DAMN This stuff really works

Why do men continue to push their wives/girlfriends for comparisons with ex’s?? This is definitely one instance in which ignorance is bliss.
Who cares what her past lovers were packing? They’re not in the picture now.

Although these thoughts cross every man’s mind, big and small alike, it it best left at that. A thought - that should never be verbalised. Never never never never. Sorry - had to emphasize that. It is just plain wrong on so many levels. For one thing, you’ll be seen as very insecure. And insecurity in the bedroom is not an option for any man.

sam1966 - I would drop the issue with your wife. Just move on. I will say one thing however - she could have lied and spared your feelings. My ex-girlfriend would always ask me if she had gained weight, and even if she had I would always lie and tell her that she was gorgeous. In one way I was lying because her weight did fluctuate at times, but in another way I was being authentic as I did truly love her and think she was gorgeous, no matter what her weight.

There’s much more to being a real man than having a big unit. But of course a big unit can’t hurt, and that’s why we’re all here.

Sure, it’s a sign on insecurity to ask, but I bet it would feel damn good if she said “You are, handsome, by a mile!” Perhaps having the satisfaction of knowing you’re the biggest is worth the risk of finding out you’re not. Some man has to be her biggest, right? Even if you’re small, there’s a chance you could be that man.

Of course, that doesn’t factor in the possibility that she may just invent a bigger guy to mess with your head.

hbgreek:

I don’t see the point in asking. If she says “yes” then she might be lying, and if she says “no” then she might be lying. And if she says no, and she isn’t lying, then well…then it’s out in the open that you aren’t her biggest.

Incredible gains by the way.

I completely agree with you Futebol: it’s a lose-lose situation. However, I understand why he NEEDS to ask. This is clearly something that’s playing upon his mind constantly, and so, for better or for worse, he needs to at least attempt to get the truth. In the end, it’s probably given him more drive to achieve his goals with PE.

Let me ‘splain my reason for asking. My ex-wife was a cheating whore. She had several affairs, she was always lying to me, I didn’t trust her. Period. I got divorced, went through a few other women, and eventually ended up with my girlfriend. As I said, I could tell when we first started having sex that her ex had to be larger, because when she was controlling the motion, I kept coming out. She was obviously used to a bigger dick. That had never happened with any of my prior girlfriends, and that made me wonder if I really satisfied her. It wasn’t a big deal because I knew I was average. I wasn’t small, I was simply average, so I didn’t dwell on it, I just wondered at times if she was really satisfied with my smaller dick. On a couple of occasions over the last five years, the issue of dick size came up, and she always said that she didn’t know if I was big or small, she just knew she liked my dick.

Because of the mistrust issues with my ex, I’ve made it clear to my new wife that I always want absolute honesty. If I have bad breath, I want her to tell me. If she thinks I’m getting fat, I want her to tell me. If I ever find out she has been lying to me, even a little white lie that has no consequences, I would have a very hard time trusting her after that. She was telling me that she has always been completely honest with me, and that she has never and would never lie to me, and that’s when I told her that I knew that wasn’t true. I told her that I knew her husband had to have a bigger dick than mine, but she’s lied to me on a couple of occasions about it over the past five years. The she got quiet, and she paused, and she said that it’s no big deal, and that she didn’t want to hurt my feelings. I told her that I’d rather know the truth and have hurt feelings that to have her lie to me, because I can handle knowing that my dick is smaller than her ex’s, but I can’t handle her lying to me. So she paused again and said that when we first started dating she remembered thinking I had a small dick. As I said, that caught me off guard and blew me away. I was expecting her to say it was smaller than her ex’s, not just plain small. That’s how I ended up here.

So, yes, maybe I worked hard for that beating, but still, I’d rather know the truth about what she’s thinking than to know she’s lying to me. Truth and trust are more important to me than my feelings. Prior to the moment of honesty, I knew she had been lying, and now I know the truth. It wasn’t what I was expecting, but at least I know the truth.

So now you know the “truth”, which is all well and good and what you say you want. However, after she did exactly what you wanted her to do and tell you the truth about your size, you are now punishing her by withholding sex from her. Nice. Why should she be honest with you about anything in the future if you are going to punish her for it when you don’t like her answer?

Completely off topic.

Hey futebol what country you are man, US?? I don’t get it the use of your Avatar name.

Hey Sam1966 - Batcave nailed it. You should go apologize for your actions and thank her for being the honest woman that you want her to be. Your insecurity over your dick is way more of a turnoff to her than the size of your unit. You have found a way to grow your dick - enjoy it and enjoy the changes in her reactions to it. It’s all good now!

Hmmm.. You guys are right. I hadn’t really thought of that. Thanks.

Just flexing your hip while seated or sitting normally can change you erect length.
I gain like 1.5 or 2cm just by flexing my hip out while seated, maybe you did that and it made a modest gain seem crazy big!
Truth is the tissue, or even the ligament can’t expand that much in a week without being destroyed.

Anyways, I hope you hit that 8” mark, however try to consider girth in the equation more, if not more than length, that is what she would notice much more!

Cheers

Then you have real gains! Congrats, amazing!

So Sam1966. Whats your routine?

As a newbie, I’m happy to know that PE can truly be accomplished. I am super new here and looking forward to getting started. It’s also nice to know there are real people to discuss such things with. My wife says she is quite happy with what I have but as we all know I have to be happy with it too.

Thanks for the boost of confidence!

I think if you have an open an honest relationship there’s absolutely nothing bad or wrong about discussing size with your spouse.
Just be prepared to take it like a man if you get an answer you don’t like. Fortunately, my wife had already commented freely
about what a horrible bed partner her ex was. He was very selfish and only interested in pleasing himself. She always told me the
difference was night and day and how amazing I was in comparison. So, the size issue was more a blow to my ego and not a
tangible obstacle to pleasing her. It just made me more determined to do it for myself and reach my full potential.

Remember, never let your size get you down or interfere with your confidence. If you start believing you are an inferior lover because of
your size that’s where the danger lies. You become what you believe you are. Just believe you are the best she will ever have
and you will be.

Same here. I’d rather have the issues out in the clear than suspect she might be hiding something for me (for whatever reason), that just gets in my head. It’s easier for me to deal with the truth than to deal with suspicions.