unfortunately for me, I didn’t take it seriously enough. I started clamping after 5 month with newbie. At first it looks very promising then I realized I didn’t get any real gain. And I can no longer do 100 rep of wet jelq before I see blood drop. I had to take 3 weeks off PE. Am back to newbie I hope to start seeing gain again.

Thanks for your advice.

All I can do is try to help.

I wished I could’ve taken advice when I started xD damn I would have been to my goal and back by now. Those years you don’t get back though, so no regrets here

Really good advice. Newbie or not should read it all the time.