Edging 101

that sounds nonsense, EQ means endurance for me!

Care to elaborate on that?

They are not the same thing. Your cock could be a diamond and if you bust in 30 seconds then you don’t have endurance, you have good EQ.

It’s a stretch but I suppose the argument could be made that if you had good EQ then you’d be able to go again after ejaculating, thus EQ could be considered endurance :-k .

mmm, thats true, sorry I mistook the expresion.

Tell me something, the sexual endurance improves going slowly beating your log, then when you stand for a long you beat a little bit quicker, and so, isn`t it?

I had no results with ”a fast beating and then stop before the Point, to rest a minute and again” thats how edging is explained here!

You may do a search for “ballooning”. That is more effective than edging in my opinion. Basically it’s just keeping yourself steady right below the point of no return instead of racing right to it, stopping, and repeating.

oh, what you mean with that is: walking just a step before the Point, making the organ feel like its just about to cum, but keeping that arousal level huh?

Like going up slowly and when you reach, keep a slow rythm and being constantly a second before the Point? Is that ballooning?

That’s my understanding of it, yes. You may want to stay away from the glans when you’re really close because it’s really easy to inadvertently jizz.

So, thats the true way of edge, isn’t it?

Ok, I usually masturbate without lotion, but I assumed it was said to use to to simulate a vagina.

I just tried this, and found it very tough to come even when touching my frenelum. I went about 30 minutes until I started stroking my spot under my balls.

My question is, if I find it easier to cum without hand lotion, would it not be better to do it that way, so I could continuously get close to PONR and back down? I think that is the most important part of edging, getting before that point and come back to it a lot, correct me if I’m wrong here.

Also, whats the consensus on throwing my cock into the ADS or stretching in general post edging?

I’m only edging for 20-30 minutes so far.

I’ve been doing this my whole life, & have been surprised talking to friends, most of which never do it. Edging comes naturally to me. I would add from the OP that you don’t necessarily have to stop stroking when you get near the PONR. Just slow down your stroke a little bit. The intense pleasure should still be there, just slightly less intense & not enough to make you cum. & then repeat.

It doesn’t matter what technique you use. Edging is all about getting the point of arousal just before orgasm, & riding that point for as long as you can. How you get there & maintain that feeling doesn’t make a difference imo.

I think you are getting too close to the PONR. In fact, it sounds like you are actually getting to the point of no return. When you start having involuntary contractions, an orgasm is inevitable. To stop, you will have to stop what youre doing & stop all stimulation, & even then cum will still probably ooze out anyway & you might go soft. In this situation you will probably be able to get hard again quickly, but it’s a pretty big interruption. I don’t like big interruptions, I prefer to be able to stop things more subtly. You want to be just before this level of arousal where you begin getting involuntary contractions. Extremely aroused, very close to orgasm, but not so that your body is literally contracting & starting to give you one. Just get to the point where your dick is super sensitive & every stroke feels awesome, every stroke feels like that if you were just to alter the speed & intensity a tiny bit you would cum.

I don’t stop via kegelling ever, I stop by varying the intensity I’m fucking/stroking at.

I don’t think it improves blood flow permanently, but it does give you an increased erection temporarily. Just before you cum, your penis becomes slightly thicker, & the glans become engorged as far as they can go. Now, since your keeping your body in a state that is just before orgasm the entire time … your penis remains erect to its maximum capacity the entire time.

For the people with partners, I would edge with them. It’s hard because animal instinct kicks in even harder when you’re fucking. But if you can ride the feeling of near orgasm the entire sexual session … you will get immense pleasure, & so will she because you will be acting like an absolute beast. Every touch of her skin will drive you crazy, you will throw her around, you will be extremely intimate & passionate etc

I think I’ve had a dry orgasm before but I didnt get the same feeling as just a normal masturbation session. It was like a weak version of a full on orgasm with ejaculation and all, is this normal or do you guys feel the full on effect?

I dont get it, i thought you should pull in the pc muscle ( i mean squeeze ) the pc muscle when you are about to come so that strains the orgasm. I dont get it with the pushing out like when you are farting?

I have had a problem with edging to subdue PONR, while doing kegel clenching, clamp, and exercise. It doesn’t help at all, in fact, it helps to going in PONR right away because it gave me more sensitive feeling. I did stop stimulate it, do kegel workout to make PONR feeling goes away. After PONR feeling goes away, I started to stoke it again and PONR came back within 30 secs. It’s not good for me because you need to subdue PONR quickly while having sex with a girlfriend because most of girl doesn’t like wait for few mins till back to no feeling. I was told that longer than ten seconds to subdue PONR isn’t good, and girls will lose climax orgasm quickly.

After I read the orgasm master article provided by thunder member in few pages ago about try push pelvis floor like trying to fart or force let last drop of pee.

I gave it try, first five to ten minutes is a bit difficult. Once I got it and pushed it hard to desensitize my unit, ta da, I was able to masturbate for good 20 to 30 minutes without going to PONR. It instantly cured my problem. After 40 minutes, I accidentally let a half ounce of pee come out and trickled down my hand hahaha. I tried do that method but it kept peeing out and went into PONR quickly. I decided to ejaculate since I passed 45 mins mark which is good enough to me. I drank a lot of water, 8 glasses of water daily. Although, it’s only day one, will try again tmw or two days later to see the result is the same then I’ll stick to it.

Don’t get me wrong, I have been edging for roughly two months and kept struggling with PONR and kegel. I don’t masturbate that much due to busy life and privacy concerns.

I hope my story helps those fellas who have same problem as I.

Cheers!
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