Edging 101

You do get use to it though, longest I have gone was 3 hours.

I shall try for 4 hours one day. Wish me luck!

What….how did you last that long???????Amazing!!!Good work dude.

I find edging so hard. There really is a point of no return.

jelqfanatic - The thing is — so what if you make a mistake!

Big deal, you probably learned something in the process.

That’s the whole point about edging, you need to listen to your body. It takes practice. One day you’ll get it.

aimingmassive. I didn’t set out to masturbate, you know with some kind of visual or mental stimulation. I just watched tv and surfed the web, whilst masturbating. It got really hard to balance at the end I came soo close to the PONR, but I managed to step it down, there is nothing worse than cumming when you don’t want to/don’t expect it.

Ejaculation should be on your terms.

I’m I edging wrong if I lose my erection for a moment after PONR?

No, it your just thinks your finished. Keep practicing it is all about longevity. When your dick is only use to say 2 minutes of stimuli then it will poop out if it goes past this point. Keep working at it.

Hmm this is very interesting. I’ve been doing a variation of this for years without knowing what it was good for; whenever I have a lot of time on my hands I would masturbate for hours. While watching porn I would stroke my member until I was about to cum, stop, then repeat again and again. I’d switch videos every three or four cycles. I was going to stop because I feared this might lead to premature ejaculation. I’m very happy now :) :) edging feels incredible

Now that I have an aim/goal while edging, I have two clarifying questions:

1) is it better to pass the PONR and then kegel to withhold ejaculation, or is it better stop all stimulation just before the PONR so that there is no need to kegel?

2) how much time should I allow between stopping and then restarting masturbating? I’ve found that if I start even a few moments after the ejaculation feeling passes I can get back to the PONR in less than a minute, whereas if I give myself longer I can space them out farther. Is the goal to stay right on the edge, or to learn to gain better control over individual ejaculations? What will benefit me greatest?

THANKS! This thread is great

Your doing great, spacing wanking out is good for you in my opinion. Sometimes I allow myself to go completely flaccid and work it up again.

Thanks,

I’m still curious, however, whether it is more beneficial to masturbate to the point where I can refrain from ejaculating only by kegeling

OR

Should stop just before this moment (PONR)

Any insight would be greatly appreciated

I stop before PONR. I don’t kegel to stop the ejaculation I kegel to get a bigger pump by either reverse or regular kegels. Or erect kegel jelqs.

Eventually with practice I think most guys can do this.

This exercise will increase your length and girth too right?

I’ve been doing it on my off-days and I notice girth change

KP, awseome post I’ve been wondering what edging was for a while Thanks.

Now you know, right or are you still in the dark about it, hehehe?