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Edging 101

Originally Posted by RickM
Wanking is not the same as having sex with a person who really turns you on. You can edge ‘til the cows come home sometimes, but when having sex with your GF, you are soooooo turned on by what’s happening that you cum very fast. That’s normal. Edging does help VERY much. It teaches you control that you wouldn’t otherwise have. Don’t give it up. You’ll get better with your GF, but have to be patient. Believe me, you’ll be MUCH worse off without it. Well that’s my thoughts anyway.

And that’s the danger with porn. You can end up being so turned on by it that you can end up not being able to have good sex without it. It’s all about conditioning. Your mind is conditioned to have good sex with a GF. That’s good. Build on that.

Yes, but position can.
Tell me, when having sex what part your penis feels it the most? The less sensitive top half or the mores sensitive bottom half?


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I come way easier in certain positions than in others. For example, I can last very long in standing doggy style position (me standing, girlfriend in regular doggy style pose on the edge of the bed). However, missionary pose with her legs on my shoulders makes me cum a lot faster if the pace is fast. Keep in mind that I enjoy both poses very very much. That’s a thing to consider, find a pose that you enjoy and that lets you last longer at the same time. Also, try with ballooning, I’m about to start that as well. Doing kegels daily goes without saying, of course.

Originally Posted by kingpole
Yes, but position can. Tell me, when having sex what part your penis feels it the most? The less sensitive top half or the mores sensitive bottom half?


For me, it’s the glans and inner foreskin — the bit above my circ scar and below the glans. Many guys reckon their frenulum is the most sensitive, but not me. I suspect it was screwed up when I was cut.

And that’s what I like about restoration — I’ve grown some of my inner foreskin back which adds to my pleasure. The lower half of my shaft is not very sensitive at all. My glans and inner foreskin were not all that sensitive at all before I restored meaning when I jerked off, I really had to beat it hard to get anywhere. Now, slow and gentle is absolutely great. In masturbation, gently wrapping the head and inner foreskin with my well-lubricated hand is brilliant.

As for position, the best one is the one that turns me on most at the time and this varies from day to day. As they say, variety is the spice of life. So long as my glans and inner foreskin are being stimulated, I’m fine.

Originally Posted by RickM
For me, it’s the glans and inner foreskin — the bit above my circ scar and below the glans. Many guys reckon their frenulum is the most sensitive, but not me. I suspect it was screwed up when I was cut.

And that’s what I like about restoration — I’ve grown some of my inner foreskin back which adds to my pleasure. The lower half of my shaft is not very sensitive at all. My glans and inner foreskin were not all that sensitive at all before I restored meaning when I jerked off, I really had to beat it hard to get anywhere. Now, slow and gentle is absolutely great. In masturbation, gently wrapping the head and inner foreskin with my well-lubricated hand is brilliant.

As for position, the best one is the one that turns me on most at the time and this varies from day to day. As they say, variety is the spice of life. So long as my glans and inner foreskin are being stimulated, I’m fine.

Yes, variety is the spice of life.


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Can I just ask, is masturbating right after finishing the newbie routine a bad thing?

Originally Posted by Sam init
Can I just ask, is masturbating right after finishing the newbie routine a bad thing?

I reckon it depends on your recovery period. If you’re younger, you can probably turn your mind to sex things sooner than if you’re older. Also, if it was just another wank and nothing special, you can probably cum again much more slowly than if you literally blew your load. So, some say edging is better, because you don’t cum and, therefore, it does not affect your recovery period at all. The issue is, if you jerk off, how soon before you will happily go back to PE. If you haven’t recovered, you’re more likely to give it a miss. That make sense?

Originally Posted by Sam init
Can I just ask, is masturbating right after finishing the newbie routine a bad thing?

No it is a good thing, and cum if you want to it won’t affect gains.


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The only thing it might affect is your ability to get super erect as your sex drive will be lower and you won’t be able to show off your bulge as much ;)


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Originally Posted by Herballist
The only thing it might affect is your ability to get super erect as your sex drive will be lower and you won’t be able to show off your bulge as much ;)

Well that refraining thing works for about a week then testosterone levels depreciate. Best to have regular ejaculations. Not ejaculating can lend to prostate issues. It is not the refraining from ejaculation that makes you bigger. It is the length of the actual edging or ballooning session that may lend to gains.


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Edging owns. It is one of the best feelings in the world when you get used to not “ending” it.


Time to measure girth soon... previously 4.5", been targeting girth for months!

Originally Posted by Blakmajic
I think this deserve a sticky, if this site has it!Possibly in the tutorial section

:rolling: A sticky?!? We’re discussing cum and he says it deserves a sticky. LOL

Originally Posted by devilknight666
:rolling: A sticky?!? We’re discussing cum and he says it deserves a sticky. LOL

EVERYTHING deserves a sticky :D

Edit: I don’t even know what I meant by that…


Time to measure girth soon... previously 4.5", been targeting girth for months!

Originally Posted by Herballist
EVERYTHING deserves a sticky :D

Edit: I don’t even know what I meant by that..

When as the last time you blew your load?


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Damn, I couldn’t answer that. I have been edging for about a year it seems lol.

My balls have been through the whole color spectrum ;)


Time to measure girth soon... previously 4.5", been targeting girth for months!

Edging has to be the most underestimated aspect of pe


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