Am I messing up my chances of gains

Hi Guys,

Another question from the Bamixgee, right when I first started PE a few weeks ago I had the house to myself, I could take my time with my 500 Jelqs and do them at a good pace, but now my wife is home all the time and I find it hard to make the time to do a long workout without looking like I am up to something wierd in the bathroom. Anyway what I want to know is I do my jelqs quiet rapid at about 1 sec each, I am going for length mainly anyway will I still make good progress at this speed, I know they say slower is better but I only want length for now, even if I only gain 0.5 inch in girth that would be fine as I am currently 5.5” that would take me to 6” as far as length goes I want to end up with a 9” BP tool. I do hope her being around does not affect my gains, I still do my streches twice a day and 500 jelqs 5 days a week even though they are rapid. For those of you wondering why I do not tell her, she would think I am crazy, but I never question her when she says she wants bigger boobs but ther you go. Anyhow please someone let me know if what I am doing is still ok cheers….

I am doing a lot of PE with others in the house. I take a magazine and say I will be in the bathroom a while. They are used to me spending a lot of time there :)

We’ve had the debate of jelq-reps versus jelq-time before, and I say that it is the total time that counts, not the rep count. Therefore I would say stay with the slower jelqing and do it for minimum 10 minutes.
Others will tell you a different story.

Oden

I am a newbie as well. Just over 3 weeks now and I like to to fast jelqs as well. I do 700 reps every morning in the shower. I am real happy with my results so far. The wife does not know I am doing them but she has mentioned a few times this month on my size and hardness. At one point I got a pretty good moan out of her on insertion. I think these fast ones are working for me nicely!

bamixgee, what % erection are you jelqing at for length?

Bluenun,

A very low level of erection I would say 30%, I am quiet good at keeping blood level low in the Penis while I jelq, a few years ago when I first did jelqs I used to be rock hard, but I knew nothing then and getting a woody I thougth was part of the pocess but now I can control it. When I finish my 500 reps even though I am not fully errect my dick hangs like a huge lump of meat and is quiet heavy and thick, so it feels like something has been achieved, who knows.

I like to jelq fast but I keep it at 1 per second or slower. Man, dude! Your arm but be a blurr in action! Your gonna wear a calous on that thang!

Try telling her Bam. You’d be surprised. I know I was. But if you decide to still do the stealth PE thing I would say if you only want length doing them fast is fine. Doing them slower is better for girth.

cool thanks guys.

Room to grow,

Thanks for the support, but if I tell her she will just say I am doing it because she told me about her Ex partner who she claims was so large it hung down near his calf’s when he sat on a chair or was so long it felt like it was cumming up inside her belly, I do not believe her for a min he was that big, I estimate that would be 13-14 inches flacid which would make him a world record holder but I do not want her linking what I do now to him, anyways I did experiment 2 years ago with these PE methods but was not as educated as I am getting now and for the record I must admit when she told me about her ex it re-lit my desire for a large tool, I am 7.5-7.75 BP dependant on errection level, I hope for 9” BP and do hope this is possible for me, she may say the only reason I am doing this is jealousy, if I tell her, in parts she may be correct but I have always wanted a large tool and now I am going to do something about it, I am so glad there are others like me on this site, I thought I was sick in the mind but I now I feel normal cheers again guys.

I actually like the fact that my wife knows nothing about my activities in the shower. This way, when I get compliments or reactions from her, and I have been getting quite a few, I know they are not coerced or tainted in any way.

That is how I feel, I am starting to notice when we have sex sometimes she pulls back saying, easy, like it hurts, you know you are making gains when that happens.

Yeah! My wife let out a AAAAHHHEEE the other night on insertion and last night she commented how hard it was.

Yeah! I like hearing that stuff!

Believe it dude. There are guys like that out there. At one time when I visited the sauna at my university campus a few years back one of our professors were sitting there reading a newspaper. Hid dick was hanging way down to his calves. It was really thick as well. I’d say he was at least 10” flaccid but probably longer. It was a stunning experience. I should add that I am used to seeing big dicks. Some of my closest friends are big and also one of my classmates who joined me in the sauna on this occasion has a very large tool with a massive flaccid hang (approx 7”) but this professor guy was incredible. I wish I had a picture of him sitting there. The whole Thunders community would be amazed :)

WOW!! well maybe she is not exagerating, LOL well I will continue on my quest…:-)

Point taken. Good luck with your gains, Bam.