Edging 101

On side note: I was able to masturbate quickly for 20 to 30 mins without reaching PONR (porn star humping speed wise) right after pelvis floor pump. Pelvis floor pump is reverse kegel pump right? Just making sure I get the term right for the future reference. I apologize for two posts in here, I was really excited about my result.

Why ejaculate first?

I have been edging for many years. I use to be able to edge in excess of a couple of hours. When I was much younger, say in my late teens, I would edge quite frequently. This paid dividends when I eventually married, because I had developed staying power. I always prided myself with the fact that I could bring my wife to climax almost every time. I very seldom finished before she did. This made for a GREAT sex life. You younger guys should not get yourself in the habit of masturbating and finishing quickly. I have a very close friend who finished quickly as a teen. His wife calls him her “two minute man.” I was nearly always able to last very long. Sometimes upwards to an hour or more. Now I am still able to edge for up to 30 minutes several times a week. I now find myself single, because of being widowed.

I was wondering if adding edging to my routine would be a Good idea when still aiming for more length or girth? I understand that cumming can be counterproductive to gains. Should I focus on achieving my desired size before moving on to edging?

I have been having an issue with the girl I just started seeing. I cum way too quick with her. She can only get off through penetration. I am used to wearing a condom with past women and I have never had an issue with having a hair trigger before. She isn’t as tight as my ex but I think the contributing factors are that I’m not used to no condom and I usually have tons of foreplay before fucking. With the new girl, she wants me to get up and get in. With my ex we had almost an hour of foreplay almost every time; And we fucked at least 4 times a week. So far the new girl and I have had sex 4 times in three weeks and only two minutes of foreplay.

I am considering just doing some edging with some maintenance jelqing to help with control and coming back to length and girth later.

I don’t think I’ll be with this girl for very long anyway (we are too different), but I want to have fun while I am with her.

Any thought from anyone?

In my opinion, edging is good for PE-ers as good as non-PE-ers and doesn’t really affect the gains. The only thing it can affect is cementing it, depends of someone really believe in something like cementing.

This technique can train You how to delay the shooting without long rests in sex, thick condoms, etc.

As for masturbate can minimize the gains: I think it won’t, neither do sex.

If really for you this is counterproductive, try edging during rest days. Jelqing also helps in keeping on track without cum, but it’s minor help.

I have read at a different site that edging influences an increase in testosterone level. This is in contrast to cumming which supposedly causes a decease in testosterone levels. In my younger years it was not unusual for me to have sex 5-7 times a week. After being widowed and remarrying, it was not unusual to go, some days, two or three times a day and that day after day.

I still edge several times a day, but go to PONR only every 3-5 days.

This was a brilliant guide on edging. Some sites/blogs advise kegeling to stop the orgasm, which I know now (from this post) is wrong :) .. Another thing to try is to reverse kegel (ie push out) some time before reaching the orgasm point, instead of pushing out at the very end, which is risky :) . Concentrate and you can feel it and vary the push intensity to counteract the orgasm urge - if that makes sense. And whilst have never thought of myself as gay or even bi, watching videos of cum is awesome when yr edging. Enjoy.

Hey forum, I would like to know what are the benefits of edging? Thanks.

It can be used to train you to read your body, and enable you to last longer during sex.

Edging makes my EQ go down, have anyone else been through the same?

I have ED. I can only get a semi erection and I need to masturbate continuously in order to maintain it.I don’t think edging itself reduces my EQ It actually increases it,

The problem I have been getting is that the lack of sleep from edging all night long every night for so many consecutive years has made me very tired. This makes it even more difficult to achieve semi erections so it’s like my EQ is lower. I tried rest days but the lack of blood flow just makes matters worse and my EQ gets much lower. Apart from being tired, it makes my EQ is higher.

Hey guys, I have some questions. So long story short, I had sex twice with girl i had no interest with, and i cum … let’s say 5 seconds after penetration (no foreplay).

So, now that i’m back in the game of PE, i started since yesterday to edge. I think i’m doing it right : I edge until i want to cum, then i stop, then i do it again (really hard to hold) then I stop, then i do it again (harder than before) then i stop, etc.

First question : Is that the good way ?

No, i didn’t cum since yesterday (an achievment to me haha). I want to make my brain used to not cum when I want to. Is that possible ? Then, when i’ll have sex, i will want to cum really quick, but my brain will be used to and will not cum. What do you think ?

Hey guys! I was wondering if edging 2-3 times a week for 30 mins (eventually building it up to 2 hrs max) can help me gain length? (Only edging with no other form of PE)

Any help would be appreciated, thanks!

Only edging? I think not, but you find it by yourself.

Maybe try edging with cock ring or other light clamp-like items. I’ve measured myself after 5mins of edging in hair tie and expansion is about 0.5cm in length and about 0.8cm in girth. Maybe this option of edging can promote growth.

In the meantime, try Newbie Routine- low erection jelqs and stretching would be better than edging.